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I adore Issey Miyake, Ive found nothing can take the place of this, it is soo distinctive and ...welll...sexy! Fruity, not too powerful, perfect accompaniement to clean soft female skin.
For me, pretty boring maybe but either Hugo Boss or Paul Smith
Mrs PS is a pervert, she loves Brut???????
For me, pretty boring maybe but either Hugo Boss or Paul Smith
Mrs PS is a pervert, she loves Brut???????
I believe in the parts of the USA they have huge vans touring certain areas where people can walk in and get tested, then get medication, one huge dose because they know the infected person will either not continue the normal course of antibiotics, or take them and sleep around unprotected.
Quote by bluexxx
Are you sure? and yet you have ever come across the "...women get to choose." argument?
Yes, I'm sure
Obviously you are not in the same line of work as I am or you would know that using a non-academic website to support your argument would just be laughed out of the (professional) water :roll: :roll: :roll: See, as any first year undergrad would know, any old Tom, Dick or Harriet can set up a website and spout any old bollocks they want and state it as fact. As you cannot provide me with references from academic journals where every article has been rigourously reviewed by at least two experts in the field, I am not convinced that what you're saying hold any academic weight at all.
I'm not doubting that there are people out there who believe that men's sexuality is "born" and women's is "chosen", what .I'm doubting is the scientific rigour of the hypothesis
Tell me something I dont know.
What I simply did was to highlight that the question IS asked and how easy it is to find people asking it, not difficult, not scientific but you doubted that it was ever asked at all, then backtracked and instead of admitting that, used the "...I'm doubting is the scientific rigour of the hypothesis". which would have been an appropriate course of action first time round.
And as for providing acedemice references...no I cant but then if you re read my initial post correctly, you will fnd I was asking about peoples experiences...you turned it into an acedemic exercise.
Maybe you saw a chance to flex your academic muscle?
I remembered this question arising years ago, I asked people on here who had been through the experience of discovering their sexual orientation. If it is bollox, fine, I really dont have a problem with that although I have to say the articles I read did imply many of the women had been through unsatisfactory and/or abusive heterosexual relationships before 'choosing' (appears that word causing a lot of bother).
Maybe we need a new forum for scientific debate? not sure the cafe is the right place for it, maybe each new thread could have references and a bibliography ?
Quote by bigDewi69
Not so many moons ago I happened to have been looking at sexuality and came across (not literally) some interesting articles in female sexuality. The nuts and bolts of the articles were that Females were in the position of being able to make a conscious decision to become lesbian whereas males were basically driven by genes/instinct and had no say in the matter.
Another (contentious Im sure ) point was that women could also decide....not to be Lesbians after all !!!!!!
I also know a woman who has actually gone through this process. How does the above fit in with the experiences of Lesbian (I hate that word BTW), Bi and also Straight fems?
Does any of it sound familiar?
As someone who is required to read articles on sexuality professionally, I am obviously aware of the "are we born a certain sexuality or does society make us that way?" debate. However, I am not aware that men are driven by instinct and women get to choose. Sounds bollocks to me, but I would be interested in reading any articles that suggest this, so could you provide the references please? I would be quite happy to rip any such theory to shreads just for fun instead of getting paid to do it hehehehehehehehe
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:"As someone who is required to read articles on sexuality professionally,..."
Are you sure? and yet you have ever come across the "...women get to choose." argument?
The articles I read were around some 4/5 years ago and no I dont have references but a simple google produced the very argument you are professionally unaware of.
"Also, there are lots of women who will say that they chose to be lesbians. This pokes a hole in the we-didn't-choose-this argument, so their comments are usually swept under the rug or explained away. "What she means is that she chose to live a lesbian lifestyle," someone quickly amends. People who say this are just confused, some argue, or maybe they're bisexual. "
I think you shot yourself in the foot there mate. The article is about one mans frustrations at having to explain to the world that his sexual orientation wasn't out of choice, that it was the way he was and couldn't change it. People can't change who they are, but they can ignore parts of themselves. Or for others they simply don't know until it happens.
Didnt shoot myself in the foot at all BigD, the person who was writing the article even admitted there was a 'women who choose' argument.
