Not quite midnight, so hope it's not too late to say...
Have a wonderful birthday T-J and remember, if it was interrupted by work, you're allowed to carry on celebrating tomorrow.
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sparking
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 71
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Hi Jo
Sorry to hear that some blokes messed you about by not turning up. I thought you handled the thread very well and were very polite to everyone. I didn't post because I wasn't sure if I would be around, so wouldn't want to waste your time.
Anyway glad to hear you enjoyed yourselves - hope there will be other opportunities and, if I'm sure to be available, I might apply to add my name to your list - if you'll have me.
Good luck
Sorry to hear that some blokes messed you about by not turning up. I thought you handled the thread very well and were very polite to everyone. I didn't post because I wasn't sure if I would be around, so wouldn't want to waste your time.
Anyway glad to hear you enjoyed yourselves - hope there will be other opportunities and, if I'm sure to be available, I might apply to add my name to your list - if you'll have me.
Good luck
Martin - I've been in similar situations to what you're going through right now, but usually in company takeovers where you have to face angry (paid) staff.
It's tough, but it's only day one, so please remember that everyone has to take in the news, and can only really judge you properly when they see the results over the coming days, weeks and months.
I also know that, in these circumstances, you are going to get a lot of unfair and hurtful comments while people let off steam. Please try to avoid hitting back (however tempting it is), as it will only make things worse. You may have to put up with the flak for a little while yet. The more you bite your tongue now, the greater the respect you will earn.
And for everyone else - no, I'm not making any judgement about whether things are going to be better, worse, or the same. Only time will tell and, as many others have said, we can choose to stay or leave. I would give the guys a chance to prove that they mean what they say.
It's tough, but it's only day one, so please remember that everyone has to take in the news, and can only really judge you properly when they see the results over the coming days, weeks and months.
I also know that, in these circumstances, you are going to get a lot of unfair and hurtful comments while people let off steam. Please try to avoid hitting back (however tempting it is), as it will only make things worse. You may have to put up with the flak for a little while yet. The more you bite your tongue now, the greater the respect you will earn.
And for everyone else - no, I'm not making any judgement about whether things are going to be better, worse, or the same. Only time will tell and, as many others have said, we can choose to stay or leave. I would give the guys a chance to prove that they mean what they say.
I wondered when someone would remember it was 4d and you pressed button A. Wouldn't have thought you were old enough though Alexandra (I can crawl like the best of them!)
But do you remember when they first allowed you to dial the number yourself instead of having to ask the operator? It was called STD or Subscriber Trunk Dialling. So it hasn't always meant Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Mind you, I have heard you can catch them by staying too long in a phone box!!
But do you remember when they first allowed you to dial the number yourself instead of having to ask the operator? It was called STD or Subscriber Trunk Dialling. So it hasn't always meant Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Mind you, I have heard you can catch them by staying too long in a phone box!!
There are some of us who really love BBWs, but it's not good to put labels on people. I guess what we really appreciate is someone who is happy with their personality, wants to be friendly, and is proud to be a real woman. Being voluptuous can be very attractive, and is certainly nothing to be ashamed of. There's a huge lobby which tries to encourage women to be smaller than they are, and I find that very unattractive and insulting. Just be yourself, and enjoy!
Some single males think a swingers club is a place where you can treat women like dirt. They are the ones who spoil it for the rest of us.
Those who appreciate the swinging scene properly enjoy getting to know people as real people in a club. And if anything else happens, it's all the more satisfying with a real person than just a masturbation toy.
I'm not keen on swingers clubs having paid workers for "massage". If that's what you want there are other types of establishment that provide it.
Those who appreciate the swinging scene properly enjoy getting to know people as real people in a club. And if anything else happens, it's all the more satisfying with a real person than just a masturbation toy.
I'm not keen on swingers clubs having paid workers for "massage". If that's what you want there are other types of establishment that provide it.
As most people have said, you can't really give an easy answer to what attracts you. Interesting that everyone says eyes and smile - maybe it's being friendly that really counts.
Only fem_4_taboo has mentioned smell. Someone who smells/tastes nice is already at least half way to turning you on. And if you don't like the way they smell/taste, maybe they are not for you.
Friendly and clean. But then anyone who knows me will also point out I like the usual physical points as well!
Only fem_4_taboo has mentioned smell. Someone who smells/tastes nice is already at least half way to turning you on. And if you don't like the way they smell/taste, maybe they are not for you.
Friendly and clean. But then anyone who knows me will also point out I like the usual physical points as well!
