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moniquejohn
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 59
Straight Male, 53
UK
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Quote by bIoke
Is 'monique' real or are you playing both parts here?Apologies... am not on here a lot right now so I can't keep up - she/you may well have bee verified or whatever it is. Just wondered, that's all.
Whatever your answer, it all sounds bit worrying to me
monqiue is real, we have comments on our profile to that effect from our first meet, however she has only made two posts on here, one of them I edited out as soon as I noticed, she was logged on via her laptop in bed. She is still there,sadly not very well. The nature of her disabilitys means she go down hill rather quickly when it happens and takes a long time to clime back up again.
John.
I wouldn't expect to be here in 12 months time either, if I was one of those who take part, I only hope that they are as honest as you are and put on thier profile/tell prospective playmates that they take part in unprotected sex on a regular basis and being 1 of 1000 is the equivalent of having sex with the other 999 so that is a regular basis
Totally true in every way. But if a person is willing to have unprotected sex, then the matter ends there as you may as well have fucked the whole planet, numbers like 10 or 1000 or 100000 make no differences.
For example the person who you meet and fall in love with, then have unprotected sex with, can tell you as much as he or she wishes that they have "only had unprotected sex with one partner in the last 10 years" it makes no differences.
Unless your going to have full aids and std tests done, your in exactly the same position as someone who has regular unprotected sex.
the only differences is you sit there and work out imaginary chance parentage based on information your guessing at.
0.1% chance of catching something or a 10% chance makes no differences if your the unlucky one.
what I'm trying to say, is if anyone has unprotected sex with anyone else and assumes that person has nothing or is telling the truth, then their a fool.
you have to make your choice and take the risk if you wish to.
and as off yet, monique has not had unprotected anything with anyone..except me..oh and everyone else i have before i met her 10 years ago etc.
Totally true in every way. But if a person is willing to have unprotected sex, then the matter ends there as you may as well have fucked the whole planet, numbers like 10 or 1000 or 100000 make no differences.
For example the person who you meet and fall in love with, then have unprotected sex with, can tell you as much as he or she wishes that they have "only had unprotected sex with one partner in the last 10 years" it makes no differences.
Unless your going to have full aids and std tests done, your in exactly the same position as someone who has regular unprotected sex.
the only differences is you sit there and work out imaginary chance parentage based on information your guessing at.
0.1% chance of catching something or a 10% chance makes no differences if your the unlucky one.
what I'm trying to say, is if anyone has unprotected sex with anyone else and assumes that person has nothing or is telling the truth, then their a fool.
you have to make your choice and take the risk if you wish to.
and as off yet, monique has not had unprotected anything with anyone..except me..oh and everyone else i have before i met her 10 years ago etc.
Quote by MidsCouple24
Now, my personal and moral views aired and of course your own views respected, do you think you can achieve your goal ? an average club gangbang for 10 guys is possible but not guaranteed, occasionally larger numbers can be achieved but not often, a private gangbang can range from 2-10 men turning up but again not often. Assuming your lucky and do get 10 guys each time it is still going to take 100 gangbangs to achieve the results you seek, that's a third of a year taken up, work and the rest aside that's a lot of hours you need to put by, perhaps visiting a club like Chameleons which is open 7 days a week to single guys might be a good idea, dogging is another method that may help, but using the forums and meet today on a number of sites will simply not gather enough even over a year
ohh I've already given up, way to much work.
john.
"That is a greyish area I think. Certainly the police have specific opersating procedures that allow exceeding the speed limit in certain circumstances."
Those operating procedures do not give an officer the right to break the law. They have not been passed by parliament and enshrined in legislation.
They can only speed if it prevents a crime of greater importance. e.g most crimes are of Greater importance than speeding!
The "specific opersating procedures" are simply guidelines within the force that have been found sufficient to avoid prosecution or criticism. (just my opinion of course)
John
Those operating procedures do not give an officer the right to break the law. They have not been passed by parliament and enshrined in legislation.
They can only speed if it prevents a crime of greater importance. e.g most crimes are of Greater importance than speeding!
The "specific opersating procedures" are simply guidelines within the force that have been found sufficient to avoid prosecution or criticism. (just my opinion of course)
John
There is a defence in English common law (used by the police etc on a daily basis..eg speeding) saying that one crime may be committed if it prevents a greater crime.
The problem isn't what law was broke, but rather one of what defence was used to defend that persons actions in court.
No law can been found to be broken until a person is found guilty.
John.
The problem isn't what law was broke, but rather one of what defence was used to defend that persons actions in court.
No law can been found to be broken until a person is found guilty.
John.
Quote by moniquejohn
Today I read a profile on here (no names of course), basically a wife wants to be her husbands slut, not unusual at all, but for him to accept this he states that he has laid down some rules, one of which is that she has unprotected sex with 1000 men this year.
"if she contemplates doing this as she needs her marbles looking for"
Dont we all?
"are 1000 men going to be desperate or crazy enough to respond to a profile that says they are going to be one of a thousand unprotected sex sessions ?"
Judging by the response so far, YES.
John.
