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manchester_man
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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Quote by cumeetus
Interesting...no one has asked what the 'young couple' are like lol x

Well I had hoped that a bit more info might be forthcoming once the date was set, but lukey seems strangely reticent to say much about this event.
I see his only two posts are in this thread, although he's been on SH as rescently as today, so I'm beginning to suspect this one goes on the "timewaster" pile, along with so much else...
Ah well - was a nice idea.
Quote by lukey1
early stages yet, looking at one weekend mid december, they don't mind what sort of guys come.

Any progress on date / time / location yet?
"Mid December weekend" sounds like the 15/16th?
Let us know please when you know a bit more yourself.
Ho hum.... rolleyes:roll::roll:
Have a look at some of the threads on this Forum - there's a recent one called "Am I wasting my time" for a start.
Remember there are LOADS of guys on here for every lady or couple looking - so don't expect that a post like yours is going to have them flocking to you... Why should it? Any couple or lady on here will already have dozens of people they know (or have at least chatted to) and who have a bit more about themselves on their profile (you have basic details but no photos and no text to say who you are or what you're looking for - just a one line ad, similar to your post).
It's like the real world - only a bit different, in that we're all open to swinging in some form. But that doesn't mean you get to have fun just by shouting "I'm horny" and waiting for a queue to form.... lol
If you make an effort, you'll get to know people, and that may lead somewhere.
Frankly - you've yet to make an effort.
Not meaning to sound critical - we all start somewhere - so please take this advice to heart.
Don't give up - but you need to be patient if you want to get what you want (or anything close to it). My quick advice would be:
- Spend time in Forum and/or Chatroom, joining in conversation and getting to know people. Not just those who are playing on camera, but the general chit-chat.
- Be respectful. We all come on here for some relaxing time, not just expecting to meet in 10 minutes time, so come on for the chat & to look around and treat anything else as a bonus.
- Have a look at who is looking for men to meet (this page is where you'll find that). Don't reply unless you meet the criteria they're looking for, or it just looks like you're wasting people's time (... and to be honest, you are!).
- Go to a social or a munch if you can. Once people know you're a "real" person then they're more likely top chat with you on here and consider you for a meet.
- And - most important - put yourself in the shoes of the people you're looking to meet. Amazing how often you see someone in a chat room messaging a couple who are playing on camera to say something like "I'm only 80 miles away and could be there in an hour and a half"! Why the heck would they want to wait that long to meet with a guy they'd never heard of until 10 seconds before? Basically, it's a "buyer's market" for the ladies and couples - they are not short of offers, so they get to pick and choose. If they recognise your name and have chatted to you, they're more likely to put you at the top of the list.
Oh - one more thing - there are other threads on here offering suimilar advice, so maybe check out some of those too?
Good luck!
lol :lol:
Quote by lukey1
Hi, I'm organising a gangbang that will take place in a leeds hotel in december.
I am organising this for a young couple on this site, if you have any questions and are interested please get in touch
thanks

I'm interested - but would be helpful to know a few more details, like the date, and what sort of guys you (or they) are looking for.
Damn....
Wish I'd seen this earlier - like this morning!! :-(
Hope you had enought takes for your short-notice party to make it a success??
Quote by Davrod
Guys. The Young Cple are asking for fit YOUNG guys only. Cheers

