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susan6912000
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
Straight Male, 61
UK

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I have just read this entire thread and part of me sympathises with your trials and tribulations when it comes to trying to meet up with other like minded swingers.
But coming from the the lanarkshire area ( well my family does i was only born there) and knowing the sort of people that thrive in scotland ( determined, feisty, hot blooded.......... before anyone thinks im going somewhere else with that)
I know that you will get another munch organised but nothing beats being able to go and meet up in a club so could I make a suggestion..................................
We all know the scots like Blackpool (you all seem to come to visit during Glasgpw Fair lol)
So why not try to arrange aweekend and try and get a mass outing and come down and try out the swingers clubs we have in Blackpool, Infusion, Passion, you check out the sites from the clubs tab at the top of the page you will be pointed in the direction of swinger friendly hotels etc you will be able to find something for everyone couples nights mixed nights etc and that way we could have a scottish English mass get together
and who knows if they get enought interest you may be able to persuade one of the clubs to open another club in scotland and startb a chain ( ok that bit may be a bit pie in the sky)
would love to meet some the names ive seen in the thread, sexybabecaz,Lucyweebaps, Glasgow_girl_30, the2T's,sexyscotcarol, weshare,scots cpl mags & Nicki,sexy lil angel................and glasgow girl i will promise you that if you arrive still a swing virgin you wont be when you leave blackpool with potentially a lot more friends
kiss hump :cheers: :therethere: :swingingchair: :welcome: :cheers: drinkies :thumbup:
What does everyone think???????????
the number says im 38........................................
but still feel the same as i did at 21 and if they can give kids a reading age different to their actual age I say we should be able to give ourselves a swinging age as well as our real age................
So Hi Im susan6912000 38 with a swinging age of 21 nice to meet you all
rotflmao
I amin agreement with steph and lissa..............get yourself known in the forums and chatrooms and go along to the socials and munches etc, build up your own image etc
BUT there is also another avenue to look at.............the clubs....... go along on the to swinging clubs, you can meet lots of people not necessarily playing with everybody you meet, but you can chat to them and find out which of them use this site then you have already met people who would vouch or support you on here, I have chatted with people on this set then met up with them in clubs and vice versa met people in clubs and now chat with them on this sites chatroom.
Although clubs sometimes give you a much quicker response/feedback/success they are also a good way of increasing the circle of swingers that you klnow
anyway wishing lots of success
good on ya,
I know how hard it is but it CAN be done. I've just worked out its almost 11 yrs since I quit, it took me 3 serious attempts to do it tho so dont think cos youve slipped before you will again.
If you really want to you can do it, they say just find something else to doi with your hands instead of holding a ciggy.............well i can think of a few alternatives ...........he he he and as said earlier in the thread it helps to suck on something else too...............oer missus.
pity you so far away would have offered you some hands on friendly help
Anyway I wont wish you good luck cos your not gonna need it ...............this time you can do it and be proud to call yourselfr an EX_SMOKER
keep us appraised of how your doing
:thumbup: wave drinkies
Thats not too disastrous it could have been worse.........................it could have been the oven and totally ruined it
lol
just to point out infusion and passion are swingers clubs and not pubs,
the best way to check them out is by clicking on the clubs and parties tab at the top of the page and then select the club you want to check out
and if you go along on a mixed night then you will find single blokes to join in
susan6912000
Quote by lucyslovely
Well not sure of particular pubs as such.. but get yourself along to yates.. hah ... never seen such a bunch of up for it and horny people!!! For a bit more obvious place would be somewhere like Flying handbag
depends how lusty ya are

HornyBunny you obviously don't know much about the pubs in Blackpool!
If you were looking for a straight guy then The Flying Handbag :laughabove: :laughabove: would not be the place to look -it's owned by Basil Newby who also owns Funny Girls.
Sallyhobbit - you could try:
1. Infusion or Passion - 2 swingers clubs in Blackpool - check their websites first tho to
see what nights they allow single guys into the place
2. Cupids in Swinton ,,,,,,,,,,,, a swingers club - but always lots of single guys in there ....
you could just take your pick :rascal:
3. Put an ad in the 'Couples for Single Guys' section on here - but don't blame me if you
get inundated with replies lol
Lucy kiss

you beat me to it Lucy.....
but I agree with what Lucy had to say
Infusion or Passion........( we personally prefer infusion but that depends on your personal tastes etc) swingers clubs
I will confirm totally you get a lot of single men at cupids (not my bag so felt bit overwhelmed) but that should give you plenty to go at lol
there is also liaisons in rochdale another club, but as Lucy advised check there sites to see which are mixed nights.
and either place an ad yourself or browse through the ones the single men have posted, you woulkd have a bit more control over the numbers of messages you have to deal with., also try the chat rooms and forums to see who is around and what they looking for as not evereyone places ads.
hope you get a result and have lots of fun wink
susan6912000
we are going to infusion in blackpool Sun afternoon .. 4 dec... are you interested in coming along?
We have been before and find it a very nice club, our advert is 386614 and we would love to meet a bi fem for fun, but also meet couples, main thing is to have all personal limits adhered to
if you fancy coming along, or were already planning to drop us a shout by email or look for us in messenger or on msn
or
look forward to it
susan6912000 biggrin
Quote by burnie
One small problem....my baking is lousy. I made wholemeal buns once, and even the birds wouldn't eat them.
I think cookbooks are like pornography for people who like food.

