In truth I never expected to meet anyone just for a shag, more I really just wanted to meet a lady who wanted to be open about her needs and desires and was looking for love. I did meet some people socially at the beginning, but they were more helping me through my divorce than wanting my body, I was happy about that. Regular dating for me has always been easier in real life and not here, and I suppose in reality I'm nervous about meeting someone who might expect me to perform without charisma and a sexual connection, so I've enjoyed the conversations but never really tried to create an online meet.
I did once go dogging and came across a Range Rover in a site near Portsmouth, but when I approached the window a man who was enjoying his private TV screen, (passenger window), threatened me with a machete. Never tried again!!!