The point is, you don't know ALL the facts.
Like I said before, it would have made a big difference if I came out with all the facts in my first post.
Looks like I got myself into trouble by telling you all how stupid I was, but c'est la vie.
I was being honest because people on here looked really nice and friendly, now I'm getting slaughtered.
Perhaps I shouldn't have been so open, we would still be one big, happy family
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kingarthur
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 50
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Quote by RedHot
You ever been in a similar situation, didn't know what to do?
I got married when I was 21 years old and I didn't know shit about life.
You don't know enough to call me lowlife mate.
Getting married at a young age has got jack all to do with it
Jon and I got married when we I was 18 and he 21. Being married and having a family would soon make you grow up and learn about life I can tell you. 24 years later we are still happily married
As for us knowing enough about you to make judgements . . . I feel that we do indeed know as much as we need about you :dry:
Tracy-Jayne
Perhaps you weren't as dumb as I was at that age.
It doesn't really matter now, what's done is done. I would love to have the chance to make up to her, but it's far too late now. I should have told you all the facts in my first post, everything I say now would look like an excuse and I don't want to make excuses. I know it was wrong and I'm sure I'm not the only person who made a mistake, I'm just honest and stupid enough to admit it, thinking that people would try to understand.
Quote by Scandal
I'm not joining in with any of the moral debates on SH, I aint got the energy.
However if the following is true:
Long story, I never told her I didn't want her any more. We lived in Europe and I came back to England for "a week".
Quote by kingarthur
I didn't want to hurt her feelings when I left.
Quote by kingarthur
haven't seen my wife for 3 years now.
Quote by kingarthur
I bet she's still waiting for me to return
Then you are a prick of the highest order, a lowlife.
You're the type of person who gets humanity a bad name, never mind single men.
I'm not arsed if this breaks the AUP and they ban me, I'll just feel glad I took this opportunity to call you a complete twat.
You ever been in a similar situation, didn't know what to do?
I got married when I was 21 years old and I didn't know shit about life.
You don't know enough to call me lowlife mate.
Quote by RedHot
Long story, I never told her I didn't want her any more. We lived in Europe and I came back to England for "a week". I bet she's still waiting for me to return
What a cowardly thing to do 
I sincerely hope she is not still holding out for you. I'm sure she deserves better
Tracy-Jayne
You saying I'm not worth waiting for? :cry:
Most certainly :shock:
You not only walked out on the woman, but you failed to inform her of such. You seem to be going on with your life and joining this site is part of that, but does she have that option of moving on?
Or is she still standing barefoot at the kitchen sick waiting for her wandering husband to return? :evil:
Perhaps you're keeping your options open and if things don't work out *back in England*, you may as well go back to her? :roll: :?
T-J
Don't be so hard on me :cry:
I didn't want to hurt her feelings when I left.
Tried to get in touch with her about 6 months later, but she had sold the flat and buggered off somewhere. I'm not keeping my options open, I'm happy with my life
Quote by RedHot
Long story, I never told her I didn't want her any more. We lived in Europe and I came back to England for "a week". I bet she's still waiting for me to return
What a cowardly thing to do I sincerely hope she is not still holding out for you. I'm sure she deserves better
Tracy-Jayne
You saying I'm not worth waiting for? :cry:
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i didn't mean for this to turn out as a whinge.... i think it was more meant as a generalisation and observation....rather than my personal situation...
my own personal situation is that i have taken time to get myself known and for people to get to know the real me... and i have had a blast along the way going to munches and parties and getting to know people that i like and making true friends along my path....
i know there is a different between the way i have gone about it and a lot of others.... and i am findind out i am more of an expection rather then the rule..... which is why single guys do have a "stigma" attached and why we try so hard to break it.. hopefully i have done that.....
it is because i saw another standpoint from someone else that is nowhere near as known as i appear toy be which is why i put it up for discussion......
for me the sad thing is that there are alot of people that i would truely love to meet... but i suppose that since they may well only going to events for couples and single fem i may never get to meet and them me
But if they don't want to meet single men, why don't you just accept it?
To be honest I never thought about "why don't they want single men?"
I had 2 party invites through my picture ad but I said "no, thanks" (I'm too shy).
Why don't we just respect everybody's wishes without thinking about "why", there are enough gang bang parties, so no reason for us to complain.
I think there's too many single men. Would you like to go to a party and see 10 couples, 3 single women and 30 single men? I wouldn't.
I had 2 party invites through my picture ad but I said "no, thanks" (I'm too shy).
Why don't we just respect everybody's wishes without thinking about "why", there are enough gang bang parties, so no reason for us to complain.
I think there's too many single men. Would you like to go to a party and see 10 couples, 3 single women and 30 single men? I wouldn't.
