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silentsven
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 66
0 miles · Cheshire
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I don't know about the review this thread refers to, but I do think its ridiculous that you dont allow reviews of Adam and Eve's in Salford because the owners don't like them. There is NO POINT in having reviews at all if the owners of the establishment being reviewed can simply ask not to be reviewed.
Maybe its because people were upset that said club offered people life memberships and then after two years (if that) announced that they were no longer to honour them. Since then they have upped membership (for single guys) from £40 to £50 a year, and now to an astonishing £50 for SIX months. This is probably illegal anyway under equality legislation, but who is likely to take a swingers club to Trading Standards!
Maybe its because people were upset that said club offered people life memberships and then after two years (if that) announced that they were no longer to honour them. Since then they have upped membership (for single guys) from £40 to £50 a year, and now to an astonishing £50 for SIX months. This is probably illegal anyway under equality legislation, but who is likely to take a swingers club to Trading Standards!
I'm intending to visit the Empire, Hudds tomorrow from 12 on. Happy to meet up with any women, couples or bi-guys for back row / private room fun. pm me or leave a message here if you are interested and I'll give you my mobile number.
Also posted this on 'lets meet' forum - mods can delete one if they see fit!
Sven
Also posted this on 'lets meet' forum - mods can delete one if they see fit!
Sven
While I found de sade's rant a bit over the top, it was only a question after all not a moral dilemma they were posing, it did lead me to look at de sade's profile. The gallery is EXCELLENT, easilly the highest artistic interpretaion of any I have seen on SH. Mrs de sade is absolutely stunning and beautifully photographed in the lips, legs and wrapped-up photos. Good work, even though i wouldn't be trying to meet you!
steve
steve
well vixen, your advert is a bit odd for a start. You want 2 men, but they mustn't be single! does that mean you want a gay couple (in which case, why would they want you), or do you want 2 married guys both playing away. And your profile doesn't say what you are after either. If you don't specify the age range, but you have one in your head, then you will get ppl who are too old and too young. Plus a photo would help......
So, if you were more local to me, i wouldn't be pm-ing you because I dont know if you want a married guy, aged 50............
hope this helps...information is power...
steve
So, if you were more local to me, i wouldn't be pm-ing you because I dont know if you want a married guy, aged 50............
hope this helps...information is power...
steve
i absolutely love watching other guys in action either in porn or a group sex meeting, and I think a hard cock is erotic. Having said that, I have never put one in my mouth, wanked one (except my own), or had it otherwise introduced into my body.
I would however be mortified to see an erect cock of any of my friends, whereas i would be more than happy to see their partners naked. It has to be a stranger for me to get turned on by an erection!
I would however be mortified to see an erect cock of any of my friends, whereas i would be more than happy to see their partners naked. It has to be a stranger for me to get turned on by an erection!
This site is great (though not as engaging as it used to be), and what makes it good is the level of debate in the cafe as opposed to what now goes on in 'lets meet up', which is 95% 'shag me now you lucky people'.
But i would like to express my wry amusement at the moral high ground occupied by many of the real swingers - lets face it guys and girls you are adopting a lifestyle which is unconventional, viewed as morally questionable by the majority, but still you express strong disapproval of married people who play alone and non-consented.
For whatever reason, many of us like a lot of sex, and we like it with new people, and while excuses such as 'my wife doesn't understand me / doesn't have high sex drive / is too prudish' may often be offered, ultimately its the variety and the chance of a new shag which drives most of the married singles. We take a risk, but try to control it by not having affairs or getting involved, but the swingers also take calculated risks all the time.
For my part, I love group sex and watching others perform, and knowing I'm being watched, but i know absolutely my wife would be horrified and our relationship wouldn't survive if i pressed her on that. But with SH, i get the occasional opportunity to indulge in that.
For those of you whose sexuality and sexual venturesomeness is matched by your partner, that's great. But that doesn't always happen, and there's more than the sexual side to a succesfull longterm relationship.
I have a number of woman friends (not swingers) who say they wouldn't sleep with married men out of respect for the wives, but it turns out that one of them did quite regularly, and it was just an excuse not to shag me personally!