To be fair, your earlier posts make no mention of any age criteria, so people who replied have done so in good faith. What do you (they?) count as "young", anyhow?
And I presume the couple are members on this site? Site rules mean they should be if you're arranging a meet for them.
Interested...
But it would help to know roughly where & when??
Presume it is not today, as you're now of the site until November.
Give us a clue...!! lol :lol:
Gosh....
I drive past there a lot and go in occasionally. Will be popping in a bit more frequently from now on, I think!!
What sort of times have you seen her - morning, afternoon, evening....? Or :-)
Hi,
First - and most important - wherever you go in terms of clubs, you'll never NEED to let other people have sex with your partner. Just becasue you are in a swingers club, it absolutely does not make her (or you, for that matter) public property.
You still have full right to decide what (if anything) you want to get up to and with whom.
So you can play solely with each other, or for that matter do nothing more than sit around and have a drink. That's fine.
Even if you start to play with others, you both have the total right at any time to stop without giving reasons, or having to make excuses.
As for daytime clubs - the two I know of which are both pretty good are Cupids in Manchester and Chameleons to the North of Birmingham (off J10 of the M6). Of the two,my experience would suggest Chams would be a better bet, but you can check out facilities, reviews, opening times, etc in the club review section by clicking "Clubs" on the left there. Both open from lunchtime onwards.
You can also check out other clubs - they can be listed by location too.
Hope that helps - and that you both have fun...
Come back on here and let us know if you enjoyed your first experience!
If you know the name of it, you may well find reviews under the "Clubs" section on the site.
Click onto "Clubs" over on the left there.... you can search by name or location.
Cupids in MAnchester & Chameleons just N of Birmingham are both open during the daytime (afternoons).
Both are a bit far from you though, by the look of it.
I have face pics on my profile.
Let me know if you're interested, and - if so - let me know a bit more.
Manchester_man
Quote by gingerjo-lee
hiya manchester man
it use to be club selecta but been done up at the mo and changed hands
4 cpls and 1 fem i know of going tonight so should be a good night smile
cya there tazz xxx

Thanx!
Couldn't make it on Sat but will maybe try another time... Hope all's well with you? Not seen you for a while
Quote by gingerjo-lee
hi there
were off to gatehouse swingers club in farnworth bolton on sat 1st sept
is any 1 else going ? come join us for a honry sexy night
cya there jo and lee x

Gatehouse? Is that new, or just a new name of an old club?
No listing for it I could see under the "Clubs" section on left...
Thanks for a fantastic afternoon.... Such a sexy fun time!
Hope you guys have a great evening and I'll keep my eyes open for your next meeting!
Manchester_man
One thing to watch - sone of the cheaper hotels like Prem Inn and Travelodge need a room key to get up from reception to the bedroom corridors.
That's fine if you're meeting all your "guests" first and then going up to room together, bu causes a problem if you are going to have people coming and going (sorry...! :-) ) during the time when you're occupied in the room.
The classier hotels tend to allow people up to the room corridors without needing a key.
If you think you're being ripped off, then the answer is simple. Don't go in the club! You have a choice.
It's a simple case of supply and demand here - if clubs charged the same for single guys as for couples, then every club would have about 40 guys for every couple. And that's not going to make for a fun night for anyone (except perhaps the couple - if she's VERY greedy! :-) )
In many ways guys have it easier than ladies in life. Swinging is one of the exceptions that proves the rule.
You could always start your own club....?
Hi,
We met in March, when you were in Manchester for Fred's 50th. Might be able to make it next Weds, but depends what time you are looking to meet up. Can you let me know?
Would love to see you again and have some more sexy afternoon fun.
I have Facetime and would love to arrange to watch your gorgeous wife.
It would be a true privilege to watch her.... whatever she's doing.
Let me know how to arrnage this, if she'd like me to watch.
Dan
Quote by Young_Swingers
Hi we are looking for a small cock to have fun with if u can help get in touch ages 30 to 40 thanks for reading

I have a biggish cock. How about if I promised only to use the top half of it? biggrin:D:D:D
What a shame that I'm away with work on Monday. Would have been a lovely way to start the week!
Maybe next time...!
As a 50+ guy (just!), like James, I'm embarrassed to see this post.
The thing all of us guys need to realise on here (or in life!) is that it's a chooser's market for the ladies & couples. There are plenty of single guys... but not so many ladies and couple looking.
So even if it IS a nice hotel and even if James IS paying, it is JUST possible that either there are no ladies or couples looking to meet up in that way on that night, or they all have guys lined up already..... or JUST possibly, they don't happen to like what they see on James's profile.
The time to complain is when someone arranges to meet you, and then doesn't show. That's bad manners. When you get no replies to your ad, that's just other people exercising their personal choice.
My advice to James is to follow your own suggestion and stop posting ads on the site. At least that way it makes a slight improvement in the odds for the guys who are left!! lol
It amazes me that someone has managed to resurrect a thread that had been dead for over a year... and the same guy has done it at least twice.
Next thing you know, he'll be posting that the site is a wsate of time & everyone is a timewaster, 'cos he's not had any replies to his kind offers...!!
lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by silentsven
sorry am I missing something here...the person could be 'Rod' or 'Debs'...they made such an impression on your shy wife that she wasn't sure if they were male nor female....come on!!

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