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stevierich
52 minutes ago
Straight Male, 66
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I think a club might be a better introduction than a party, most clubs will have it's people that go there often while a party will have more random group of people there and somewhere that most people know each other self polices it's self more and people tend to call out anyone being stupid (Well I'd like to think so).

You can have chat with the club owners and I'm sure that they'll be more than willing to keep an eye on you (Repeat custom and new people are the life blood for clubs) and maybe even have one of their other couples chaparone you (I know when I helped run a few places that's what I used to do, as well as finding out what the couple wanted and tried to guide them in the right direction)

Hi, the best thing to do is to every so often bring up the subject then leave it to germinate in her mind, watch some cuckold videos every now and then (But not to often and again don't for a while), afterwards asking if she enjoyed it and would she like to try what you both saw in the video. Wait and see if she brings up the subject.


Hi.

It's another website, more bdsm based but open to all types of lifestyles.

I do get up north from time to time, was due to come up to take some photos for a few couples then Covid hit so not a problem.

Hi there WolfandMare.

Been known to take a good photo (Took some for a couple on here years ago and for some people on Fet )

Not got any of my work on here but there's a few on Fet.

Had a few photo sessions lined up last year then Covid hit.

Would be interested in helping you out if you want.

Not a pro per say but have had some of my work exibited and used in media.

There is a solicitor but his name escapes me, met him a few times at SM Ball events, I'll see if one of my friends knows.

Sent you a private pm as well.

Yesterday I saw a guy spill all his Scrabble letters on the road. I asked him, “What’s the word on the street?”

Once my dog ate all the Scrabble tiles. For days he kept leaving little messages around the house.

Hi Snuffles, not a problem, this Covid has put everything off tilt, what seems like an hour turns out to be about six, lol.

I used to arrange these up to about ten years ago? so lost contact with most of the guys.

I arranged them around what the couple wanted so they dictated how many guys they wanted (As it happens I may be setting up another group as just before the Covid started I was contacted by a couple looking to have a five man gb and wondered if I could get the guys).

And yes you're right, slow and steady, took me a while to get the right guys but I had the advantage of helping out at a swingers club/adult events, although I had about twelve to fourteen guys only once or twice did I use them all at once, most couples wanted three or four to start of with. 

At the club couples would phone asking to set them up and we'd inform our regulars that a couple were/might be coming and may want a gb (At the end of the day nothing was guarenteed and the couple had to feel at ease), if they tuned up we'd go through the ground rules and what their limits were, they could choose how they wanted and if all ws well we'd sort a place for them to have their fun and there'd be someone on the door to stop anyone else getting in unless invited.

Have you seen the Youtube video of the American woman that cut a hole in her mask, apparently it made it easier for her to breath?, lol.

Hi there Snuffles.

Used to arrange them for couples years ago and had a group of about 12-14 guys I'd vetted so I knew they always turn up (Nothing worse than no shows).

Any good club would/might arrange one for you if you asked (I helped out at a few and that's what we used to do if asked) just make sure you let them know what your ground rules are and your limits.

If you'd lke any advice feel free to contact me, more than happy to help you out if I can.

No need to apologise Kat, thanks for what you and others are doing to take care of everyone (I've spent the last three nights doing an overnight shift at a night shelter).

I completely agree with what you have said, there are some stupid people out there

You just can't help some people, lol.
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Looking for group of strangers take turns on gf why she blindfolded NW England area
 

I give up!!

 

There was someone a few years ago that was using a bar in/near Barbican for swinger meets.

I know that there are a few pubs in and around London that kink munches are held at most might be suitable for low key meets.

I helped out at a club and we had one there, was always in use, it was always funny to see women saying no not me, then once they'd been in not wanting to come out, lol

Depends on who's there on the night, the dynamics can change depending on who's there on any given night, if the right people are there it can be great, but if the right people are not there then it'll not be such a good.

I've always said to go at least two or three times to a club to gauge what it's like.

Been going to various clubs over the years and helped out at a few so speaking from my own experience.

Sorry to say that all the ones in London have all gone as far as I'm aware.

It's not as easy as it would seem. 

I helped out a various adult clubs in London so vetted the guys for my GBs that way (I knew the guys and had control on how many came and the guys knew what the ground rules were, took the pressure off of the couples) , we had a number of succsesful meets and the women all left happy, the guys knew to turn up as if they didn't they had one other chance and then they wouldn't get invited back, thankfully only one guy never got invited back, and that was because he gave the couple his number without them asking, one of the rules was not to give your number only if asked (Stopped the couple getting badgered as some tried to use the situation to get couples for one 2 ones later which most didn't want).

It can be done but if it's your first time then I'd approach your nearest club and let them know what you want (We would get such requests from time to time and were more than happy to our loyal custmers well the better ones will, plus it's in their interest in some ways, they get to keep their male guests happy and they have a new couple that hopefully will enjoy the night and will come back).

A good club will know who to let know and who not to and as long as you work out the ground rules you should have an enjoyable night. 

If you would like anymore help feel free to contact me.

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place in Stratford?? where where where ! and whats it like !

That might be the Funtime club,more Hackney Wick but comes under a bad place(I use to manage it up until Easter),not been in a while as I help out somewhere else,but still not a bad place to go if it's your first time at a club.
Like most places it has good nights and bad,you need to go a couple of times and Jenni are by far one of the best hosts around,if you do go mention my name and enjoy.
A date for you diaries,April 30th is the date for The Night Of The Senses.
This is only once a year and is a charity event the money going to the Outsiders.
Details are in the club section on here.
Hi you could try the Funtime Club in East London,it's in Stratford so on the Central Line.
A friend runs parties in Earls Court which is not that far away,or The Paradise Spa,but that's a bit of a trek from Oxford Street.
Hi very interested in coming along,may also have a venue you could use on a monday or tuesday.
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We are setting up a monthly weekday evening "get together" in a London hotel, exact location to be decided in the week of the meet.
So far we have 2 guys, one woman and two couples and we want to get a core group together of guys, couples and single women with the object of setting a mutually convenient date each month so as to get as many as can attend along for a few hours of fun.
Usual rules apply re safe sex and consenting adults doing what they enjoy and want to do - boundaries pushed but within the acceptable limits of the individuals involved.
So..............who would like to join in? First meet probably late Oct or early Nov?
Hi,I've got the Anything Goes Room at The Night Of The Senses,I've got some couples helping me but looking for a few more greedy girls,so anycouples/single girls interested in helping me out?
There's a new club opened in stratford any body fancy meeting up there
Club Raquels is having a pole dancer in from 4pm until 11pm today,she is giving lessons to any interested women,anyone fancy meeting up?