Not sure about that but a lot of guys on this site who are listed on their profile as "straight" are at least bi.

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Well theres a surprise, I've just logged on and headed for chat and bingo its all up and running ...

Still a blank page for me. May I ask what browser you are using?

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It works on Firefox, but then you cant use cameras (long known problem), some say it works on Chrome, it doesn't work on Msoft Edge without a huge amount of fiddling about ... so must be some kind of scripting problem I would think. At this rate therte will be a a huge outgoing of members unless admin pull their fingers out ......

I'm on Chrome and it's not working for me.

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I think there's an element of a vicious circle there. Some single men act like idiots, single women and couples start ignoring all single men to cope and more single men start being pushy or just speaking in haste instead of thinking about the best approach, and the wheel just keeps on spinning. I don't know that there's a solution.

Then again I have lost count of the number of times I have been contacted by the male half of a couple who have "no single males" on their profile and I am very much single, male and gay.

Really annoying, has been like that since all day.

Have been unable to access the chatroom since yesterday. I just get a blank page with no explanation of what is happening.

The male toilets for a few reasons. They are usually less busy, usually cleaner and no matter how one is dressed one is still a man.

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Being on chat can be EXHAUSTING. We’ve made it clear in our profile we’re not interested in single men and yet 99% don’t have the decency to read/check this before bombarding with messages so admittedly I tend to just ignore them as it’s not worth my energy

Then again I have had many chat requests from the male half of a couple and when I look at their profile have seen "no single males". As such I have come to the conclusion that if said male is online alone then he is more than happy to converse with the "dreaded" single male.

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Yes. It is just a matter of the right circumstances.

I totally agree! Many men will say never in the presence of their wife/girlfriend but on their own it's a totally different story.

I suppose I do cross dress as I love wearing nylons/tights but I have never understood why straight men cross dress as the vast majority of women find it a complete turn off. Then there is the problem of "hiding" things, think about it, if you were to tell your wife/gf what she could and could not wear there would be war!

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Does anyone find it a bit odd to be blocked by someone who you've never interacted with?? In my home screen, where you can see who has visited your profile, I clicked to return the view only to find I'm blocked and warned against harassment.

Seems a little harsh, especially since I don't recall having visited them first! Some people are strange.

Of course it's strange! I can totally see why someone would block someone else if there had been unwanted messages etc but to block someone for just looking at your profile, especially when they looked at yours first is simply a lack of manners/breeding.

I hate having my nipples touched, it's a total turn off for me.

For me it would have to be dressing gowns, people in bed looking as if they are waiting to be seen by a doctor and shocking decor ie net curtains, grubby sofas, Argos "wall art" and dogs wandering around.

Nylons.

Could you please point out where I was making "excuses" for anything. I can only assume you have misread or misunderstood my post.

I think "bi" and "bi curious" are just rather silly terms. I do not believe that it is possible to be both emotionally and sexually attracted to both sexes. As someone has already pointed out there are not many (if any at all) gay men who are "bi curious" I have never encountered any. I think the best description of "bi" is, the gay waiting room!

In my experience yes but of course the attached males are not going to admit that if they have a wife/GF breathing down their neck😇

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What never fails to amuse me is the number of profile's which usually state "no single males" but the male of the couple is very happy to converse with single males in the chatroom when the Mrs is not around/at bingo/watching soaps et all!

 Do you think that couples who are not interested in singletons sexually shouldn't talk to them in chat either? Or is it only ok for the female half of couples to chat with single blokes?

 I think you miss my point somewhat. In my experience on the site the male half of couples is often quite happy to "chat" privately when the female is not around and said chat rarely involves anything to do with females.

What never fails to amuse me is the number of profile's which usually state "no single males" but the male of the couple is very happy to converse with single males in the chatroom when the Mrs is not around/at bingo/watching soaps et all!

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invalid callback request?
what is going on with all the updates going on this week none are working for me either on computer or in use its not great so far for me how about you?