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Quote by Ice Pie
Having followed Hayley's other threads as well as this one, I have to say I am gobsmacked...
...Something doesn't ring true with this in my opinion. rolleyes confused
Tracy-Jayne

The word "delusional" springs to mind :roll:
OK, that was below the belt, sorry, but really it does look a bit odd.
(I was going to delete that because it ireally is bang out of order, but what the hell, I said it, I'll live with it.)
It wasn't below the belt. it was ignorant, you dont know me.
Quote by RedHot
Having followed Hayley's other threads as well as this one, I have to say I am gobsmacked.
How can someone allow themselves to be followed around most of their waking hours without going to the police about it? dunno
Informing the police that you are being "followed" by "them" would not cause any embarrassment. You would not have to tell them you were being follwed by people/persons who had seen you dogging ffs!
If I were being harassed in this way, I would definitely go to the police.
Having a mother who is ill and a daughter in hospital is no grounds for ignoring the situation. evil
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Why would they want to attack the very thing they like to watch at the moment. ONE of them did the rad but I could piss one person off and maybe he'd kill me. Maybe one day a nutter will murder me for no reason at all.
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How would your mother or daughter feel if "them" got hold of you and attacked you?
They won't attack me, but it could well kill my mother to know I'm a dogger alone.
Something doesn't ring true with this in my opinion. rolleyes confused Your opinion is your opinion, my expierience is real and happening and I'm dealing whith it not ignoring it at all.
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by RedHot
Having followed Hayley's other threads as well as this one, I have to say I am gobsmacked...
...Something doesn't ring true with this in my opinion. rolleyes confused
Tracy-Jayne

The word "delusional" springs to mind :roll:
OK, that was below the belt, sorry, but really it does look a bit odd.
Quite . . .
T-J
Thats because it is odd.
Its common knowledge that i'm a female single dogger, which means to some an easy lay, tart and so on and to top that I let people watch, anybody, whoever turns up. I'm also reasonable looking and it has been reported that i enjoyed myself a lot wich i did. now people pay good money for orcestrated porn, a female dogger be she single or couple is live porn. What better wank material than that. and I dont blame people for wanting to see something different from everyday life, I'd have a look. But I'm an honest person and am open about the things i do alone things people who are couples keep secret for fear of what might happen.
I will also deal whith it myself.
Quote by kryton
excuse me for jumping in here Haley, but i have followed this and your other associated threads and feel very strongly that waitng for these idiots to get bored and go away, is not the answer....Listen to everyone!
Go to the Police!

With respect No.
some have got bored allready, some actually look out for me and Ive started talking to a couple of them. If I'd gone to the police they would have ALL been enemies and whith that you get a war. I have to live here and would rather solve problems using respect and inteligence. What would the Police have solved in all honesty, they'd have made it worse at the cost of you and me the taxpayer.
Quote by mal609
Hayley
forgive me if I'm wrong, but is this a reply to another thread? It just seems a little odd as a stand-alone first comment.
Mal
cool

I like to get the juices flowing. I'll start a thread called does size mat....Nah! lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by VenusnMars
Unashamed flattery seeker here! Lets face it, without me there`d be even less to look at! rotflmao
Venusxxx

***US!*** I said us, doggers who display.
Definitely i'm a dogger. Without us there would be even less to look at rolleyes
Quote by oliveoyl
Surely your mum doesnt have to find out, the welfare and wellbeing of you and your child surely has to be paramount here.

Yes and I can look after me and mine. These fools don't know where I come from and It will be sorted but I'd rather they got bored, best for everyone.
Quote by MQ
Hope your daughter is ok Hayley, it's so worrying when things like this happen :cry:
As for 'them' report them to the police I urge you, they are harrassing and intimidating you and they have no right, what you do in your leisure time has nothing to do with anyone else and this is causing you anxiety and may put you and your daughter at risk.

Cant just yet because of me mum, (Ice isn't listening is he lol )she's ill. wouldn't do her a lot of good to find out.
Ice that was fun and I'm smilling as much as you. Bet we'd have some discussions in the pub. smile Respect.
Quote by celticq

Or do I, are you one of "THEM"

Quote by hayleyw2
I didn't mention a stalker.

I'm sorry to jump in here but it did look like you were suggesting Ice was one of your stalkers.
Did the lol smilly thing not come up?
Quote by Ice Pie
I didn't mention a stalker.

