thanks for all your replies. only thing i can say is that there are too many cool guys on here that get unnoticed. thats life!
I cant but help be negative been wondering around here (on and off) for 5 years nd tried everything (forums,chatrooms). Few times my 'charm' has worked the profile in question has ended up being fake and trying to sell me something or escort. Only thing left for me to do is stop wasting my time and leave. Wish you guys better luck!!a
well been on here (on and off) since 2005 and still no meets ha. dont know why i keep coming back. thanks and fair point on the my username lol its was meant more as an oxymoron'ic' joke. should change the name to loseroflove to make it more accurate.
nice to here someone isnt having the same problem.
Embarrassed to say that i have been on here a while so i understand well the difficulties everyone faces meeting people whether its females getting tons of obnoxious pestering mail / couples not able to find the holy grail and in my case single males struggling to seen and/or heard. So i would not be surprised if no one reads this - i thank those that are still on this page now
I think i am quite normal, ok looking. I write individual messages and am pretty courteous. Basically i try and be myself on here without turning into a crazed stalker. Maybe i should not be surprised that no one ever replies or gets in touch with me as i have the same problem in the real world.
But if anyone could spare some time to check my profile and provide any tips i would be very grateful. Just thought it might be useful to get some feedback before i either leave or Jekyll and Mr Hyde it and turn into a stalking angry single male on here. thanks again
bit late now.
thanks for adding me to the london meet up list. Hopefully ill get a chance to tempt you another time. look forward to sharing a drink..
I am game. sounds like a great plan
i was just signing in to post exactly the same but you beat me to it. I am heading to torture garden for the ball. Already have quite a big group to go with but just want to check to see whether anyone from here was heading that way.
its will be my first time and sounds like an amazing night. hope you all have fun..
thanks. i am definately no gangsteroflove though. ashamedly no one loves me
how lucky are you to have something at your door step but well done for getting yourself organise. I have been meaning to go to a club for a while now just dont really want to go as a single guy.
whats this evening thingy? will it be on the weds as well? I wonder if he would let me have my own evening?? err as if
am sure you will be having loads of fun on the 14th
I totally agree. first time sauna sex is top of the list of fantasies now. I sent you a message earlier Little m. I would be very intersted in heading down there together.. let me know what you think.
i know the feeling dude. i have given up about 20 times. always end up coming back though. 1 day someone will talk to me.
good luck
sorry - i cant add much in terms of a review. I am completely new to swinging and have been trying to find a good club to go to for my first visit. its a hard choice but a sauna sounds like a winner. i would also be very interested if anyone has some info here as well....
on that note. I have decided to put the advise you ahve given me to the test and head off to a club as soon as possible. cant wait. I would be very interested in hearing from anyone that has a night plan or would like to join forces and plan something together.......
well you are just lucky you are hot and female! i have been on here two years and nobody will have me.
welcome to the site mistress. hope you continue to have fun!
thanks for all the advise here. i am a well behaved lad so dont think i would have fallen victim to any of your faux pas you have listed.
been trying to find a female to join me on my first visit but seeing as thats never going to happen i am just going to bite the bullet and go for it alone.
I am really looking forward to going to my first club and apprieciate the time you have taken to write down a few tips. thanks
hi
I have been on this site hoping to meet some people my age (ideally a female) to enjoy some swinging experiences together with but have realised that due to the ratio of women to men that is pretty unlikely (sucks to be a guy lol).
I am very intrigued but just wondering if (like this site) swing clubs are just full of single guys? and if so whats the best way to approach that as a single guy?
can anyone recomend a good club in london that might suit what i am looking for.
apprieciate your help. thanks
I am probably pushing my luck;
Any students (youngish) lurking around?
thank you mdr2000
just got a chance to catch up with the post i started and it did not look like i was ever gonna get a serious answer!
the only reason i ask is so that i was reply to a ad from the 'photo ads' section and did not want to mis-represent myself (as many do).
oh well i guess itll remain one of those unanswered questions.
If i come accross niave or inexperienced with my line of questioning thats exactly what i am.
The 'long and the short' of this thread is to get some perspective as to what people consider to be well endowed??
thanks