I am 26.
My phimosis isn't a big deal. Just means I do take special care regarding cleanliness downstairs. Good point about being out at night, having some drinks, going to the toilet.
One of my ex's asked me to trim downstairs. I refused because I thought it a bit unmanly. The more I think about the more I think why not. If it is nicer for her. I always enjoy ripping off a fresh pair of panties and finding a trimmed bush.
I think we will talk things through and I will try a gentle introduction.
Thanks for sharing your stories. Hopefully this won't turn out to be a big deal.
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Hateitorloveit, just re-read my post and it was not meant as a put down in any way, so sorry if I came accross like that,
Don't worry. I think your post was the best on this thread. I didn't take it as a put down. if you re-read *my* post you will see that. ;)
I am very open to *me* being the problem. That would be a good thing. When I am the problem I can change. Getting other people to change is generally best avoided!
Re- Age thing. I am a bloke. Gimme a break! I just never thought about it. Definitely 23 or 24 though.
"You may be the problem."
Thanks. That is definitely something I should look at.
I have dated a lot of girls and two of them have not liked oral sex.
I am hairy and one girl did ask me to shave down there, or at least trim it up....I also have phimosis but always make a special effort to keep everything clean.
I suppose when we talk i will ask her if it is me.
Thanks. That is definitely something I should look at.
I have dated a lot of girls and two of them have not liked oral sex.
I am hairy and one girl did ask me to shave down there, or at least trim it up....I also have phimosis but always make a special effort to keep everything clean.
I suppose when we talk i will ask her if it is me.
da67ve - cCan I ask you people not to contribute to this hread if you have nothing positive to say. As I have previously stated in an early stage of a relationship I get to know someone and work out if we are compatible. If I feel that important things are missing then I will move to on to the next relationship. Better for everyone!
I used to date a catholic girl a few months back. Lovely girl. We couldn't use condoms so we always used to finish with the money shot in the mouth.
Ahhh, great times. So maybe it is true about catholic girls!
Interesting to hear about your conversion Caithlin - what turned you on to the joy of giving head?
Ahhh, great times. So maybe it is true about catholic girls!
Interesting to hear about your conversion Caithlin - what turned you on to the joy of giving head?
The sub-dom side is interesting. Never thought of it like that.
I am VERY dom. I am in charge. I am the leader. Most girls I have been with have liked that.
However, in this relationship we are both 'leader' types who like being in charge.
It is actualy quite hard to imagine her sucking my cock. Probably because of the submissive side to it.
Re: Me being inconsiderate. I am sorry if it came across as that. I have high standards. A great sex life is important to me. If early on in a relationship I can see that the dynamic is not there I will end it so we can both get on with our lives.
I am VERY dom. I am in charge. I am the leader. Most girls I have been with have liked that.
However, in this relationship we are both 'leader' types who like being in charge.
It is actualy quite hard to imagine her sucking my cock. Probably because of the submissive side to it.
Re: Me being inconsiderate. I am sorry if it came across as that. I have high standards. A great sex life is important to me. If early on in a relationship I can see that the dynamic is not there I will end it so we can both get on with our lives.
Things are going well. I do really like her.
Just that I had a 4 year relationship with a girl and she ended up stopping going down on me all together. Since I have been single I have had the chance to see a lot of different women and I have been re-discovering just how great great head is.
I don't want to go back to not getting it.
Just that I had a 4 year relationship with a girl and she ended up stopping going down on me all together. Since I have been single I have had the chance to see a lot of different women and I have been re-discovering just how great great head is.
I don't want to go back to not getting it.
Yeah, I am going to have to end the relationship if we don't get this worked out because this is important to me.
At the same time I don't want to put that pressure on her. Like suck my cock or you are dumped.
I have done the whole steering during foreplay...but I end up with a well kissed stomach and not much else.
Time to talk then.
Why do you guys think she doesn't like being licked. Surely all girls like that. I have been told by a previous girlfriend that I was the best ever (yeah, I know, bet she says that to all the guys!)...but I haven't even had a chance to impress here.
At the same time I don't want to put that pressure on her. Like suck my cock or you are dumped.
I have done the whole steering during foreplay...but I end up with a well kissed stomach and not much else.
Time to talk then.
Why do you guys think she doesn't like being licked. Surely all girls like that. I have been told by a previous girlfriend that I was the best ever (yeah, I know, bet she says that to all the guys!)...but I haven't even had a chance to impress here.
So I have a new girlfriend and she hasn't sucked my cock yet. Been seeing her two months. I like having my cock sucked. I also like licking pussy. Whenever I start to lick her out she stops me. She has only let me do it once when we were really drunk.
What is the best way to broach the subject. I don't want to put pressure on her but this is something I enjoy.
Should I just straight out
"Hey baby, how do you feel about oral sex?"
Any thoughts as to why she might not blowing my love trumpet? Repressed?
What is the best way to broach the subject. I don't want to put pressure on her but this is something I enjoy.
Should I just straight out
"Hey baby, how do you feel about oral sex?"
Any thoughts as to why she might not blowing my love trumpet? Repressed?
