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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 63
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Quote by Funlovers2009
:thumbup: Totally agree!!
There is of course bi curious. I see someone who is bi curious as someone who is intrigued by playing with someone of the same sex but hasn't done so yet. Once you have had a dabble, liked it and want to do it again, you are bi, if you don't like it, you're straight .... simples.
I feel that just because you are bi, doesn't mean that you always want to play with people of the same sex. I have done almost everything there is to do with another woman, however, I much prefer to play with men and will only play with women if the mood/girl/place/time is right. I describe my sexuality as bi selective. Still bi though.
Of course people's preferences change throughout their life.
Thanks Funlovers2009, I think you've summed it up perfectly.
(see my string http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/377084.html)
Quote by Bear69
lay her naked on her side and it looks like a plate of pancakes
Drizzled with maple syrup, sounds delicious. :lickface:
My male member has been referred to as "Mini Me" at times.
I think what you call your "bits" depends a lot upon the mood and the situation at the time.
What about ladies breasts? I like "the girls" or "puppies" or "the twins" when feeling playful. I guess "boobs" is the generic term.
I class my sexuality as straight. I'm certain I am not homosexual.
By my idea of what bi-sexuality is, I'm sure I am not that either.
What I do increasingly find is that I am quite curious to know what another mans body feels like to touch. Primarily the genitals if I'm honest.
I don't wish to be doing this alone with another man, but more of a group situation.
ie. with a male-female couple where it was not the main focus of the activity
So, I'm I bi-curious or just plain curious. Perhaps I am "Straight-Curious".
By my idea of what bi-sexuality is, I'm sure I am not that either.
What I do increasingly find is that I am quite curious to know what another mans body feels like to touch. Primarily the genitals if I'm honest.
I don't wish to be doing this alone with another man, but more of a group situation.
ie. with a male-female couple where it was not the main focus of the activity
So, I'm I bi-curious or just plain curious. Perhaps I am "Straight-Curious".
Can anyone explain
When searching for possible contacts I'd like to find those looking for single males. But when I look at many of the resulting profiles although they do list that they are "looking for" single straight male, the message and/or adverts say they are either not or are definitly not looking for single males.
Either the search engine needs looking at or the profiles do.
What is your take on this?
When searching for possible contacts I'd like to find those looking for single males. But when I look at many of the resulting profiles although they do list that they are "looking for" single straight male, the message and/or adverts say they are either not or are definitly not looking for single males.
Either the search engine needs looking at or the profiles do.
What is your take on this?
Quote by Peanut
Bugger! And there was me thinking someone was going to describe how they shagged Grace Slick on a drug-hazed afternoon in 1968 :shock:
Very surreal Peanut.
Do you think they'll all got it.
Maybe they should go ask Alice when she's 10 feet tall
Better keep of the mushrooms
:lol: :lol:Autumn is lovely to look at with all the trees changing to reds and golds but it reminds me that winter is coming.
I love the spring months, March & April. The earth coming back to life and the promise of the summer to come.
Quote by noladreams30
For me I reckon it has to be on my back with my legs either being held up or resting on my partner's shoulders. I reckon it has a lot to do with the angle my pelvis is tilted at - but I could be wrong... and anyway, it feels damn good so who cares if my pseudo-scientific reasoning is dodgy!?!
(on a quest to sex up the forum on a dull and rainy Weds evening!
Could be that the more tilted up you pelvis is the more likely he is to be stimulating your G-spot as he move back and forth in you.
Yes, yes, yes!!!
I want a flounce emoticon I love to flounce.
flounce
(3rd person present singular flounces, present participle flouncing, past and past participle flounced)vi
move with angry swagger: to move with exaggerated angry swaggering motions showing displeasure or indignation
-flounce, , n
What would it look like?
maybe a cross between these:
:confused:
:moon:
I want a flounce emoticon I love to flounce.
flounce
(3rd person present singular flounces, present participle flouncing, past and past participle flounced)vi
move with angry swagger: to move with exaggerated angry swaggering motions showing displeasure or indignation
-flounce, , n
What would it look like?
maybe a cross between these:
:confused:
:moon: If you have Vista, there's a natty little tool called Snipper (i think). It allows you to snip/cut out bits of the screen to the clipboard and then save.
Good post. It's fun to spot those querky little coincidences that occur in life.
Sometimes in the chat rooms when many conversations are happening the responses get all mixed up. Reading them in sequence can produce some hilarious results.
Also, when I'm in the supermarket queue behind someone buying just a few items (they were no doubt short of)I amuse myself by imagining what they might be going to do with them collectively - if you get my meaning.
For instance.
a pair of trainer socks
a multi-pack of C size batteries
barbecue lighters
a jar of peanut butter
and a wooden spatula
Happy posting - xx
Good post. It's fun to spot those querky little coincidences that occur in life.
Sometimes in the chat rooms when many conversations are happening the responses get all mixed up. Reading them in sequence can produce some hilarious results.