Quote by bluexxx
Not so many moons ago I happened to have been looking at sexuality and came across (not literally) some interesting articles in female sexuality. The nuts and bolts of the articles were that Females were in the position of being able to make a conscious decision to become lesbian whereas males were basically driven by genes/instinct and had no say in the matter.
Another (contentious Im sure ) point was that women could also decide....not to be Lesbians after all !!!!!!
I also know a woman who has actually gone through this process. How does the above fit in with the experiences of Lesbian (I hate that word BTW), Bi and also Straight fems?
Does any of it sound familiar?
As someone who is required to read articles on sexuality professionally, I am obviously aware of the "are we born a certain sexuality or does society make us that way?" debate. However, I am not aware that men are driven by instinct and women get to choose. Sounds bollocks to me, but I would be interested in reading any articles that suggest this, so could you provide the references please? I would be quite happy to rip any such theory to shreads just for fun instead of getting paid to do it hehehehehehehehe
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:"As someone who is required to read articles on sexuality professionally,..."
Are you sure? and yet you have ever come across the "...women get to choose." argument?
The articles I read were around some 4/5 years ago and no I dont have references but a simple google produced the very argument you are professionally unaware of.
"Also, there are lots of women who will say that they chose to be lesbians. This pokes a hole in the we-didn't-choose-this argument, so their comments are usually swept under the rug or explained away. "What she means is that she chose to live a lesbian lifestyle," someone quickly amends. People who say this are just confused, some argue, or maybe they're bisexual. "
Quote by Calista
Cal, how many people ran a business from home? how many are capeable and/ or have the opportunity? the answer is of course most people can but in reality it is a non starter for most parents, just because it fits in with your reasoning and lifestyle, doesnt mean others will be able to adapt. As for 'costing' £300 per year does that take into account loss of earnings, pension, National insurance contributions etc? There is absolutely no way on earth either me or my wife could give up work and teach our kids, if you can and it works, good luck.
ps. we let the butler go about three years ago
What I'm trying to get you to see is that it is viable to anyone ..... whether or not they are willing to cut back and downsize is the question. if one of you lost your jobs would you survive? of course you would, you'd pull in your belts, reschedule your spending and generally cut back and you'd survive.
And yes I'd say given the right opportunity most people could work from home.
It's a lifestyle choice ... either you want the money or you want to educate your children yourselves ... I'm not saying either way is the right way, just that it is if you are committed and are willing to make the lifestyle change.
Cx
Cal, I think I said as much i the first three lines of my last post.
Quote by naughtynymphos1
sounds rubbish to me, noone wakes up one day and thinks...ahhh i'm going to be a lesbian, its something thats inside you, i knew from a young age i was attracted to women and actually started having sex with other women b4 men, but i also didn't wake up one day and think......ahhhh i'm going to try a man today :lol2: having sex with men and women was something i knew i would do just the chance to bed a woman came b4 a man
dont think its a simple as waking up one day and acting on an impulsive thought.
Quote by BiWelshMinx
I have never made a conscious decision as such, I just realised a long time ago that I fancy both women and men...hellooo bisexuality ;)
As for the female you know, surely the 'process' she went through could be attributed to experimenting ?
Minx x x
Perhaps but she did have long periods in her life of straight, lesbian...then straight mother. now in her late 50's
Cal, how many people ran a business from home? how many are capeable and/ or have the opportunity? the answer is of course most people can but in reality it is a non starter for most parents, just because it fits in with your reasoning and lifestyle, doesnt mean others will be able to adapt. As for 'costing' £300 per year does that take into account loss of earnings, pension, National insurance contributions etc? There is absolutely no way on earth either me or my wife could give up work and teach our kids, if you can and it works, good luck.
ps. we let the butler go about three years ago
ps. we let the butler go about three years ago
Quote by Calista
you also need lots of money for this to be viable, lots of parents have neither the financial backup or skills to even consider this option
which option? Homeschooling? it's not as expensive as you think .. although I agree totally with skill ... The people I know who do are well educated but earn no more than the average wage.
C x
most families need parents to be bringing wages, if a parent is teaching at home, how do they manage this and bring in the readies?
By thinking outside of the box, homeworking, part-time working, flexible hours, one person working, downsizing!!
There are countless thousands of parents who stay at home for one reason or another, and I'm not suggesting home-working works for everyone just that it's on the increase.
I guess you have to balance whether education or high status lifestyle is more important!
