We are a couple both working long hours but we do meet single blokes for threesomes.
When we make a date we usually keep to it but if circumstances change or the mood is not right it can spoil the evening to take it any further.
Having sex with someone should feel right as well as it is wrong it can make long lasting problems.
When you get in touch with someone off this site it is not a contract it is a first step to a casual friendship.
A woman is not a piece of meat, she is a person with needs and emotions you should not expect her to drop her pants to order! Or indeed on the arranged two hours in someones bedsit.
Thanks