I only managed 277.9 :cry:
This situation must happening to lots of people up and down the country...both men and women. As I said in a previous thread - relationships change and not always for the better. I know disabliities can mean that sex isnt always possible in the traditional way but there are ways for couples to stay close sexually without getting physical. Getting counselling isnt something I would recommned to anyone. When my marriage was breaking up we tried and it was the most heartbreaking thing. It involves raking up old heartaches and old grudges surface that should have been left alone. We sorted things by realising that we had grown apart and we needed to get out. We divorced without solicitors as we acted like adults and made sure the kids came first.. But some couples want to stay together for whatever reason and I personally think that if it means that someone gets sex elsewhere without hurting the other one thats fine. I know that feeling I had to have sex with my husband, when I knew things didnt feel right, hurt me more than if he had gone to someone else for it.
There are lots of married people whose relationships change over time - for whatever reason. There are lots of married people who have very different views from their partners and why shouldnt they? The bottom line is we are all individuals, and I can think of much worse faults in a husband than him having sex with someone else.
My mum died from breast cancer at only 39 so i've decided to appreciate mine as I had a lump scare a few months ago....so decided to change the boring avatar and share them with you as you really never know what is going to happen
:lol: we have discovered that we both used to drink in the same places and that we both have the same interests and that if it wasnt for swinging heaven there is no way on earth that we would have found out that we love each other and that sex can be fantastic between each other and those that that we decide to invite into the fun.... :lol: :lol: ....oooh 3 sums can be sooooooo much fun.......xxxxx 
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Who'd be a woman eh?
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isn't a sign that you're unhappy thet people won't meet you Zepsix? 