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kry10
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 54
Straight Female
0 miles · South Yorkshire

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Sexlightened
Well, I didn't expect to cause such a controversial discussion, sorry for that.
My intention was that I know there are a lot of single women on here who might seek more than pure sexual gratification, which, yes, this place is mainly aimed at, but, it caters for all kinds of things, which is why there is such a diverse crowd of people who attend this website.
I merely thought that it would be nice for those single people to state that they are looking for more than just sex and that it might be also nice for these people to find others who enjoy the swinging lifestyle rather than having to go through the awkwardness of bringing it up half way through the relationship, as someone said, honesty is always the best policy.
Anyways, rant finished, is anyone else going to make use of this thread and post their details, or is everyone actually spoken for ?
Sexlightened
Had this idea from another forum....
A place where like minded people can post information about themselves in the hope of finding others who are into the scene for relationships instead of something purely sexual.
I shall start the ball rolling.
Location - Sheffield
Sex - Male
Age - 38
Relationship Status - Single
Interested in - Cooking, Animals, Cinema, Going for walks, TV, Computers, Swinging (obviously).
Been described as - affectionate, kind, caring, considerate, honest, genuine, romantic.
Would love to meet - Single Female, 25-40 years of age.
So, come on everyone, get posting and let's see if other single people can find the love of their life.
Sexlightened
Shame I ain't a couple anymore, would have been nice to get out and socialise, oh well.
Sexlightened
Just spoken to snoggers, I will be attending the munch, so, see you guys there.
PS - I shall be wearing my army outfit.
Sexlightened
Will have to cancel due to seperation, hope you all have a good time.
Sexlightened
Hi Snoggers, me and the missus are definately attending, so, put us down for confirmed, thanks.
Sexlightened
We are also a genuine couple, we have only just recently started meeting people and so far have been lucky, in such a wide and varied lifestyle though, there are always going to be the odd time wasters and people who have nothing better to do with their time than sit on a website pretending to be something other than what they really are.
That is why we have been so frustrated at not having a web cam, because as a genuine couple who have nothing to hide, it is hard to arrange genuine meets when you cannot show that you are who you are.
That should be rectified pretty soon though.
Keep your chin up desiass, they are out there, we are one of them.
Sexlightened
Now got some more pics on our profile, so, this is a little bump to see if we can find some couples with bi-fems.
We will be looking at meeting people from mid january.
Sexlightened
Can we attend this event Snogger, me and the missus would love to come along and meet some friendly people.
Sexlightened
We are a couple with a bi-fem in the Sheffield area looking for similar couples.
He - 38, medium build, shaven, clean.
She - 32, slim build, shaven, clean.
Both very friendly.
Wanting to form a friendship first and see what happens.
Sexlightened
We are a fun loving couple with a bi-female who are wanting some FFM fun.
We are both clean, shaven and have high sex drives.
Looking for a single Bi-Fem for me and my partner to bring into our night time fun and games.
Can travel to some degree but require at least a weeks notice to make arrangements.
Sexlightened
Damn, can only make it on a Sunday :cry:
Oh well, maybe next time.
Sexlightened
I'll speak to the fiancee, if she's available we might be able to make this social.
I'll let ya know.
Sexlightened
Anyone know when the next Sheffield Social is planned for ?
I would like to attend with my new fiancee if possible, so, if anyone knows when this is happening, can u let me know, thanks.
Sexlightened
Hi all, I am back, and I ain't alone, yay.
I am now engaged to a beautiful and loving lady, and guess what, she's as open minded as me, lol.
So, who knows, we might get the chance to have some fun and games with others.
Hi to those who know me and Hello to the new ones who don't.
Right, off to the Let's Meet Up forum to see when the next sheff social is planned for, lol.
Sexlightened
I think you need a new calender mate, Sunday is the 25th, not the 24th.
Sexlightened
Well, gave them a ring, it's basically an opportunity for people to look around the location, totally free, should be good to see the enviroment, if it's nice enough I might seriously consider joining up.
Sexlightened
Thought I would bump this thread seeing as the open day is getting close, I shall be phoning them tommorow and making enquiries, I shall post what they say on here so that if anyone wants to go, they know what is happening.
Sexlightened
Thought you might like to know, if you haven't been before, they are having an open day this coming Sunday, I am going along myself to that event.
Sexlightened
It's a shame I am just over your 50 mile radius, Sheffield is 57 miles away according to your profile, your very attractive and I have plenty of space in my accomodation, especially at weekends as my son is away for the weekends.
Oh well, if you'd be willing to travel that little bit further, I would be more than willing to provide a friendly location where you could have some fun with some other guys, if you manage to find any that is, me obviously being one of them lol
Anyways, if not, take care and I hope you have luck finding what you want.
Sexlightened
Would any single females or couples like to accompany me to the La Chambre open day on the 25th of June from 12:00pm to 4:00pm, if so, I would be willing and able to accomodate.
I shall be going anyway, just thought it might be nice to have some friendly company.
If your interested, PM me and I shall get back in touch.
Sexlightened
Quote by freckledbird
Why not email/telephone the club, rather than rely on hearsay?

Not really into that band, although, I dunno what information HearSay would have on a swinging club, do they attend it ?
Seriously though, yeah, I will be contacting them, just thought I would ask in here, seeing as I ain't said anything for ages.
Sexlightened
Apparently, La Chambre are having an open day on the 25th of June from 12 noon to 4pm, not sure if it is free, or if there is a charge and if it is open to members only, I have checked their site and there is nothing on there, yet.
So, anyone know anything and able to shed some light on this event ?
Sexlightened
Go on then, stick us down on the list please, you will have to remind me of the location though please.
Sexlightened
Quote by sheddy
Also next week I will be mostly thinking of Shergar and Lord Lucan, Prehaps they willl turn up out of the blue as well confused :?

Try setting ya sites a little bit lower sheddy, something like the spice girls or the cheeky girls, lol.
Although, wasn't shergar a horse ? or is that an area of things we don't want to enter into ?
Thanks for all the kind words, I see your point, but, it is hard to swing when the person your with is not interested in the scene and you are, so, you have to sacrifice certain aspects so you can both be happy, but, not I am single again, I am determined to float the boat so to speak.
Sexlightened
Hi everyone, I am back....
I got uncerimoniously dumped last night, so, I am single again and determined to enjoy myself as much as possible.
So, expect me to be posting stuff soon.
Sexlightened
Awwww, thanks everyone for your kind words....
I am a bit depressed though tonight, she is having a chill out session with her kids, so, I am unable to go round, so, gonna be sat at home alone pining to be with her, sad :( :(
I am missing her sooo much.
Sexlightened
Thanks, I will keep you all informed, I doubt it will go wrong though, we love each other wholeheartedly.
Sexlightened
Just a quick message to say bye to everyone, I have had great fun meeting people and getting to know people from this site and community, I am leaving because I have finally got someone in my life and I am very happy and content, it would have been nice to explore and get a few life experiences, but, I am hoping to settle with this new person and swinging is not something that is shared, so, thanks again for being so friendly.