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demarchii
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by TROY STUDLEY
I start my new job 2day at 9pm till 6am .........im nevous

Good lucksmile
I am not sure I'll ever do that particular nerveracking thing again. But you have my sympathies!
Dxxx
Actually, for me?
Jonathan Rhys-Myers. I was once stopped in Croydon and asked for his autograph by someone who didn't pause to think about whether JRM would BE in Croydon...
Dxxx
Thanks LC.
You're right. And that is the oddest thing, because for years I was an extrovert, a social animal, and never without something going on that required me to be life and soul of the party. In the last few years it has totally reversed and I find myself dreading social events. Like I say, once things get going I am much better...
I shall consider what you say muchlysmile And shall eye the forums for munches in the London area that I am able to attend!
Dxxx
Quote by VenusnMars
Dive in on here, get to know people via the net, have people get to know you, then try some social `munches`, they are a great confidance booster.
And welcome to the site biggrin
Venusxxx

Thanks:D
I'm very active on all sorts of forums all over the net. I've replied to a number of ads and had favourable response. I know from online cam use that males and females alike think I look great dressed or no:D Confidence isn't an issue really. But nevertheless - wham - the butterly tummy hits every time.
As it happens, a munch would be a classic case. I'd be absolutely awful. A total wallflower until I get myself settled. If people offered me food I'd break the landspeed record to the lavs as I'd be so nervous. Which makes no SENSE really, considering how confident I am in lots of other ways. I went to drama school and have never had stage fright that I can recall.
Nice site btw;)
Ok, this applies to not only swinging but to almost anything at all I do that is at all new or different.
I get nerves.
Nerves make me feel shaky, nauseous, and sleepy. They don't make me suffer from sexual incapability (phew) but they can make me really lack confidence. Does anyone else get this? No matter how many times I do something, meeting someone for the first few times can always make me feel a bit shaky.
Anyone got any tips to get over this? I'd like to actually really enjoy my experiences, and I find that the first few are always great when I get there but such a trial when I am actually en route.