from PM's holdups seem to be winning!
What to wear to meet my toyboy...
After the debate, hubby said we had better do something about making this happen. So answered a few ads and have chatted on ICQ late last night to a couple of young men. Both are interested but one seems to be more interesting somehow . Then hubby really made my nerves kick in, he mentioned that being 22 this chap is nine years younger than our youngest son! Panic!
Well I must say I am amazed at the aparrent interest my post stirred up. Looks like for any number of reasons there is a strong interest in this subject. So with husbands blessing I have decided to give it a one off go, you only live once and what have I got to loose, certainly not my virginity! Will have to try an ad on the Lets Meet Up section and see if a young man is interested, will report back on outcome.
A televison prog the other evening brought to the fore the subject of the older woman and younger man.
I can see the 'attraction' from the womans point of view it's obviously quite a flattering thing in a way that a younger man would be interested but apart from the old cliches of 'the older woman can teach us a thing or two' which I really doubt, are younger men actually attracted to the older woman or is it actualy that we are I suppose just that bit less inhibited in what we do. Case of most probably been there done that already so it's generally ok like giving a full BJ we dont normally have to be talked into going the distance on that one etc. But then again there are a lot of younger women who are similarly naturally open about things, so it cant just be that aspect either.
Another 'interesting' item that is being aired at the moment is the sexual freedom that abounded during WW2 when in particular the americans were here on mass and loads of 'illicit sex' went on, again in a lot of cases it was that older women received the attention of these young GI's particularly those they were billeted with, could it be that there is a thing that grew from these days?
I must admit seeing these progs has made me wonder a bit about would a young man want to with me possibly, not too sure in all honesty if I would actually have the nerve to go through with it but my husband has said I should give it a try once just as an experience. Not 100% sure about it but who knows, probably worrying that when it came to it the sight of a plain 50 something complete with wrinkles would be a real turn off to the young man and if that happened and they ran that would have the opposite effect on the old ego!
Anyone any thoughts on the subject. The progs were talking about 30+ age differences which would put 'my young man' just about in very early 20's which is probably pushing things a bit for anyone to be interested!
Should I try it or should I let sleeping dogs lie as the old saying goes. I may well be persueded.