TY foxy, you're right... I just wondered if people could have 'best ever' on a swing date...thrilling sometimes, but best ever needs mental stuff too...
I'm not going to give up the swinging fun though, but approaching my 67th birthday with some trepidation
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friendlyjon
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 74
0 miles · Surrey
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Guidance please. Would you meet/play with someone from SH who refused to be identified in any way other than by a first name?
We're a couple trying to meet an 'extra' guy and found someone on the site who seemed suitable. He agreed to a 'drink and a chat' type of meeting in a pub, but when we said we would want to know his mobile number before we invited him into our home to play he refused to meet.
Previously we arranged to meet another guy for a drink, we got on very well and we all wanted to go back to our house for some fun. When we asked for his mobile number he deliberately gave us a wrong number, (I immediately called the number he gave and it didn't work).
Our reasoning is that if this unknown guy does anything really very nasty, needing say police intervention, then we should have a way for the police to trace him.
Are we being sensible or paranoid?
We're a couple trying to meet an 'extra' guy and found someone on the site who seemed suitable. He agreed to a 'drink and a chat' type of meeting in a pub, but when we said we would want to know his mobile number before we invited him into our home to play he refused to meet.
Previously we arranged to meet another guy for a drink, we got on very well and we all wanted to go back to our house for some fun. When we asked for his mobile number he deliberately gave us a wrong number, (I immediately called the number he gave and it didn't work).
Our reasoning is that if this unknown guy does anything really very nasty, needing say police intervention, then we should have a way for the police to trace him.
Are we being sensible or paranoid?
We tried both and a very personal choice, but Abfabs is quieter and more respectful - perhaps a bit English! Good on a Saturday (Couples)
We tried some clubs at Cap d'Agde this year too - more like fun4two - very upfront, noisy and quite crowded, highly active.
We would recommend AbFabs, nice atmosphere, easygoing but with the possibility of a small clique of regulars, easily avoided. Well worth going and very enjoyable.
We tried some clubs at Cap d'Agde this year too - more like fun4two - very upfront, noisy and quite crowded, highly active.
We would recommend AbFabs, nice atmosphere, easygoing but with the possibility of a small clique of regulars, easily avoided. Well worth going and very enjoyable.