we could still have a mass choc fest burnie you supply the recipee, the others who offered the ramekins, others bring the choccy and ingreds and i could supply the baking skills............not a bad baker on the quiet....................
who needs M & S............. :P
why is it these so called experts only ever base their statements and predictions on the THEORY. they only ever look and observe then make statement s on what they think is going on etc.
They never seem to get into the practical side of the studies then make these big statements based on solid physical results.
Also why is sexual pleasure and satisfaction apparantly not allowed if your not young, commited and part of a couple!
to me the 3some when your all young free and single is quite a selfish experience I think it would be more about self satisfaction
but in a long tem committed relationship or marriage you can obtain as much pleasure in giving, and satisfying your partners needs and desires can be very arousing and sexually exciting and in a good committed relationship what goes around comeas around
and as long as everyone is happy with what is going on what is wrong with that!
sounds more like sour grapes to me
:P
Sorry Blonde :upset:
we are goingto have to take a raincheck on this trip and was sooooooo looking forward to it.
bit too soon after main holiday and having only been in new job about a month I cant really get the time off as well ( it would be bit cheeky of me really)
but will keep an eye out for another one as we really want to do amsterdam
sorry again boo hoo :sad: :taz:
susan6912000
your friend may be beating herself up over this and how she is going to tell hubby for nothing.
I assume she didnt use condoms with hubby.............so is she 100% certain he hasnt infected her?????????
:twisted:
just thinking from a diff angle here
but it must be really tuff for her at moment
Hi Vicky-uk
can you add us to the list please, might meet some of you guys in amsterdam, things still bit uncertain at moment. Depends how much we spend on our hols next week.......lol
I was a bit shockedwhen nwcouple mentioned prices out there... will let you know in the right thread
but anyway NW munch 4 please can we be included
thanks
susan6912000 lol
Hi there
we are more than likely going to make it so see you all there!
susan6912000
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Not sure what were up to tomorrow Ric, our plans are dependant on the weather
so there is a possibility we may make it over to liaisons, if so will see you there
Debz........ I was just wondering if you had an add on swinging heaven and what you are looking for( had a look at your website link)......... our ad is 73675 if you wabt to have a look see what you think
Rik & Jax will tell you we are genuine
hopefully see you all tomorrow
Rik give Jax a big kiss from me will you
L&R- susan6912000 biggrin
Ice skating sounds good but i was always under the impression that the lady skaters wore incredibly short skirts that showed off there knickers to the world.............
or is that just wishfull thinking lol
susan6912000
great to speak to you again lilmiss
couldnt not help you celebrate your big 30 so add us to the list please
just let us know the date cos we away for 2 weeks on 29 august
partyyyyyyyyyy biggrin
susan6912000
who is everyone flying with,
ive seen very cheap flights with thomsonfly ( used them before) at out return plus taxes
just need to price accom, where are people staying that is NOT expensive? can anyone give me some websites to check
Thanks
susan6912000
Quote by cuddlebunny
I don't think I'd like to be 'caught in the act' as it were as I tend to drift off to a different world.....I think it's the planet 'Almost There'!!!! hehehehehehe
I've only ever been asked once to 'put on a show' for a guy and initially I was very embarrassed but it was bloody fantastic......and the sex afterwards was explosive as he was soooooo turned on!!
Actually.........think maybe I might try it again if asked very,very nicely worship
:happy: :inlove: :happy: :inlove:

I too like cuddlebunny drift off to that world......... but i must admit it gives me an extra kick if my hubby walks in on me,
especially if he has been outside knowing what ive been doing and comes in with a raging erection and fucks me good and hard.
and no its not planned as i will masterbate in front of him too
cos it turns us both on lol
Blonde
we have been meaning to go to amsterdam for years and what an excellent way to do it
Will you add us to the list
Thanks lol
susan6912000
having met northwestcpl several times and I would like to think of them as swinging friends I can totally believe and understand why they have never had a tosser reply to an add
Big kisses to you both northwestcpl
X X X lol
what a shame we will miss you again
we went sat night
say hi to northwestcpl for us
susan6912000
We would love to come to the munch,
spend lots of time in the chatroom and on the recommendation of two couples on sunday in the club have decided to add our name to the list
Cant wait!!
susan6912000 biggrin :D