So anyway, i respect those who wont swing with married cheaters, and I dont try to pretend i'm otherwise, but i would ask you not to consider yourself as morally superior.
But i would like to express my wry amusement at the moral high ground occupied by many of the real swingers - lets face it guys and girls you are adopting a lifestyle which is unconventional, viewed as morally questionable by the majority, but still you express strong disapproval of married people who play alone and non-consented.
For whatever reason, many of us like a lot of sex, and we like it with new people, and while excuses such as 'my wife doesn't understand me / doesn't have high sex drive / is too prudish' may often be offered, ultimately its the variety and the chance of a new shag which drives most of the married singles. We take a risk, but try to control it by not having affairs or getting involved, but the swingers also take calculated risks all the time.
For my part, I love group sex and watching others perform, and knowing I'm being watched, but i know absolutely my wife would be horrified and our relationship wouldn't survive if i pressed her on that. But with SH, i get the occasional opportunity to indulge in that.
For those of you whose sexuality and sexual venturesomeness is matched by your partner, that's great. But that doesn't always happen, and there's more than the sexual side to a succesfull longterm relationship.
I have a number of woman friends (not swingers) who say they wouldn't sleep with married men out of respect for the wives, but it turns out that one of them did quite regularly, and it was just an excuse not to shag me personally!
So anyway, i respect those who wont swing with married cheaters, and I dont try to pretend i'm otherwise, but i would ask you not to consider yourself as morally superior.
I noticed the other day that the less than salubrious-but-worth-a -vist-anyway VIP (porn)cinema in Manchester is being demolished. Does anyone know what it will become, and if it is relocating?
Otherwise where to go for porn if you dont like to take dvd's home? Is the Empire in Huddersfield the nearest?
suggestions illuminations welcome!
steve
Otherwise where to go for porn if you dont like to take dvd's home? Is the Empire in Huddersfield the nearest?
suggestions illuminations welcome!
steve
wondering if there have been anymore dropouts for tomorrow's meet - and taking the opportunity to encourage anyone who is on the list, but now can't make it to let Jo know! That should give those of us who were too slow first time round another chance.
In all honesty, I should say its a great afternoon chez Jo and Lee, and if you are on the list, haven't been before, and are getting cold feet, don't worry, turn up and have a great time. I know thats against my own interests, but if I say nice (true) things about Jo she might say 'Awww...OK, you can come along as an extra anyway'
If that unlikely event doesn't happen, have a gr8 time without me!
steve
In all honesty, I should say its a great afternoon chez Jo and Lee, and if you are on the list, haven't been before, and are getting cold feet, don't worry, turn up and have a great time. I know thats against my own interests, but if I say nice (true) things about Jo she might say 'Awww...OK, you can come along as an extra anyway'
If that unlikely event doesn't happen, have a gr8 time without me!
steve
the chances of a succesful post of this type must be approaching lottery odds, but as they say 'You have to be in it, to win it'.
So if any SH denizen (f or couple) would like some fun tomorrow night, ranging from a few beers, to a club, or a night of unbridled lust fulfillment in a central london hotel, you will of course be eager to pm me!
But you may rightly wonder why you should bother, and probably what I am about to say will re-inforce that prejudice. I am after all, 50 (lose some points), married (lose some more), but on the plus side slim and presentable, non-judgemental, open to virtually any kinky suggestion, happy to meet you regardless of age, size, sexual orientation. This man comes viagra-powered, so performance should not be an issue, and imagination certainly isn't!
Picture is availible if you pm me, and seriously any meet is entirely on your terms. Just be aware that yes, i do want to get you into bed, but i don't expect that. Remember, of course, that virtually any man will always want to get you into bed anyway, they are just not upfront about it, but if you want to meet and play it by ear for afters, or even want to meet without ANY afters, thats cool with me.
Most of what I have said is fem-centric, but couple would be cool as well and I'm def bi-curious. likley to be free pm tomorrow also.
thnx for getting to the end of this!
steve
So if any SH denizen (f or couple) would like some fun tomorrow night, ranging from a few beers, to a club, or a night of unbridled lust fulfillment in a central london hotel, you will of course be eager to pm me!
