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5 Jul 2006

Quote by stevestoo
just a thought and wondering if other 50 plus guys girls or couples are having lots of meets with my age group etc seems that most adverts rquesting couples single girls are for the under 45 group when i reply to advert usually have no response are we being laid out to rest to soon lol ??? just a thought

I'm 40 and keep getting told i'm too old, infact only this morning a 34 year old lady said I was too old. Why should I choose an old man when I can have a young hunk, were her words. Its a dog eat dog world and I will always go for youger men she added.
Rather ironic when her partner is 39 I thought but I was polite as usual and didn't want to point this out. Instead I wrote a short email as follows :
" In 6 years time you'll be as old as me. I really do hope you do not have to suffer the indignity of being told your too old.
To imply that someone is in some way inferior because of their age shows a total disregard for that person. If looks are all you have and youth your mainstay, then one day when your looks have faded and your youth has passed - what will you have ?
You say its a dog eat dog world and it belongs to the young, with an outlook such as that you must look to the future with fear and dread instead of with hope and enthusiasm.
Be lucky, have a good life and try your best not to get old, lest the young mock your years ! "
A little naughty perhaps ? I try not to judge people by their age for age is just a number, a lady I know that is 54 is just as frisky and fun as any 20 something you care to mention. She may well have been written off as too old by some but I can assure you their myopia means they are the ones missing out.
Is 50+ too old ? Hell no.............only in the eyes of the shortsighted and uneducated. cool

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28 Jun 2006

Quote by redwine_lover
At the moment, i cant get in the chat room and am bored at work...
it occurred to me...what do others do when they cant get in the chatroom...i have got an "old" friend pm ing me at the momnent (cant u tell she is bored too) saying she is going to do the gardening if she cant get in the chat room..
what will you do instead of chatting on SH?
RWL

Ive been giving the bathroom a good clean (sodding bleach stinks).
Just put another load in the washer and if I still can't get into chat this afternoon I might go do a spot of shopping lol

OMG...........I sound like a woman :shock:
I want some sex and I want it now, failing that give us a bite of your chocolate :lol:

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20 Jun 2006

Good post jb74 and just to clarify. We're never rude to single guys and have nothing against them per se - in fact our only experiences to date have been with single guys! I was referring to those single guys who are pushy and/or rude and/or unable to accept "no thanks" as an answer. Clearly you're not one of that breed so our comments were not directed at you or even the guy who couldn't access our profile whose politeness I actually commented on in my original post.
Yes you will sometimes get tarred with the same brush sadly just as all sorts of groups do whether they be England football fans or single male swingers and there's nothing you can do about someone who believes 'all men are bastards'. However despite my comments and our profile we have had many very pleasant and sexy chats with single guys and long may it remain so - which is why our profile states we don't respond to pushy single guys as opposed to ANY single guys.
Thats because you have style & class wink

Kent = the garden of England ..........Yorkshire = Gods own garden :wink: But we still have to do the weeding lol

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20 Jun 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
As a single male on here ive got quite used to the abuse some women feel they have to give to any men that dare say "Hello" to them. I can only assume that because of a small number of men that can not or will not behave, the rest of us men then get lumped into the same category.

Can I just re-iterate that we DONT tolerate abuse in the chatrooms, so should you experience this again make sure you tell one of the OP's and we can pass it to admin to look at.
Just because you are a single man does not mean you should have to put up with any form of abuse smile

Thank you. I very much doubt it will happen again with the ladies in question, I shall do my best to keep as far away from them as I can. It did cross my mind that maybe thats the only way they can get off ?
Lets keep it fun cool

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20 Jun 2006

Cringe is about right, it wouldn't be too bad if it was meant in a jokey way. By the way just before that comment was made some mad chick told me to f**k off for daring to say hello to her. Well if she thinks thats the way to treat men, she'll get all she deserves.
Some are born with class, some attain class and some think class is the item they drink out of ! cool

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20 Jun 2006

As a single male on here ive got quite used to the abuse some women feel they have to give to any men that dare say "Hello" to them. I can only assume that because of a small number of men that can not or will not behave, the rest of us men then get lumped into the same category.
As for the few people on here that know me on a more personal level, they would tell you I am both polite and well mannered. I come into the chat rooms here to chat with like minded people, have a laugh, arrange meetings and to make new friends. I'm not here to wank on cam ( although I wouldn't stop others doing so if thats their thing ) I'm not here to cyber and most of all I'm not here to give abuse to other people.
I suspect I'm not the only single male on here that has had to put up with such abuse not only from attention seeking primadonna's but also from their pathetic groveling sycophants. I must however counter this with a big thank you to all the nice decent, normal people I have had the pleasure of chatting to on here.
I finish on a comment made in chat today "All men are bastards" ! rather sums up the mindset of some jaded females on here. It would be as big a mistake to brand all ladies as whores as it is to brand all men as bastards and most unuseful in keeping chat a friendly place to visit.
Don't forget we are all very lucky to have such a website as this lets keep it fun ! cool

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