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jna
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
Straight Female, 52
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Dear Mike, please don't make assumptions as to what you feel that i am 'really' saying.
My wife and i have a very strong and equal relationship and i would most certainly not make her do anything that she did not want to do.
I would not have taken the time and trouble to register and post this message lightly.
Such an insult to my intentions and motivations does tend to discourage me to participate any further.
My wife and i are certainly keen to experiment and live life to the full, we do really only live once but i do feel a little embarrased that i may have sounded as though this thing is all my idea.
Registering seemed like a good way of researching what we might expect from the 'scene' should we decide to take the plunge.
Thanks for all your messages everyone.
jna
My wife and i have a very strong and equal relationship and i would most certainly not make her do anything that she did not want to do.
I would not have taken the time and trouble to register and post this message lightly.
Such an insult to my intentions and motivations does tend to discourage me to participate any further.
My wife and i are certainly keen to experiment and live life to the full, we do really only live once but i do feel a little embarrased that i may have sounded as though this thing is all my idea.
Registering seemed like a good way of researching what we might expect from the 'scene' should we decide to take the plunge.
Thanks for all your messages everyone.
jna
Yes, i see your point and i find it most encouraging to hear such a mature approach to the subject on this site.
Being new to this thing i was not sure what to expect.
Perhaps my use of the word "persuade" was a little misleading though.
My wife and i have been together over 11 years now and we are very close and we share a very loving and caring relationship. I would certainly always respect her wishes and i would not consider ever undertaking anything that might upset her in any way.
More accurately, i was wondering if there was a gentle way of dipping our toes in the water.
My wife has often said that she would want to try this, she is v. horny and sexy but then she also feels that actually giving it a go might be too scary.
Thank you for your advice, it is so exciting to be speaking to like minded people about this subject finally.
Being new to this thing i was not sure what to expect.
Perhaps my use of the word "persuade" was a little misleading though.
My wife and i have been together over 11 years now and we are very close and we share a very loving and caring relationship. I would certainly always respect her wishes and i would not consider ever undertaking anything that might upset her in any way.
More accurately, i was wondering if there was a gentle way of dipping our toes in the water.
My wife has often said that she would want to try this, she is v. horny and sexy but then she also feels that actually giving it a go might be too scary.
Thank you for your advice, it is so exciting to be speaking to like minded people about this subject finally.
Hi there.
First time caller.
I would love to see my wife with another man, fantasise about it lots.
My wife shares those fantasies and she instigates many of them too, we talk about it all the time whilst having sex and it is a real turn on for both of us but she says that she feels that she is too shy to try it. Seems like a big step and a bit scary but i would love to try it.
How can i persuade her to give it a go? Any ideas anyone?
Husb 36 yrs, wife 31 and v pretty.
jna
First time caller.
I would love to see my wife with another man, fantasise about it lots.
My wife shares those fantasies and she instigates many of them too, we talk about it all the time whilst having sex and it is a real turn on for both of us but she says that she feels that she is too shy to try it. Seems like a big step and a bit scary but i would love to try it.
How can i persuade her to give it a go? Any ideas anyone?
Husb 36 yrs, wife 31 and v pretty.
jna
