Check out our comments box and read what happened to xxxxxxxxx, his words, not ours! Ask him if we charged him. You really should be careful with your accusations. We are one of the most genuine, respectful, decent couples on here. Clearly some of you are just incapable of answering a genuine question without automatically going into insult mode. Try reading your answers before sending them, and if you don't understand a word, look it up! Monique xxx
"But then a hotel is a fixed cost that is checkable and I could show them a receipt/bill etc. There would be no way that any profit etc could be queried."
I cant see how you can make profit on a "voluntary contribution"
That brings in the issue of trust, would you 'party' with someone you felt didn't trust you or with someone you didn't trust?
but I do see what your saying, but I think if anyone asked to see the receipt I would be very unhappy with them being there.
thanks for the reply, yea the other post has me nervous that we may be committing a swinging sin if we even suggest it..but it Is our understanding that it is common.
the cheaper alternative obviously does not appeal to some members. giving the very liberated nature of swinging I have to admit to be confused about peoples hang ups over the whole thing lol..
funny if you think about it, the majority thinks its wrong to contribute towards the cost of swinging in that situation, but right that we should have to shoulder the cost totally alone..eg we have to pay for the sex but they wont..??
Do you people think its fair to ask for voluntary contribution towards costs of a hotel??
John.
What l feel everyone has failed to see is that there is an opportunity for some carefully selected guys to come to a safe house, in the warm. We choose the guys. To have some fun with me. In order for this to happen there are expenses that need to be covered, just as in a hotel room or swinging club. We have our own home it was just an opportunity that was offered,It's no loss to us, we have plenty of offers to go to houses. We just wanted to share some very kinky sex with some very kinky guys. If some of you choose to call it prostitution and condemn us for simply asking a question, not demanding or advertising, fair enough. Jog on. Just remember your partner/wife the next time one of you married or attached guys are busy shagging someones wife. Or even the local prostitute!
(this comment was monique putting her penny's worth in, not me , she did put it rather well.)
No different to most people who play at home, but i'd never dream of asking someone to leave cash by the door as they leave - that would make me a hooker
Plus as you say you have the rent quite cheap then surely the advantage of having somewhere private to play outweighs the annoyance of extra bills.
So no i dont think it would be "fair" to ask for contributions for ya wifes pussy altho i'm sure you'd probably find plenty of takers, but most people in that case wouldn't see it as swinging but prostitution.
this isn't our home, in fact its cheaper than a hotel.
Ok quite cheap means 300 to 400 a the messages im getting people would rather contribute to a hotel, ok that fine, but the same if we go to a hotel once week it will portability cost more. It would seem people would rather contribute to a hotel at more cost than a more economical private house/house party.
ok so the house is ruled out..I'll go with the MAJORITY expressed here and drop the idea.
so next question.
So do you think its fair to ask for voluntary contribution towards costs of a hotel??
Jeez, you got the run of the place and you want others to pay to clean your mates pigsty up?
Clean it up yourselves, at your expesnse and enjoy any fun that might come along but thats it.
j
Actual I said WE would clean it up. your reply came across as rather abrupt and rude, was that your intention?
"You would be, in effect, charging for sexual services and as such, would not be able to advertise for this on this site"
Have no intention of doing I appreciate your position and comment I fail to see where I was suggesting I would do that?after all, as verified by the next poster, people do contribute towards costs etc.
"why would you be paying council tax?"
As we have a tenancy agreement making us libel for have to pay council tax on empty property as well.
"While I usually contribute to hotel costs,"
would that be considered
"charging for sexual services"
And how does one suggest on this site that a contribution towards hotel costs would be appreciated without it looking like your "charging for sexual services"
not looking for an argument, lol just informed debate.
if the house option proves to be not to be practical, we will just go to plan 'B'
E.G. hotels.
We have acquired a house to have fun in from a friend who is going abroad,possibly for ever.
He has let us rent the place till xmass quite cheap so that we can 'play'. But the place is a pig sty( his words not ours) and we will need to tidy it up a bit.
Of course we are liable for gas/electric/rates/ council tax and rent.
This is just so we can invite people back for fun(its getting a cold out there for dogging!)and it has a nice big drive where we can put a van to fix up for next years fun.
All of that isn't cheap. So is it fair of us to ask for a voluntary contribution towards costs from the people who avail them selves of moniques pussy?(and other bits)
John.
P.s anyone got a cheep van in the N.E region lol.
