i am a mature and educated man with a well developed sense of humour. if i invite you to chat please understand i am not trying to get into your knickers, as i never play with people until i get know them. i just might find you interesting to talk to. my preference is for friendship first followed by nice mutually enjoyable times. i would also prefer an ongoing friendship rather than one off stuff, unless you have something in mind beyond the vanilla and experimentation to satisfy my dom interests. i think i am caring and sophisticated. please be genuine. please be honest and know what you want or at least be prepared to discuss adventures, especialy if you are sub. this would be a distinct advantage as i am quite dom myself. i have an interest in cuckold and/or an ongoing relationship with one special lady yet to be found. it may be the cucks wife or a single lady who wants an affair of the heart and bedroom. you will notice i am married and i have good reasons for playing which i will explain, if we get that far, and you need to know. thanks for reading this. now lets chat please. a little update i have moved to tenrife and only occasionaly get back to the uk. if you have chatted in the past and you are here on holiday feel free to join me in glass of wine.