Cx
Cal, the options you have listed simply arent available to many parents, most parents priorities are paying bills etc rather than deciding wether to keep a butler on or let him go.
Quote by Calista
you also need lots of money for this to be viable, lots of parents have neither the financial backup or skills to even consider this option
which option? Homeschooling? it's not as expensive as you think .. although I agree totally with skill ... The people I know who do are well educated but earn no more than the average wage.
C x
most families need parents to be bringing wages, if a parent is teaching at home, how do they manage this and bring in the readies?
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Surely the major factor between public and state education is the attitude of parens. Parents who sned their children to Public school are usually parents who want the best for their kids and as well as paying 'extra' fr good education, also invest in the childs attitude towards education as well as school work. State scholls have similar parents but also others who couldnt really give a stuf and see education purely as a role the scholl fulfills.
Hmmmm Bollox
Good well reasoned argument
Surely the major factor between public and state education is the attitude of parens. Parents who sned their children to Public school are usually parents who want the best for their kids and as well as paying 'extra' fr good education, also invest in the childs attitude towards education as well as school work. State scholls have similar parents but also others who couldnt really give a stuf and see education purely as a role the scholl fulfills.
Not so many moons ago I happened to have been looking at sexuality and came across (not literally) some interesting articles in female sexuality. The nuts and bolts of the articles were that Females were in the position of being able to make a conscious decision to become lesbian whereas males were basically driven by genes/instinct and had no say in the matter.
Another (contentious Im sure ) point was that women could also decide....not to be Lesbians after all !!!!!!
I also know a woman who has actually gone through this process. How does the above fit in with the experiences of Lesbian (I hate that word BTW), Bi and also Straight fems?
Does any of it sound familiar?
Another (contentious Im sure ) point was that women could also decide....not to be Lesbians after all !!!!!!
I also know a woman who has actually gone through this process. How does the above fit in with the experiences of Lesbian (I hate that word BTW), Bi and also Straight fems?
Does any of it sound familiar?
Very painful Im sure, however you ladies also need to realise that male appendage isnt quite the rod of steel us men would have you believe...ever heard of a broken cock? usually caused by a lady riding feverishly to escape the injuns!
Im sure you will have lots of offers to have your inner labia kissed and licked bettter!
Im sure you will have lots of offers to have your inner labia kissed and licked bettter!
Quote by tomas
A friend and I were talking about bulimia the other day and she thinks there
is a strong connection between rough oral sex and bulimia.
Does anyone have any views on this?
Are you trying to say that those who have performed or taken part in deep throating, or similar, are predisposed to Bullimia?
ok, Mrs PS doesnt like porn and to be honest, Id rather do it than watch it but I'm ok with it, however, many years ago, we were watching a movie and it had in it, a scene involving two young ladies ina big wooden tub. they were soaping themselves very sensually, not even a full breast was on show but it was so suggestive...well it did the trick that night.
Now, rather than go out and buy loads of crappy Frankie Vaughan DVD's that promise more than they deliver, I want to ask if anyone has any recommendations for DVD's of the softer nature, low on pounding/ thrusting action but heavy on the soft, sensual action.
Mrs PS is not turned on by huge dicks/facials/DP...well much really so I hope someone out there can help with a title or two to be going along with.
Thanks in anticipation
Now, rather than go out and buy loads of crappy Frankie Vaughan DVD's that promise more than they deliver, I want to ask if anyone has any recommendations for DVD's of the softer nature, low on pounding/ thrusting action but heavy on the soft, sensual action.
Mrs PS is not turned on by huge dicks/facials/DP...well much really so I hope someone out there can help with a title or two to be going along with.
Thanks in anticipation
I have just discovered a product called 'somerset oils' a shaving oil, comes in a tiny little pyramid shaped bottle. you wet your beard and apply about three drop, rub it in and wait 30 seconds before shaving. I was hugely scepical but when I started to shave, the hair just came away, no foam at all so you could see clearly where you had or hadnt shaved. Gave a very good shave as well. Sruck me that with the non foaming aspect this may help those who shave their intimate parts. The oil actually softens the hair, and the blade meets little resistance.
Well I was impressed and it takes some doing for someone who hates shaving and has tried loads of products.
Well I was impressed and it takes some doing for someone who hates shaving and has tried loads of products.
