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1 month ago
Straight Male, 53
Straight Female, 53
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serendipty, you should be on the stage...lolIn all truth I am a studying Graphic Design student and I have recently recieved a new brief based on cults. After a hectic 2 days of research and brainstorming I stumbled upon dogging, a subject I knew existed but have very little knowledge on.
i read a statistic somewhere , it read.....80% of all lies start with " to tell you the truth..."
then again, i also read that 68% of all statiscics were just made up so draw your own conclusions.....
carparks are well and truly dead, bring on signposting...
i read a statistic somewhere , it read.....80% of all lies start with " to tell you the truth..."
then again, i also read that 68% of all statiscics were just made up so draw your own conclusions.....
carparks are well and truly dead, bring on signposting...
we won't be there.
wel.. if we go out in the car, it's because we get off on showing off. if there isn't anyone to showoff to, then the fun is gone. we need watchers just as much as watchers need us. if we stay in our car with the windows up, theres no chance of people trying to be pushy, as were locked in. during the warm evenings, sometimes it's nice to get out of the car. that is when we find we need to be more wary of who is watching. some people really do think its a free for all, and when told that they can look only, complain. we just leave. we have been called prickteasers, when we turn up and see people we recognise who have made such statements in the past, we just leave again. we can understand if a couple turn up with the intention of taking on the whole carpark, that they would like young adonis type , fresh smelling guys there. who would blame them. no one wants to play with an unkempt person, but when it comes to watchers , it doesn't really matter what age, size etc that they are. in fact, some of the older gents make much better voyeurs as they always better mannered, less demanding and over the moon to see a sexy young girl show for them. a lot of the older gents have been dogging for a while, they have much more experience. we would never allow our boundries to be pushed just to please others. there are always genuine voyuers who are more than happy with watching us and others. the very minute we stop enjoying it, is the very minute we'll stop going.
chin up folks, theres always a next time. we couldn't make this weekend, but then again we were only down as maybe's anyway. theres no reason why all the ones who want to go don't do so. you've already organised a venue and a time, so why not? you can let the rest of us know how it went. even if theres only half a dozen of you, at leats you'll get to meet some from here.
well in our humble opinion, dogging has been blown out of proportion by a million fold over the last 2 years, and the goalposts have definately been moved.
when we discovered dogging, it was a purely exhibitionist experience for us, and a voyoueristic experience for whoever wanted to watch. the guys would do all they could to discreetly get a peep at the lady in question, sometimes nothing more than a view of stocking top would be enough to drive them wild.
nowadays, people aren't happy with that, probably down to whats been printed in newspapers, but they think the lady is there to entertain them. they complain when not allowed to touch, the more arrogant people have even been downright rude! using comments such as " they are only prickteasers".
well when we took up dogging, thats exactly what it was, prickteasing. the voyours who would stake out spots for months, were very happy to be prickteased. sometimes if all the conditions were right and the lady was in the right mood, they might get a little more than prickteased.
at the end of the day, if you go to any well known dogging spot, there will be a good few there who think whoopie do, free shag, game on! if you don't like the look of the people in the carpark and decide to move to another spot, they will follow you. they will point their headlights at you to see who is in the car, and if you don't perform what they expect of you, you will be labelled allsorts. if that is what you are looking for in a night out dogging then away you go and have fun.
please don't think this is a dig at single men at dogging spots, because it isn't, it's a reflection of what we've experienced over the last couple of years. we have met some wonderful people, both single men and couples. we have had some mindblowing nights. the only t5rouble is, for every mind blowing night, there have been ten disaster nights. it's the chance you take.
we hope giving you the benefit of our experiences helps you out with your shall we/shan't we dillema.
when we discovered dogging, it was a purely exhibitionist experience for us, and a voyoueristic experience for whoever wanted to watch. the guys would do all they could to discreetly get a peep at the lady in question, sometimes nothing more than a view of stocking top would be enough to drive them wild.
nowadays, people aren't happy with that, probably down to whats been printed in newspapers, but they think the lady is there to entertain them. they complain when not allowed to touch, the more arrogant people have even been downright rude! using comments such as " they are only prickteasers".
well when we took up dogging, thats exactly what it was, prickteasing. the voyours who would stake out spots for months, were very happy to be prickteased. sometimes if all the conditions were right and the lady was in the right mood, they might get a little more than prickteased.
at the end of the day, if you go to any well known dogging spot, there will be a good few there who think whoopie do, free shag, game on! if you don't like the look of the people in the carpark and decide to move to another spot, they will follow you. they will point their headlights at you to see who is in the car, and if you don't perform what they expect of you, you will be labelled allsorts. if that is what you are looking for in a night out dogging then away you go and have fun.
please don't think this is a dig at single men at dogging spots, because it isn't, it's a reflection of what we've experienced over the last couple of years. we have met some wonderful people, both single men and couples. we have had some mindblowing nights. the only t5rouble is, for every mind blowing night, there have been ten disaster nights. it's the chance you take.
we hope giving you the benefit of our experiences helps you out with your shall we/shan't we dillema.
Quote by partyman
So wheres good to go now then round there ? Were going the full length of the M6 to Lancaster on Monday and might want to stop on the way back for a rest
hiya Silk and Big G
Only a suggestion, but when you get to M6 J8, head down the M5 for a couple of miles...there's somewhere not far from the Albion stadium where you can apply an alternative interpretation to the term "boing boing"
i don't think you could get silk and big g within 50 miles of that location if you payed em, after their last trip there.....
Quote by bridgette jones
As a regular couple to the chase, we must now confess we've had enough & no longer go. It was not just the boy racers, although last time out we did get surrounded by 8 cars then chased !!!!, but also, the some what very regular doggers who appeared every time we were there, & because they knew we had put on a show previously, hounded us, surrounded us, & even tried following us home !!! On the odd occasion we found a quite spot with a couple of respectful guys, it never took long for the others to find us. Such a shame, we've had some great times up there, but now give it a real wide berth.
and it's exactly the same reason we no longer use the area. at one point it was the best spot in the midlands, but in our humble opinion it is now nigh on the worst. nevermind. shame really, because there were some great people who used to go there, but they have all moved on nowadays to pastures greener.