We all know prostitution has a seedy side where women get taken advantage of, and is often in the hands of organized drug gangs who fund al Qaeda(*said sarcastic!*)
But what about the basic idea of swapping money for sex?lets just say , no one gets hurt and everyone is happy.
So what does the very open minded and liberated swinging community have against the basic idea of prostitution? Or would it help if I bring into focus an example of a high class escort?say Hannah Baxter that one Billie piper played so well on tv?
But what about the basic idea of swapping money for sex?lets just say , no one gets hurt and everyone is happy.
So what does the very open minded and liberated swinging community have against the basic idea of prostitution? Or would it help if I bring into focus an example of a high class escort?say Hannah Baxter that one Billie piper played so well on tv?
, monique/john will be saying they are dyslexic next.
erm Monique IS dyslexic.
and my main objection is when people assume if you cant spell, your thick..
As a kid I had an IQ of 130. I just can't spell.
Mostly I put that down to lack of practice and the way my brain process information. My spelling is getting better due to Google chrome having a built in spell checker. But even then I quite often select the wrong word from the options due to not paying attention.
The mistake in question has nothing to do with my understanding of the word, just my mouse didn't hover over the correct word long enough in the pull down menu on the spell checker and I didn't notice.
erm Monique IS dyslexic.
and my main objection is when people assume if you cant spell, your thick..
As a kid I had an IQ of 130. I just can't spell.
Mostly I put that down to lack of practice and the way my brain process information. My spelling is getting better due to Google chrome having a built in spell checker. But even then I quite often select the wrong word from the options due to not paying attention.
The mistake in question has nothing to do with my understanding of the word, just my mouse didn't hover over the correct word long enough in the pull down menu on the spell checker and I didn't notice.
And, you could use the right one in the right context. 
postulation
ahh well, fully admit I can't spell..not to god with spell checkers either lol.
Now, you need anything welding, give me a call lol.
plus that was mon bitching about words, not me,john. I know I cant spell, last thing I'm gonna do is throw stones!
John.
postulation
ahh well, fully admit I can't spell..not to god with spell checkers either lol.
Now, you need anything welding, give me a call lol.
plus that was mon bitching about words, not me,john. I know I cant spell, last thing I'm gonna do is throw stones!
John.
hi guys, in light of tonight events i have cancelled our meet for tomorrow (cause I'm pizzed off at her now)and wonder if anyone is interested in this pole.
to give some back ground, my wife is not well at all, a long term serious and very painful movement aggravated condition,.We have a meet tomorrow morning so she has taken way to many of her pain killers so she cans sleep..were talking about morphine and diazipan among others.
after a spirited and lively discussion in the forum,( and I was rather enjoying it) she let lose with a rather unprovoked insulting posting on someone she thought was being will mortified when she realises what she has done tomorrow.
but i thought id ask peoples opinion of what i should do now?
to give some back ground, my wife is not well at all, a long term serious and very painful movement aggravated condition,.We have a meet tomorrow morning so she has taken way to many of her pain killers so she cans sleep..were talking about morphine and diazipan among others.
after a spirited and lively discussion in the forum,( and I was rather enjoying it) she let lose with a rather unprovoked insulting posting on someone she thought was being will mortified when she realises what she has done tomorrow.
but i thought id ask peoples opinion of what i should do now?
given the open minded nature of swinging, I find it hard to understand why people would be shy about saying no or about this subject..
I am starting to think the situation needs to be brought out into the open for more discussion by the community as a whole..It would seem rather unfair to have a few shoulder the cost while others take advantage of that and play for free.
I am starting to think the situation needs to be brought out into the open for more discussion by the community as a whole..It would seem rather unfair to have a few shoulder the cost while others take advantage of that and play for free.
I see your point dave,but at least we stimulated some lively posts lol
Perhaps I should have put the words "voluntary contribution" in capitals.
"Voluntary may refer to: A word meaning done, given, or acting of one's own free will"
"That which is contributed; -- either the portion which an individual furnishes to the common stock"
please Ecuador my amused sarcasm in this post lol.
Perhaps I should have put the words "voluntary contribution" in capitals.
"Voluntary may refer to: A word meaning done, given, or acting of one's own free will"
"That which is contributed; -- either the portion which an individual furnishes to the common stock"
please Ecuador my amused sarcasm in this post lol.
Quote by Bluefish2009
I think it sounds unusual to us, but provided you are up front with people they have a choice to say yes or no
To quote from another post I just made..
"funny if you think about it, the majority thinks its wrong to contribute towards the cost of swinging in that situation, but right that we should have to shoulder the cost totally alone..eg we have to pay for the sex but they wont..??"
Some people seem to be under the impression we wanted to make a profit, personally I wonder if they even read our OP right. as far as I'm concerned, they can say no and still join in, I DID say voluntary contribution lol..you can't make a profit on a contribution..Look the word contribution up !!
We are willing to make an finical outlay to make people comfortable and have fun, we ask peoples opinions on the idea of a voluntary contribution to make it easier, and the next thing we know, were apparently trying to make a profit, not genuine and being told to go advertise in the commercial section lol..but perhaps I just read it all wrong lol
