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livelife_cpl
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 43
Straight Male, 45
0 miles · West Midlands
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Wow it seems this thread has been very popular. We'd like to add that since we started this thread Mrs L has hooked up with a guy we know and even though he isn't her normal type and she doesn't fancy him she does like certain things about him including his personality so warmed to the idea of sex with him. Now don't get us wrong he is still a good looking guy with a good physique but not what Mrs L would usually go for... Not sure if this is classed as lowering standards or not but we are having a great time either way :-)
Here is a subject that I am sure will separate opinion! We have a fantasy of Mrs Livelife having fun with a younger fella as she wants to use all her skills to dominate him :-) At first we thought Swingers club, talk with a guy (stranger) and then fun times :-) In the last few days a lad from our gym has made it clear that he would love to have some fun with Mrs Livelife and she is very keen too! So my question to you all is - Do you prefer the rush of meeting a stranger and making out or do you prefer the risk of the acquaintance, knowing that you will see him most days and that he will probably show off and tell his mates and all of a sudden everyone knows?
For us we love the risk of people finding out even if we don't really want them too as we understand this is not everyone's idea of fun. Please share with us your experiences and opinions!
For us we love the risk of people finding out even if we don't really want them too as we understand this is not everyone's idea of fun. Please share with us your experiences and opinions!
Hi all.
We went to Liberty Elite on Saturday 29th September and thought we'd share our thoughts. First of all we are newbies and have been to one other club just once (Vanilla a couple of months back. Why where we so nervous? We are asking ourselves that now as there really is no reason. The staff were fantastic and we never felt like people were being pushy!
Back to Liberty - We absolutely loved the layout, bar area, chilled are and dance floor and it really is a classy place. The car park right through to the grounds at the back of the venue are immaculate. It was cowboys and cowgirls theme and even though we didn't dress for this, about half of the people there did and looked fantastic. There were plenty of sexy ladies and some good looking gents too although I'm led to believe on a Friday there are a lot more people there. With that said we had a look in the play area but it was packed full of naked people with no room at all to have some same room fun, but there are also lockable rooms upstairs if you just want fun together of with others with a little more privacy. They also have all sorts of themed nights which we plan to join in with next time.
All in all this seems to be an outstanding club and even though we only mainly stayed in the social area/dance floor we had a top night and cant wait to do it again. We look forward to meeting more people next time and plan to mingle a bit more now we are finding our feet :-) Anyone planning on going in the next couple of weeks?
We went to Liberty Elite on Saturday 29th September and thought we'd share our thoughts. First of all we are newbies and have been to one other club just once (Vanilla a couple of months back. Why where we so nervous? We are asking ourselves that now as there really is no reason. The staff were fantastic and we never felt like people were being pushy!
Back to Liberty - We absolutely loved the layout, bar area, chilled are and dance floor and it really is a classy place. The car park right through to the grounds at the back of the venue are immaculate. It was cowboys and cowgirls theme and even though we didn't dress for this, about half of the people there did and looked fantastic. There were plenty of sexy ladies and some good looking gents too although I'm led to believe on a Friday there are a lot more people there. With that said we had a look in the play area but it was packed full of naked people with no room at all to have some same room fun, but there are also lockable rooms upstairs if you just want fun together of with others with a little more privacy. They also have all sorts of themed nights which we plan to join in with next time.
All in all this seems to be an outstanding club and even though we only mainly stayed in the social area/dance floor we had a top night and cant wait to do it again. We look forward to meeting more people next time and plan to mingle a bit more now we are finding our feet :-) Anyone planning on going in the next couple of weeks?
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Hi all.
During our first visit to a club last week we got talking to a couple who were telling us about some meets they had in the last few weeks and went on to say "we lower our standards when looking for people to swing with". Whilst we completely respect their choices and understand their reason for this but we don't agree with the comment. For us to have fun with a male, female or couple we need to find them almost as attractive as we would if we were looking to date them and this includes the same sort of personalities we like as well as physical appearance. What's everyone's opinion on this?
J & M
Almost? so is that not lowering your standards just a little bit?
Yes fair point guys, let us explain further. The couple in question actually said that the guy joining them was really unattractive and didnt even have a personality to make up for it so we thought well why bother! We personally couldnt get in the mood for naughties if we were meeting someone who was in our eyes "really unattractive" or soneone who we also couldn't have a laugh with.
Quote by HughGRection
My standards are pretty fixed. What I don't judge people on, either for dating or swinging, is their physical appearance. It is just so irrelavent to whether they are pleasant company or a good shag.
Ive read a few of your posts now and you come across as a lovely level headed person..... just thought i'd mention it xxx as for standards - no I dont lower them - thats why i hardly ever meet because my standards are far higher than they have any right to be but rather that than shag anything with a pulse and become a pox ridden leper with no bedposts due to excessive notching !!!
Top response, love a bit of humour too :-)
Hi all.
During our first visit to a club last week we got talking to a couple who were telling us about some meets they had in the last few weeks and went on to say "we lower our standards when looking for people to swing with". Whilst we completely respect their choices and understand their reason for this but we don't agree with the comment. For us to have fun with a male, female or couple we need to find them almost as attractive as we would if we were looking to date them and this includes the same sort of personalities we like as well as physical appearance. What's everyone's opinion on this?
J & M
During our first visit to a club last week we got talking to a couple who were telling us about some meets they had in the last few weeks and went on to say "we lower our standards when looking for people to swing with". Whilst we completely respect their choices and understand their reason for this but we don't agree with the comment. For us to have fun with a male, female or couple we need to find them almost as attractive as we would if we were looking to date them and this includes the same sort of personalities we like as well as physical appearance. What's everyone's opinion on this?
J & M
