What is swinging
Well im a newbie, and having entered into this mysterious world, I thought I better make some effort and find out what it’s actually all about.
I was really thrown the other day when I accidentally found myself in the advert section, and kept reading the words ‘single guy looking for single woman’ or the other way around. Now I must admit this is not what I expected to find, so I then started questioning did I know anything about swinging at all. Was it just a way for people to find new partners to have sex replacing the old fashioned system of meeting in pubs or clubs. Oh the modern generation. Sorry for the use of the word sex using the modern term used by most single guys on here I mean shag.
Anyway being the sad old geezer that I am, I do nothing by half measures so I went on a search for the definition of swinging.
Definitiion of Swinger
(n.) One who swings or whirls. (im going to have to find a cheerleader then)
(n.) One who swinges.
(n.) Anything very large, forcible, or astonishing. (no chance for you under 7.5 inches chaps then)
(n.) A person who engages frequently in lively and fashionable pursuits, such as attending night clubs or discos.
(n.) A person who engages freely in sexual intercourse. (it means shagging)
Then I found this:
A Princess of Mars by Burroughs, Edgar Rice
The next day, when it came out of its hole for food, he took up his axe, but by swinging too hastily, missed its head and cut off only the end of its tail. (any ladies looking to wield an axe and cut off my tail, look elsewhere)
Category Description:
Swinging activities range from watching others have sex to having sex with your partner while being watched, to having sex with people other than your partner (which is the most common definition).(this is now peeking my interest:
Swinging is defined as, "social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. A good definition might perhaps be "recreational sex". In summary, swinging is for (mostly) heterosexual people who enjoy sex for its own sake, as opposed to purely within one relationship. Sex as a hobby.
THE GOOD NEWS FOR ME IS: Swingers lifestyle is based upon communication more than any other factor. So be warned ladies and couples out there, I’ve joined your circle and by god do I want to strengthen my knowledge of this lifestyle, so volunteers required for me to say hi, and yes please,
Am I taking this to seriously (get a life northeast male)
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Well thanks for the welcome Sappho. Its nice to know somebody out there sees what i have to say. Also it seems that i've preparted myself completely. I must be psychic because i've already pulled up my chair, got this god foresaken machine plugged in, haven't yet crashed and have my christmas cracker hat on my head ready for fun and conversation. By fun i assure you i mean, in a humorous, intelligent verbal form ... once i find my feet in here i will warn my new friends (hoping i make a few) when im ready to put my foot on the accelerator, jump out of my cocoon, and go for FUN in the capital letter sense. Alas as im known in other circles for being loud and chatty once i get into conversation and debate i may forget all about any other requirements.
Now somebody help me out. This site is called swinging heaven, so why do so many of the 'SINGLE' guys say they are looking for SINGLE women, in my book thats not swinging, thats dating, or have i got this whole thing wrong.
Finally thank again for your kind words, and do i come across as i have verbal diareha . Pardon my descriptive words and crap spelling (oops)
Now somebody help me out. This site is called swinging heaven, so why do so many of the 'SINGLE' guys say they are looking for SINGLE women, in my book thats not swinging, thats dating, or have i got this whole thing wrong.
Finally thank again for your kind words, and do i come across as i have verbal diareha . Pardon my descriptive words and crap spelling (oops)
I certainly feel that us newbies, quaint name, makes this 41 year iold feel like a teenager again, need some coaching on how to become involved properly in these discussions and how to fit in. It does seem in the main that a few eloquent people provide the abundance of conversation. As one never short of things to say, i would appreciate any hints or introductions that would make me feel welcomed and wanted ( oh boy my insecurity complex raises its head).
Certainly as a male it would seem that the numbers are stacked against you. So few females, so many males. It seems obvious to reply to an advertisement is like playing russian roulette. Was it 66 replies a sweet lady mentioned in a couple of days. At my one finger typing that works out to be about a month if i was reply to everybody. So i suppose if i do respond i shouldn't feel unhappy if i dont get a reply. Oh dear i can already see the hard road ahead.
Anyway enough of my rambling. Ill come to the point. I seek a COACH who can develop my etiquette and communication style tio become a worthy contributor in these forums.
Certainly as a male it would seem that the numbers are stacked against you. So few females, so many males. It seems obvious to reply to an advertisement is like playing russian roulette. Was it 66 replies a sweet lady mentioned in a couple of days. At my one finger typing that works out to be about a month if i was reply to everybody. So i suppose if i do respond i shouldn't feel unhappy if i dont get a reply. Oh dear i can already see the hard road ahead.
Anyway enough of my rambling. Ill come to the point. I seek a COACH who can develop my etiquette and communication style tio become a worthy contributor in these forums.
Well having watched from a distance the going on in swingingheaven, i've taken the stepn to enter the fray. Now the next step would be to watch other things in the distance, so go away snow. So it seems the opinion on dogging here in the north east is that its virtually non existent, so maybe ill just be a forum contributor. If anyone wants to chat and help my education well you know id appreciate it. ??Right now im hoping to avoid a telling off from the protectors of this society whose words i see and understand. So sorry heres another lonely male in the north east, hunting the impossible ????
