Not me!! Perhaps we should do a poll - Is Chris looking for chat or meets???:? :?
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Quote by MISSCHIEF
Can I open this subject up a bit wider ............. cos I really am curious to peoples answers on it.
Ok - everyone has families, but how many people have told their families that they're into the swinging lifestyle? For instance, I know that my children would be devastated if they found out. Many others on here are in the same situation - I can't see how that makes us any different to a guy playing away from home? We are hiding a part of our lives away from the most important people to us .......... yes it's for their protection and security - but isn't that just like why a married guy doesn't tell his wife, who has absolutely no interest in sex, that he swings.
These guys are not looking for affairs (the one I'm talking about now), they have surfed the net, stumbled on SH, found themselves drawn to the community of the Forums and joined up - they've made friends, they want to meet them, socialise with them - and yes, they want to swing with them - not a one off shag, not an affair - but to be part of the swinging lifestyle. Where do these guys fit in with others?
I really am just curious - I know I've only given one scenario of the married guy, but I wanted to give an example, not rattle off loads of examples.
Very well put, almost what I was trying to say
Without being patronising, could I say that this is one of the most interesting threads I've read on the net. Blows the shit out of moralists arguments about swingers.
From my own point of view, I have a wife who is loving and loyal and I would never want to upset her, can't dodge knives that fast, but I have tasted a great deal more of life, sexually speaking. She would find this site repugnant but I wish to go further. What do I do? Leave her because of my sex drie or stay and become a frurated old(er) man? Or do I go out and try to identify people and practices she may be welcome to being introduced to. When we met she shied away from using fingers on herself and now goes for it with gusto.
So if I led the way in bringing that experience about, and I was upfront with my corespondents, would I be cheating?
Blanket views are hard to throw over an area such as this.
From my own point of view, I have a wife who is loving and loyal and I would never want to upset her, can't dodge knives that fast, but I have tasted a great deal more of life, sexually speaking. She would find this site repugnant but I wish to go further. What do I do? Leave her because of my sex drie or stay and become a frurated old(er) man? Or do I go out and try to identify people and practices she may be welcome to being introduced to. When we met she shied away from using fingers on herself and now goes for it with gusto.
So if I led the way in bringing that experience about, and I was upfront with my corespondents, would I be cheating?
Blanket views are hard to throw over an area such as this.
Hi all, 50 yo guy, Manchesterish, wife doesn't play. Looking for fun and games with all who want to play, could be bi but pref only with your (fem) partner present. Slim, avg dick but hard as rock and knows what to do with mouth. Not into "meat shop" idea, like sensual mutually satisfying experiences, but we can talk about that. I won't put photos up but will exchange.
