sorry for the bad news fella
i recentley came out of a 2 year relationship with someone and no only too well how u are feeling,her reason for splitting up was " i love you but im not in love with you" classic !only a woman could say that lol
we spent 2 great years together and then she dropped that on me,
all the advice youve been giving is sound advice mate,you will feel crap for a while and will not be able to see a future for yourself and it will hurt bigtime but there does come a time when u wake up one day and think " u know what its her loss" and u will move on and the pain becomes a dull ache,try to tell yourself that u are the better person in this and try not to constantly wander what she is doin ,that will eat u up
try writing a letter to her expressin how u feel get all your emotions down on paper BUT DO NOT post the letter then in a couple of weeks read it to yourself and youll be amazed at how some things youd written are no longer relevant,some people like to get it all out there system by getting as low as they can I E playing all those sad songs that remind u of her etc and that can help,keep yourself busy and occupy your mind ,go out and have fun with your mates do whatever it takes,also comfort yourslef in the knowledge that maybe one day shell regret her decision but you will have moved on,i hope ive made sense in all this,it took me a while but im getting there now,it still hurts i wont lie to u but its no where near as painfull as it was and now i just feel resntment for her
if u fancy a natter anytime mate let me know,alot of folk dont realise this but us blokes hurt too sometimes and we can be sensitive aswell
good luck to u mate,u will get there i assure u
ill leave u with this
"theres nothing like the next one to gte u over the last one"
good luck
dale
