Doz,
I know what you mean about the chat rooms, but I suggest you start in the bigger rooms and just join in with wherever the conversation is flowing. Not if its clearly a 1-1 conversation, but most are group gossips, etc and people won't tell you to go away just because they don't know you yet!
Or else you can comment (favourably!) on one of the cams if there's something nice to watch... And you'll find that others will most likely be commenting on the same show.
Good luck!
Manchester_Man
You won't be hassled or hustled into swapping at any decent club, and - as pointed out - there's a list on this site with more details about them all and reviews.
My favourite one in the S of England is Abfabs, right next to Heathrow. I'd suggest maybe a Tues or Weds night to start with, as it's quieter, and you can soak up the atmosphere in peace, have a swim, sauna, chill out, etc.
Suggest you find a club that seems to suit, then give them a ring to ask about practicalities - dress code, valuables, parking, bringing drinks, etc. You'll get a feel for the place by chatting to staff on the phone, and when you go, make sure you explain to the staff it's your first time and they'll show you round and explain what you need to know.
We've all had a first time once, so we've all been there!
Good luck, and I hope you find some fun if/ when you go. Maybe come back and let us know how you got on?
Damn!!!!
I'm in London from Tuesday to Friday this week. Such a shame as I'd love to join you again for one of your fun, sexy afternoons.... :sad: :sad: :sad:
Maybe next time?
Yes - as far as I know, Cupids couple-only night is Wednesdays.
I think the earlier replies were commenting on the clubs in general - not specifically the couples-only nights.
Indeed..... I've wasted time (and money - booking hotel rooms, etc) on things which looked as if the people involved were really genuine - until I suddenly got a terse cancellation or just total radio silence.
This *could* be totally genuine, but they have been on the site since either 2005 (according to the profile) or 2008 (according to the avatar above) and this is apparently their first post. Coupled with zilch on the profile I'd be suspicious too...
I'd love to be proved wrong...
Yes please - can you put my name down?
90% sure I can make it. Will know for sure in a couple of weeks and will let you know if there's any problem.
Manchester_Man
Cupids always gets my vote.
Been going there for about 14 years or so now, which must say something!! Always a good atmosphere and not pushy.
Now under new(ish) management and been done up a lot lately.
Hi,
I've been to a couple of these before in Manchester, so I hope you know I'm reliable?
Is this one in Manchester? And what time will you be setting off from your meeting-up point? It's a bit earlier than usual which might make it a bit tight for me to make it, if you're planning an early start.
Thanks!