Thank you for your replies. I have recently visited and had a massage by a local gay man. There was no pressure from him and was very polite. He asked if I would be happy naked which I did not mind, also if I objected if he was also. I had no problem with this.

Every step of the way he asked if I was happy as to what he was doing to me.

He asked if I was happy to have my rear massaged and when I turned over he gently massaged my penis. I have to say it was a most enjoyable experience .

It did end in a lovely warm climax. I feel I would like to return.

I would rather enjoy this form of relief than cheating on my wife with another lady.

As I have said, I do love my wife but I still have sexual feelings.

Thankyou for all your comments. I'm still very much in love with my wife but I do still have the occasional sexual needs. I feel having relief from another male is better than going with a lady. There does seem to be a lot of men out there who are happy to oblige me with nothing expected in return.

I am very happily married but unfortunately my wife has no desire for sex anymore. I have tried talking to her about my feelings but with little understanding from her.

I have seen an add for a naturist gay massage and am seriously thinking of giving it a try. I just need some sexual release. I'm not gay but feel this would be better than looking for a lady.

Has anyone been in my situation. Any advice would be gladly received.

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Hi there..
we are on holiday in Cloveley North devon from 5 august.... I would love for someone to fulfill my ladies fantasy....
She posts a lot on the web and has always wanted to be recognised.... She has talked about this and would let the couple/guy/girl who recognised her sit in on a photo shoot...may go further as the idea turns her on..... :lol:
Come on people help me make this happen... we leave Friday so just a couple of days to sort out......