Also, when I'm in the supermarket queue behind someone buying just a few items (they were no doubt short of)I amuse myself by imagining what they might be going to do with them collectively - if you get my meaning.
For instance.
a pair of trainer socks
a multi-pack of C size batteries
barbecue lighters
a jar of peanut butter
and a wooden spatula
Happy posting - xx
Perhaps MSA (thread originator) should confess to his partner his desire to "have sex with others" so to speak. Either as a couple or by himself.
If she shows interest then great. The discussion can grow from there.
If she is disgusted by the very idea and considers it impossible to carry on their relationship with this new knowledge, then he's now a viable single.
Granted these are the two diametrically opposed possible outcomes, naturally there may be others.
I think the latter is what strikes fear in to many a man in his situation.
As I said earlier in this thread; "what's said can't be unsaid".
Perhaps what MSA would like know is how to broach the subject with his partner.
Maybe couples could describe how they got started, who said what to whom first.
Was it well received or indeed did it turn out badly?
If she shows interest then great. The discussion can grow from there.
If she is disgusted by the very idea and considers it impossible to carry on their relationship with this new knowledge, then he's now a viable single.
Granted these are the two diametrically opposed possible outcomes, naturally there may be others.
I think the latter is what strikes fear in to many a man in his situation.
As I said earlier in this thread; "what's said can't be unsaid".
Perhaps what MSA would like know is how to broach the subject with his partner.
Maybe couples could describe how they got started, who said what to whom first.
Was it well received or indeed did it turn out badly?
MARMITE
For my part I can't stand it.
Created from a waste product.
And still a waste product. Pointless
Oh, Lynchburg is a place in Tennesee,
a mecca for fans of a certain sour mash whiskey.
(can anyone guess what it is yet? Said Rolf)
Come on The South, lets roll up our sleeves, pull down our tighty whiteys
and show them what we can do!
(especially in Hants)
Not much of a rallying cry but it's a start.
Thanks everyone so far for your comments.
For my part I can't stand it.
Created from a waste product.
And still a waste product. Pointless
Oh, Lynchburg is a place in Tennesee,
a mecca for fans of a certain sour mash whiskey.
(can anyone guess what it is yet? Said Rolf)
Come on The South, lets roll up our sleeves, pull down our tighty whiteys
and show them what we can do!
(especially in Hants)
Not much of a rallying cry but it's a start.
Thanks everyone so far for your comments.
Hi all,
This is my first real attempt at starting a thread. I'm not much of an essayist nor very eloquant but here goes.
Having browsed this site for many a long evening I've noticed what appears to be a trend.
The folk "Up North" seem to be having more fun than those down there.
Hampshire is rather quiet swingingwise.
Are you more liberated up there, north of Watford, or is it just that there's more of you?
Please , please , please don't take offence any one south of Watford.
I was just wondering if there is anything in this theory. Where, do you think, is the swinging capital of England?
This is my first real attempt at starting a thread. I'm not much of an essayist nor very eloquant but here goes.
Having browsed this site for many a long evening I've noticed what appears to be a trend.
The folk "Up North" seem to be having more fun than those down there.
Hampshire is rather quiet swingingwise.
Are you more liberated up there, north of Watford, or is it just that there's more of you?
Please , please , please don't take offence any one south of Watford.
I was just wondering if there is anything in this theory. Where, do you think, is the swinging capital of England?
Fair comment. I could have phrased it better. 
When I say males I didn't mean men as in humans, I meant males of a species. As in nature in general. But, then (as I type)I think actually there are some species of the animal kingdom that are monogamus.
So that prompts me to immediatly appologies to any men I may have inadvertantly offended and revise my earlier remarks to refer to many males.
I wanted to offer a possible reason/excuse why SOME men stray/cheat.
Great forum everyone, hope to contribute again.
When I say males I didn't mean men as in humans, I meant males of a species. As in nature in general. But, then (as I type)I think actually there are some species of the animal kingdom that are monogamus.
So that prompts me to immediatly appologies to any men I may have inadvertantly offended and revise my earlier remarks to refer to many males.
I wanted to offer a possible reason/excuse why SOME men stray/cheat.
Great forum everyone, hope to contribute again.
I think that,fundamentally,all males are single. What I mean is that they are not monogamus by nature.
It's a bit of a cliche but we would like our women to be ladies in the lounge, queens in the kitchen and an absolute raving nympho's in the bedroom. Such a thing is rare so perhaps we look for those traits from different individuals.
Of course mutual understanding and consent to this is always the best way to go forward but few men want or know how to broach the subject with their partners for fear of the consiquences. I mean, once said it can't be unsaid.
It's a bit of a cliche but we would like our women to be ladies in the lounge, queens in the kitchen and an absolute raving nympho's in the bedroom. Such a thing is rare so perhaps we look for those traits from different individuals.
Of course mutual understanding and consent to this is always the best way to go forward but few men want or know how to broach the subject with their partners for fear of the consiquences. I mean, once said it can't be unsaid.