But you may rightly wonder why you should bother, and probably what I am about to say will re-inforce that prejudice. I am after all, 50 (lose some points), married (lose some more), but on the plus side slim and presentable, non-judgemental, open to virtually any kinky suggestion, happy to meet you regardless of age, size, sexual orientation. This man comes viagra-powered, so performance should not be an issue, and imagination certainly isn't!
Picture is availible if you pm me, and seriously any meet is entirely on your terms. Just be aware that yes, i do want to get you into bed, but i don't expect that. Remember, of course, that virtually any man will always want to get you into bed anyway, they are just not upfront about it, but if you want to meet and play it by ear for afters, or even want to meet without ANY afters, thats cool with me.
Most of what I have said is fem-centric, but couple would be cool as well and I'm def bi-curious. likley to be free pm tomorrow also.
thnx for getting to the end of this!
steve
sorry i can't offer to take you, Jo, as I am otherwise engaged, but i was wondering how the last greedy girls went a few weeks ago. An (amateur) greedy girls night is on the list of 'things I must do before my next birthday'. How highly should I prioritize it - only 4 more months to go!
Hi Jo
I love your new avatar...that pierced nipple looks ripe for some attention from a willing tounge.
Very disappointed to learn that you were let down, especially as I could have made it on friday but saw your post too late, as a result of being away earlier in the week. I'll definitely try to spot your next announcement, and if I'm free (& invited) i would love to come along.
And i won't stand on the fringes and masturbate!!
love and kisses
steve
I love your new avatar...that pierced nipple looks ripe for some attention from a willing tounge.
Very disappointed to learn that you were let down, especially as I could have made it on friday but saw your post too late, as a result of being away earlier in the week. I'll definitely try to spot your next announcement, and if I'm free (& invited) i would love to come along.
And i won't stand on the fringes and masturbate!!
love and kisses
steve
regarding the 'it must be big enough, a baby's head has to fit in there', remember the poor (lucky?) woman is high on oxytocin, which is a powerful muscle relaxant...and in extreme pain.....
I have to agree with the correspondents who assumed dp meant one in each hole! Annable Chong did her triple with two vaginal and one anal. I have seen porn with dbl vaginal or dbl anal, so a dbl dbl should be possible if you can arrange the blokes!
I have to agree with the correspondents who assumed dp meant one in each hole! Annable Chong did her triple with two vaginal and one anal. I have seen porn with dbl vaginal or dbl anal, so a dbl dbl should be possible if you can arrange the blokes!
Hey Jo (hmmmm that reminds me of a song)
you are a very busy girl and are a shining example to all of us of how to enjoy yourself! Not only did you arrange a swinton soiree yesterday (hope it went well and hope to make it myself to another one if you have one), not only do you have a birthday party lined up at the w/e....but u r also up for more entertainment!
Hope you find someone to play with and the b'day party goes well
best wishes
steve
you are a very busy girl and are a shining example to all of us of how to enjoy yourself! Not only did you arrange a swinton soiree yesterday (hope it went well and hope to make it myself to another one if you have one), not only do you have a birthday party lined up at the w/e....but u r also up for more entertainment!
Hope you find someone to play with and the b'day party goes well
best wishes
steve
as most people know, there is now a new legal code on workplace harassment. One of the actionable examples I heard on the radio was guys looking down women's blouses while leaning over their PC......
Like a lot of blokes, I often sneak a look at chests, midriffs and legs wherever they are....what I am wondering is, do you ladies ALWAYS know when you are being ogled.
I hope I am not as blatant as a male colleague of mine, about whom one innocent girl enquired as to whether he had a squint - since he always directed his eyes downwards when talking to her. She did not make the connection between that and her D-cups.
Finally, on the topic of looking down: How can you tell that an engineer is an extrovert? He looks down at YOUR shoes while he is talking to you.
Like a lot of blokes, I often sneak a look at chests, midriffs and legs wherever they are....what I am wondering is, do you ladies ALWAYS know when you are being ogled.
I hope I am not as blatant as a male colleague of mine, about whom one innocent girl enquired as to whether he had a squint - since he always directed his eyes downwards when talking to her. She did not make the connection between that and her D-cups.
Finally, on the topic of looking down: How can you tell that an engineer is an extrovert? He looks down at YOUR shoes while he is talking to you.
