Hi Smoky, All I can say is we could giveyou a few names of guys who've been "lucky". Why? Of course they needed a decent profile and to have read ours (winks and one liners don't work for me) but mostly it's down to luck, persistence and being flexible on timing. Usually when we advertise for a single guy I'll get up to 20 responses of which 10 will be winks/one liners and 5 won't have read that they must accommodate. That leaves five of whom I might fancy say 3 or 4 and then we don't advertise again until I've contacted those but as I only swing with single guys about once a month and can't predict when I'll fancy it more than a day or two ahead it really is a bit the luck of the draw and being available. Hope this helps.
Hi Smoky, All I can say is we could giveyou a few names of guys who've been "lucky". Why? Of course they needed a decent profile and to have read ours (winks and one liners don't work for me) but mostly it's down to luck, persistence and being flexible on timing. Usually when we advertise for a single guy I'll get up to 20 responses of which 10 will be winks/one liners and 5 won't have read that they must accommodate. That leaves five of whom I might fancy say 3 or 4 and then we don't advertise again until I've contacted those but as I only swing with single guys about once a month and can't predict when I'll fancy it more than a day or two ahead it really is a bit the luck of the draw and being available. Hope this helps.
If you're sure you're BOTH committed to trying all you can do is try. Expect to get your clothes off and to see your partner do the same and to play/be played with by another couple. If you find either of you doesn't like it be prepared to jmake it the first andlast time, an experience to forget but to know that at least you tried. Fortunately for us it worked and we love it but we can imagine it isn't for everyone. It is something you must both want to try.