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manchester_man
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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Doz,
I know what you mean about the chat rooms, but I suggest you start in the bigger rooms and just join in with wherever the conversation is flowing. Not if its clearly a 1-1 conversation, but most are group gossips, etc and people won't tell you to go away just because they don't know you yet!
Or else you can comment (favourably!) on one of the cams if there's something nice to watch... And you'll find that others will most likely be commenting on the same show.
Good luck!
Manchester_Man
Hi there,
I had the pleasure (!!) of meeting you at the SH party in May and would love to meet up again...
You say "home or away" - so I wonder if you'd fancy a trip up to the NW sometime? Maybe a visit to a club up here, or maybe for a daytime gangbang in a hotel. There's quite an active GB group up here and I know they'd (we'd! wink ) love to enjoy some time with such a sexy lady.
Any thoughts?
Or if you're planning something closer to home (your home, I mean) let me know and I'd love to travel & join in...
Manchester_Man xx
Quote by Dairycalf
I'll just list the sexy/exciting ones
In a McDonalds car park in Cardiff...

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Forgive me, but I just laughed out loud at that...!!!
Quote by Beach-Lovers
I think you could be right there. I mean I know this is a swinging site but being referred to as a "fuck Buddy" probably isn't the best way to win the ladies. I think sometimes people need to understand that just because someone enjoys to swing it doesn't make them a piece of meat.

I was thinking the same... best way to find a "fuck buddy" is to use the Forums and Chatrooms on here to make friends, as well as going to clubs as a single male and chatting to the ladies who are there (some of whom will be there as single females).
Then - you never know - one of those friends could become a fuck-buddy in due course, if you find:
(a) you like each other, and
(b) you also like having sex with each other.
I don't think that ladies generally consider themselves to be "fuck-buddies in waiting"! lol
Good luck anyhow - and let us know how you get on!
Quote by BesPoke
Now I know why I do not use the forum! speaks for its sefl really lol
Be lucky n have fun people Unfortunately I didn't this time lol

There ARE meets that happen through the Forum - I've had some. And very nice too...!! lol :lol:
But it's a buyer's market out there for the ladies & couples - loads of us single guys wanting to meet, so we don't always get lucky. If you persevere you might just get lucky... and it's also worth spending time in chatrooms, going to socials, munches, etc too if you get the chance.
Hope you've had a decent weekend, anyhow - and better luck next time!
I admire the originality of the title, but not everyone will have bothered to check out what the content actually says.
I know it's a bit same-y, but it probably makes sense to include a few details in the title of the post about:
- where you are
- what you're looking for
- when
- etc...
That way anyone who is looking for someone like you, free at the right time and in roughly the right area will be attracted to your post, without having to open it up to see if there's even the remotest chance of it being relevant.
But don't let this put you off... GOOD LUCK!
(And you could always add a new post with the details of this planned meet, so then you've double the chances!! lol )
Quote by YorksJames1968
That is totally unacceptable behaviour. I've never known it happen in a club and it just shouldn't.
The club owner/manager should have immediately asked him to leave, at the very least.
No wonder us single guys get a bad name with jerks like that!

Totally agree. Not only is such an act probably bordering on sexual assault (as pointed out above), it spoils the club atmosphere for everyone - couples and guys. That in turn is not good for the club in the long run.
The response you got on the night was totally out of order. I suggest you make contact with the club again, and maybe send them a link to this thread. It doesn't help you, but it might at least prevent some other poor lady from being treated so disgracefully in future, if they buck their ideas up a bit.
(And - if you wouldn't mind - I'd be keen to know just which club it was, so I can make sure I avoid it myself... Feel free to send me a PM to let me know, if you don't want to put the name - or a hint - on here)
Totally agree. A great party night at the club, and good to put real life faces to so many SH names.
Massive thanks to all those who helped to organise it.
(And extra special thanks to the lovely couple who invited me back to their room at the Premier Inn afterwards for a little... ahem.... night-cap! hump)
Do we really have to wait another 10 years for the next one? :sad: :sad: :sad:
Manchester_man
You won't be hassled or hustled into swapping at any decent club, and - as pointed out - there's a list on this site with more details about them all and reviews.
My favourite one in the S of England is Abfabs, right next to Heathrow. I'd suggest maybe a Tues or Weds night to start with, as it's quieter, and you can soak up the atmosphere in peace, have a swim, sauna, chill out, etc.
Suggest you find a club that seems to suit, then give them a ring to ask about practicalities - dress code, valuables, parking, bringing drinks, etc. You'll get a feel for the place by chatting to staff on the phone, and when you go, make sure you explain to the staff it's your first time and they'll show you round and explain what you need to know.
We've all had a first time once, so we've all been there!
Good luck, and I hope you find some fun if/ when you go. Maybe come back and let us know how you got on?
Damn!!!!
I'm in London from Tuesday to Friday this week. Such a shame as I'd love to join you again for one of your fun, sexy afternoons.... :sad: :sad: :sad:
Maybe next time?
Quote by nwcpl4fun
Hi, update, just to say thanks to all the guys (and couple) that we played with, and a special thanks to Manchester_Man who was one of the very few guys that said he would be coming and did (in more ways than one lol )

