hi been there and done that.

i am just the same i want to but as soon as i shoot the whole idea changes and i cant go through with it keep trying and its the same every time, seems very strange to me too !

actually it is not a fantasy at all, 

the conversation has been had as in first post and the next step is floating round my mind and i needed advice with it, i would be grateful if anyone had been there so i could learn, 

thanks for now

thanks 

profile says single because i was till i got married never changed it  one because i dont know how to  and two she doesnt play so dont  see much point

you seem to have got the wrong end of the stick really, the advice i wanted was how to set it up not avoid it. also i would like to know how anyone else may have got on in the  situation, i thought it might make good reading for us all !

hi 

a bit of advice really needed

the other night we were chatting in bed at night and the subject of our differing sexual appetites came up, the difference being in quantity and regularity really. the suggestion of getting some else where was mentioned and i was told it was up to me, though i know if i did all hell would break lose and that would be the end. i then tongue in cheek said maybe your mother could help out (she has been widowed for around ten years) i said it would not be the same as going outside the marraige and may help to keep things in balance and may help mil really a no lose situation really. i was expecting to get thrown out of bed on the spot really but it seemed to sink in a bit really anyway i didnt push it at the time  and left it to sink in.

so i wonder is anyone else doing this kind of thing a nd if so tell me how best to set it up and if it works well ?

 i hope this is of interest to  you all

bye for now

profile never been changed since i got married

yes i have thought about it and really i am annoyed cos i would love to watch.

not discussed it vaguely talked about other joining but only pillow talk and i would not raise it any other time 

a bit of advice really here.

last night we had a take away with some friends, we ordered it on the phone 45 min wait so me and  mates gf went to pub nearby then picked it and friend had some thing to discuss, so stayed in when i said it would be 45 min  wife said ok  normally she would be moaning at the wait.

when we got back wife was a bit lively,

later when they had gone we went to bed and messed around a bit  she was saying leave it till morning, but we carried on, she had had a few drinks and when she has she can let herself go a bit.

anyway i had got inside her and she was v moist i then went down on her and have never in 16 years has she been so wet and the taste was completely different to normal, i did comment at the time but we had both had a bit to drink so it passed by and the moist looked a whiteish colour rather than clear. today i thought about it and then wondered if some one else had been there before me ?

thoughts would be appreciated