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Quote by redstilletto
i found the best way to do it was just to bring the subject up dureing a drive we chatted he was calm ((phew)) but said he did nt think at the moment he could
as in me with another man
but for some reason he could if it was me and another woman
ive got to admit i was pretty wary of even bringing the subject up with him
so go for it she can only say yes or no..........
Do you have a twin sister like you? You are every man's dream gf/wife LOL?
I guess you are right. I can just ask her a simple question, supposedly simple anyway.
dambuster
About 2 years now.
That is a good advise.I will try that
To be quite hnest am scared I willbe thrown out of the house too LOL
Just how well do you know this woman??
About 2 years now.
How does this sound - "Hey Sue(?) remember that time you said . . . . . . . "
Only you can find the right time/atmoshere. Just an idea.
That is a good advise.I will try that
Me? I'd be happy saying it in Tesco (quietly) in her ear. But I HAVE been slapped a few times
To be quite hnest am scared I willbe thrown out of the house too LOL
Quote by JudyTV
How can you make your gf/wife interested in swinging or a 3 some?
I wasnt going to reply to this post but I have decided to to so here is my answer to a question that I find rather distastful newone. I am sorry but I feel very strongly about trying to make anyone get involved with any kind of sexual activity.
How would you feel if your girlfriend or wife wanted to make you have gay sex if you was a straight male.
I rest my case.
JudyTV
Again I used the wrong word 'make'. Can't you guys forgive me for using the wrong word LOL?
Quote by CarrieAnn
How can you make your gf/wife interested in swinging or a 3 some?
Have you told your gf/wife that this is something that you are interested in? Perhaps if you mention it as something that you have been thinking about and leave it at that for a while, it will give her chance to think about it.
I know that since I aired my feelings to DB, it is now so much easier to let my mind wander while I am on the train to work!!!!!! You know, that 'wonder what it would be like to ............' scenario!!!!!!
I am finally doing something about it now though as I have put my name down for the party on the 31st July and am going to the NW much in August. If I don't like it, I can say that I have tried and it is not for me, on the other hand, if I do enjoy it then..............who knows :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I wish you good luck but PLEASE do not try to force the issue - it has got to be your gf/wife's choice.
CA xxx
CA,
Thanx for advise. Again I used the wrong word 'make'. I would never do that, anyway there is no pleasure in seeing my partner not happy.
The reason I am worried of mentionning it to her is that she might think I don't care about her. She might think am only interested in sex. Am just worried that she might get the wrong idea. She is a bit sensitive.
Quote by dambuster
Have you tried asking her if she has any fantasies?
It might open the door for you to talk about it. It may just open Pandora's Box !!
She mentionned once that she would like to do it with a another girl. But she said it in a joking mode, so am not sure she was implying something or not.
Everyone,
Thanx for all of your replies. I have obviously used the wrong word 'make'. But I was in a hurry and I use wrong words when I am in a hurry. I have edited it to convince or try to make them interested. It is not my intention to force anyone to do anything they don't like. And anyway if my wIfe/gf told me she never wants to do something as far as am concerned it is fine with me. Sex is not everything in a relationship anyway. There is no point in being in a relationship with someone if they are not comfortable asking them to do things they don't like.
Thanx for all of your replies. I have obviously used the wrong word 'make'. But I was in a hurry and I use wrong words when I am in a hurry. I have edited it to convince or try to make them interested. It is not my intention to force anyone to do anything they don't like. And anyway if my wIfe/gf told me she never wants to do something as far as am concerned it is fine with me. Sex is not everything in a relationship anyway. There is no point in being in a relationship with someone if they are not comfortable asking them to do things they don't like.