The pleasure was all mine.... :lol: :lol:
She's one VERY horny lady! Sucked me dry as well as anyone I've played with in a long time!!
Quote by nwcpl4fun
look forward to playing with you, just let us know who you are so we know that you did turn up xx

Hi - was great to see you on Tuesday night. Sorry for delay in replying to your post, but I've not been on since then as been madly busy with work, then away for the weekend.
Hope you has as much fun as I did on Tuesday and I'll look forward to meeting you again sometime, I hope. wink
Not now going in the afternoon, so may very well be there in the evening...
Looking forward to it! lol :lol:
Mmmmmm - tempting!
I'm hoping to be there in the afternoon for a change on Tuesday, but will try to make it along in the evening as well.
Safe a space on the big bed for me!! lol :lol: :lol:
Quote by lilnfil
Partners at Bury :thumbup:
Go on a cpls night, Thursday, Sunday and the first Saturday of every month
But its like owt, it could be packed it could be empty dunno..............just go with no expectations and enjoy :smile:

That's good advice. Cupids is my regular club but the advice would be the same. Plan your first trip as a general one to see what the place is like, and enjoy the swingers experience at your own pace!
Have fun!!
Hi,
Just to say - I've had a cheeky peek at your advert (and profile). Nothing at all putting me off - quite the reverse!! wink
But sadly I can't make it to York on that date. Maybe another time might work.
I'm sure many of the others who've looked at your ad are in a similar position to me - just browsing.
I would stress that I HAVE had several meets off the site (via this Forum and otherwise). I'm not a timewaster,but I do enjoy browsing the ads, even if the title makes clear that I won't be able to enjoy the specific experience on offer.
So please don't be put off - and I'm sure you'll find plenty of takers. The chatroom is sometimes a good place to drum up some extra interest in your post too...
Hope you have fun - and I'll be jealous of the guys who ARE able to join you...!!
Manchester_Man
Yes - as far as I know, Cupids couple-only night is Wednesdays.
I think the earlier replies were commenting on the clubs in general - not specifically the couples-only nights.
Quote by miserly
I wouldn't mind going,but I was put off a little by the first and only time I went to a club (not A&E). I phoned first, and was told what a wild night was in store,and what great fun it was going to be. Turned up,paid up and spent 3 hours with just one other bloke for company. Worse,he was an Arsenal fan too. The hot tub was cold,as were the saunas. I didn't go expecting anything of course,good job really! Ah well! Have a great night anyway!

I'd give it another go, mate. These clubs wouldn't last 5 minutes if your first experience was the normal way of things turning out - but you can never tell. They have no way of knowing for sure who will turn up on any particular evening.
I've been going to clubs for about 15 years, and only once had an experience like yours. This lovely couple have said they plan to go to A&E tomorrow, so why not join them? I would if I were not travelling to London with work... :sad:
Sh*t..... wish I'd seen this ad sooner!!
85 miles away myself, but if you were interested, I'd have been more than happy to travel up and enjoy some fun with the delightful Woowoo....
Maybe next time? lol
Quote by steve196400
all clubs are the same stupid joining fee then enterance fee for single males are way to high,

It's called market forces, mate. If the guys were charged the same as ladies & couples, then the place would be over-run with guys. Result - nobody has any fun.
Any decent club will want to make sure there's a good ratio of couples to single guys. They can either do this by limiting the number of guys they let in, or by hiking their prices for guys to thin out the numbers. The number of people in the club will be the same either way - so stands to reason that they'll do it the way which brings in the most cash.
You need to like it or lump it... As do I.
(Wish I'd been born a nymphmaniac.... life would have been so much easier! And cheaper! lol :lol: :lol: )
Quote by Xtasia
(Hope we don’t need to change a lightbulb)

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Love it! I'm glad you said that and not me... !!
Quote by Fobs
There will be badges for those who want to wear them... lol

Great... now just need to make sure I'm wearing enough to have somewhere to fasten it!!
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Great..... are we all going to get name badges so we will know who is who?
Not everyone looks exactly like their avatar...!! lol :lol:
Indeed..... I've wasted time (and money - booking hotel rooms, etc) on things which looked as if the people involved were really genuine - until I suddenly got a terse cancellation or just total radio silence.
This *could* be totally genuine, but they have been on the site since either 2005 (according to the profile) or 2008 (according to the avatar above) and this is apparently their first post. Coupled with zilch on the profile I'd be suspicious too...
I'd love to be proved wrong...
Yes please - can you put my name down?
90% sure I can make it. Will know for sure in a couple of weeks and will let you know if there's any problem.
Manchester_Man
Quote by Trevaunance
Well there are one of two reasons:
1. He's going to have sex in the back of it.
2. The thread was opened before the forums were shunted around and slipped under the radar.
My vote is for number 2.

lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Cupids always gets my vote.
Been going there for about 14 years or so now, which must say something!! Always a good atmosphere and not pushy.
Now under new(ish) management and been done up a lot lately.
Errrr...
... can anyone explain why this is under the "Let's talk about sex" heading?? confused::?::?:
Hi,
I've been to a couple of these before in Manchester, so I hope you know I'm reliable?
Is this one in Manchester? And what time will you be setting off from your meeting-up point? It's a bit earlier than usual which might make it a bit tight for me to make it, if you're planning an early start.
Thanks!