i suppose its like trying to judge your own boobs anais , ime comfertable with my size etc but always feel like i could do with a bit more ,so its better to have an unbiased opnion on looks size etc,its like when a man tells you u look great and no your not fat etc most women will put themselves down, guys do the same unless very blessed , the avarage cock size in the uk is 5 inchs so if thats avarage then ime above average, some guys on this site are well above that u only got to look at some of the cams to see this is true,as for talking about my penis to another guy i doubt it would happen ,but to females i have no problems disccussing it, its probly some latent homophobic thing in guys that if you asked another bloke about his cock he might think u were gay or summit........ hope this one males look at the subject helps