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gallahad430
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 45
0 miles · Leicestershire
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and welcome to the madhouse 
hope you have fun here
I have a cool idea!
Mr webmaster dude in charge of SH: Please put a few extra buttons at the side of the inbox details for the email responses:
Button 1: No thanks, you're totally not what I/we are looking, p.s. you have been put on a block so you cannot respond to my Ads ever again.
Button 2: No thanks, you're not what I/we am looking for.
Button 3: You're response was interesting, but I'm swamped with reponses and may or may not be able to get back to you!
Button 4: Good god, where have you been all my life! Please come over to my house right now!
What do ya'll think of that???
Mr webmaster dude in charge of SH: Please put a few extra buttons at the side of the inbox details for the email responses:
Button 1: No thanks, you're totally not what I/we are looking, p.s. you have been put on a block so you cannot respond to my Ads ever again.
Button 2: No thanks, you're not what I/we am looking for.
Button 3: You're response was interesting, but I'm swamped with reponses and may or may not be able to get back to you!
Button 4: Good god, where have you been all my life! Please come over to my house right now!
What do ya'll think of that???
Quote by PoloLady
I wasn't going to say anything, as one day you will open your eyes and realise what utter tosh it is to be expected to plough through 100's of PM's - just to demonstrate good manners to a bunch of people you have never met and just don't know..... BUT...
something got the better of me (probably because I have just finished a 2 hour stint of answering PM's).
I set out once to answer every PM - even if just to say 'no thanks'.
Last week I had a moment of clarity - regardless of the 1000+ PM's I had previously sent replies to - I still found I had 1300+ PM's in my inbox (they had of course built up over a period of time). I decided that I had to bite the bullet and just delete the lot.
Now if as a result of doing that, some person I have never met thinks I am an ignorant bitch - so what? The alternative would have been to make replying to PM's a full-time job. I have a job already and I know without doubt answering PM's will not pay the salary I currently am rewarded with from my employer.
Since deleting all of the previous PM's and totally clearing my inbox at the begining of the week - I have had another 100+ arrive. I have managed to read, consider and reply to all of them (apart from 4 - which were so crap I decided to just delete).
Whilst I am at present back on top of my emails - should I ever find myself in a similar position as last week - I would do the same again.
Afterall - what is the point of answering all of your PM's if it is going to leave you with no time to actually FUCK!
Awesome
Quote by Kiss_Me
I think that this thread is one of many (I posted one a while back too) all talking about the same thing. But I think Alan is right when he says there are so many replies people don't mean not to respond it's just overwhelming for the recipient. I remember reading one post where a female had received 200 replies to a photo ad, try not to take it personally and be patient as I'm sure it will be worth it in the end.
200? Yikes
First off: Hello all !!
Secondly, could I please ask that when someone takes the time to write a well thought out reply to your adds that it would be nice to get a response, even if it's a polite 'no thanks, you're not what we're looking for because...'
Although I do fully understand that people don't reply to one liners because it's probably just from someone who's trawling the ads and sending out about 50 emails a day
Anyhoo, thats enough from me, exam revision to continue with!
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Gallahad
Secondly, could I please ask that when someone takes the time to write a well thought out reply to your adds that it would be nice to get a response, even if it's a polite 'no thanks, you're not what we're looking for because...'
Although I do fully understand that people don't reply to one liners because it's probably just from someone who's trawling the ads and sending out about 50 emails a day
Anyhoo, thats enough from me, exam revision to continue with!
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Gallahad
