Can anyone PM me with the better sites, ive found it quite poor for dogging locally
Hi, Is there anyone out in the Gloucester area M5/Stroud etc usual places interested in some day time dogging anytime in the next hour or 2?
PM me if interested.
Thanks
Isnt the reluctance to admit having Bi feelings a product of upbringing in a society that celebrates female on female (think lads mags) but pokes thinly veiled criticism at male gay contacts (think the daily mail).
Im Bi but only just so, the first few times i met up with guys and did things i kept leaving saying to myself "thats it now, the last time, didnt really do anything for me- just trying it was all" Even though i knew i didnt believe it. The years of pressure from such a macho culture made me feel like a bad person for enjoying what was happening
I also think good points have been made about the situational aspect of it. Id go 1 further than that and say that i think alot of men have gay or bi "limits" that they are comfy with. I enjoy being wanked and sucked by a guy but have no interest in anal whatsoever- it just simply doesnt sound much fun to me. Ive never sucked a guy off but i want to and know i will i just need to have enough confidence to do so.
I must admit that the internet has opened my eyes. 7 or 8yrs ago i would have thought that the swinging/bi male community was a very small thing that hardly anyone was into (which maybe had the idea harder to accept). Yet visiting this website and actually going to some of the dogging sites has amazed me. There are plenty of well known dogging sites that i could visit almost anytime of the day and within 15mins meet a guy and get some fun. They seem to come from a broad cross section of society aswell, young,old,posh,truckers etc etc so ive come to think that its something that a vast majority of men must find interesting.
You buggers the lot of you, it sounds like its going to be a right bash!
Hi Twin and allthe other locals
Does anyone fancy organising a meet for this friday night the 24th in any of the normal Glos/Stroud places?
PM me if interested or we can debate it here. I`ll get an ad pu ton if anyone fancies it.
Thanks
Matt
I think thats the nature of such a free site isnt it- as someone posted earlier your casting your net wider but are bound to reel in aquite a few people who are only interested in the fantasy.
I dont know how many times ive read ads with the words- all replies with photos attached will get a reply- only to not get a reply 90% of the time. In the same vein it must be very very annoying for alot of couples to post specifications then have an inbox fiull of single guys who didnt bother to read them.
Naming and shaming wouldnt work for obvious reasons, people would just reregister with different details time and again and others would use it as a way to discredit others. I recall having someone i met from another swingers site tell me she had been told i was a time waster- which was wierd considering i had never arranged to meet anyone form that site ever. I can only assume it was single guys trying to cut down the competition.