You made reference to "them" and blue explained who "them" was. You then suggested that "them" included me. Look over your shoulder if you want, I've got better things to do. Ciao.
Obviously.
Quote by Ice Pie
You asked if you personaly were being told you are not a decent person. I dont know you so cant say.
Or do I, are you one of "THEM"(looks over shoulder) I'm not paranoid. lol

Going by this, my first impression of you since I haven't encountered you before, I might be inclined to question the accuracy of that statement.
Everyone has sick relatives. Many people find that talking about it helps. However, most people don't go around publicly demanding expressions of sympathy, which is what you have done in a round about way. I have not offered the sympathy you seek and you respond by suggesting that I'm a stalker.
Paranoid? No, just another attention-seeker
I didn't mention a stalker.
Quote by hayleyw2
Have I interpreted this thread correctly? Am I being told that if I do not express concern I am not a decent person? And where does the mysterious "them" fit in? dunno

You take things to literaly mate. And to personaly.
On the contrary. I had no idea what this was about so I asked.
You asked if you personaly were being told you are not a decent person. I dont know you so cant say.
You said "it goes without saying to decent people". It didn't go without saying to me because i didn't know what you were on about, so that means I'm not a decent person?
You then said "I know you would have asked about her because thats what decent people do. Thank you in advance." Are you familiar with the expression "emotional blackmail"? rolleyes
Blimey he's a funny geezer.
Like I said I Dont know you. Are you familier with the term wind up merchent? Trying to be clever for the sake of it always sounds stupid
Quote by Ice Pie
Have I interpreted this thread correctly? Am I being told that if I do not express concern I am not a decent person? And where does the mysterious "them" fit in? dunno

You take things to literaly mate. And to personaly.
On the contrary. I had no idea what this was about so I asked.
You asked if you personaly were being told you are not a decent person. I dont know you so cant say.
You said "it goes without saying to decent people". It didn't go without saying to me because i didn't know what you were on about, so that means I'm not a decent person?
You then said "I know you would have asked about her because thats what decent people do. Thank you in advance." Are you familiar with the expression "emotional blackmail"? rolleyes
Blimey he's a funny geezer.
Quote by hayleyw2
Have I interpreted this thread correctly? Am I being told that if I do not express concern I am not a decent person? And where does the mysterious "them" fit in? dunno

You take things to literaly mate. And to personaly.
On the contrary. I had no idea what this was about so I asked.
You asked if you personaly were being told you are not a decent person. I dont know you so cant say.
Or do I, are you one of "THEM"(looks over shoulder) I'm not paranoid. lol
Quote by Ice Pie
Have I interpreted this thread correctly? Am I being told that if I do not express concern I am not a decent person? And where does the mysterious "them" fit in? dunno

You take things to literaly mate. And to personaly.
On the contrary. I had no idea what this was about so I asked.
You asked if you personaly were being told you are not a decent person. I dont know you so cant say.
Quote by Ice Pie
Have I interpreted this thread correctly? Am I being told that if I do not express concern I am not a decent person? And where does the mysterious "them" fit in? dunno

You take things to literaly mate. And to personaly.
I had to get my daughter into Hospital quickly yesterday and I was even followed drove around waited for me to leave...
I was going to go into one about "them" but it goes without saying to decent people doesn't it!!!
She's going through tests at the moment so don't know to much yet other than she is in the right place.
I know you would have asked about her because thats what decent people do. Thank you in advance.
A boyraceometre just wave it about a bit before you go in. :idea: :idea: :idea: :idea:
A stiffyometre would be interesting for the guys. I dont know if the calibration technology exsists though. Bit before its time praps
Quote by singledogger
awwwwwwwww thanks hayley babe!!!!! redface im honered to have met you, and as you know im always here to support you.
im sooooooooo chuffed passionkiss :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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Just speaking as I find... rolleyes
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Quote by roger743
If you're going to have an attack of nerves, that's okay, happens to everyone, but at the least you should pluck up the courage to let the poor sod know about it so they don't sit waiting for hours, or drop them an email to apologise afterwards. I mean, that's common courtesy, isn't it?

Fear is not a controlable thing and does funny things to you, when most of us started we didnt even have mobiles let alone email, there was nothing instant about it and fear grows if left long enough.
I also picked up the phone one time and explained how I felt, before i finnished the sentance was told "fcuk you then"
As an individual I try and understand now.
I'm not calling anyone a chicken and sorry if it sounds like that.
Its just that no-one is born with confidence its something life and circumstances teach you.
I would have liked better teaching, earlier so i'd have had less to do later.
It's a small world but I wouldn't want to eat it!!
I wonder if we saw each other?? please tell me you are the horny biker who used to whistle and show off around me and I was to shy to talk to. redface
When I think back to my early days in trying naughty things the fear of meeting someone and not wanting to do anything made me a timewaster a few times. The thought of saying no made me chicken out but I'd leave it till it was to late to tell them because I desperately wanted and hoped to get over it in time. I would feel terrible for days after and not attempt another try for months sometimes.
SO I've come to accept that this happens and understand that some need more time and patience.
Nowadays if someone doesn't show I get in touch and tell them it's ok and when they are ready, to get back in touch. I also tell them I did the same at first but got over it.
I would have had less heatache if some one had said this to me.
I wonder how many of us chickened out once or twice at first???
I am going to check out Camb's as I know the county really well, lived in Burwell for five or six years. I didn't know doggin existed then but I know some excerllent places. :idea: