O2, oh my god, what a bunch of useless twerps! Never have I had so many problems with a company till I signed up with them! Their website very rarely seems to work, they charge you double on your bill and then can't explain why, or they don't charge you at all for a couple of months then you get 3 bills all in one go!!! whats even more annoying is that they make all the mistakes but you have to call them at a charge of 50p per minute to get anything they have done wrong sorted out! I've lost count of the money it has cost me to get their mistakes sorted. And they never call you back when their systems are down like they promise to do, so you then have to call again and start right from the beginning with your problem, which 100% of the time they are the cause of!
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i dont think you sound like an impatient child, you simply spotted something that got you to thinking that people seem to think that men are more likely to be time wasters than women. I really don't think this is the case, it could just be a coincidence that the ads in that particular section had "no time wasters". I shouldnt let it worry you too much, as when you meet the right people for you I'm sure you will have a hassle free meet!
I don't think the "no time wasters" thing is directed at either gender in particular, as whether you are a male, female or couple no one wants to waste their time on a person who is not in fact genuine. Also another problem can be that when people do post for meets they try to be quite clear about what they want and what they don't want, yet you will always get those who reply on the tread or PM even though they know they don't fit the criteria of the persons posting. That in itself it a complete watse of time for everyone.
As for you arranging meets and those women not turning up, I guess only the individuals can answer for why they were a no show, and I'm sure at one time or another this has or will happen to everyone. I guess you have to try your best to figure out who is genuine and who is not.
You say you are still waiting for your first SH meet, but you have only been a member since the end of December so it's still early days at the moment. What you do have to bear in mind is that this is the net and you have to be careful about who you meet up with, cos there are a lot of wierdos out there. So if you are looking to meet a single female shes going to be a bit cautious about meeting a someone off the net she barely knows. The way I see it is, all good things come to those who wait!!!
K x
As for you arranging meets and those women not turning up, I guess only the individuals can answer for why they were a no show, and I'm sure at one time or another this has or will happen to everyone. I guess you have to try your best to figure out who is genuine and who is not.
You say you are still waiting for your first SH meet, but you have only been a member since the end of December so it's still early days at the moment. What you do have to bear in mind is that this is the net and you have to be careful about who you meet up with, cos there are a lot of wierdos out there. So if you are looking to meet a single female shes going to be a bit cautious about meeting a someone off the net she barely knows. The way I see it is, all good things come to those who wait!!!
K x
i think the key point here as gingerjo-lee pointed out, is that everyone is different. some people will see it as its just sex so it doesn't matter whether you're attracted to them or not as long as you enjoy it. but others will feel that regardless as to whether its the best sex that they could ever have, they would still need to be attracted to how a person looks before they could sleep with them! i don't think that means The Funk is gay, its just his preference would be that he would have to fancy the girl before he could sleep with her.
hope you find what you're looking for!
kerry xxx
hope you find what you're looking for!
kerry xxx
HI there everyone!
We are a M&F couple from Kent, hoping to meet a lady for friendship and fun! K is female, 22 years old, 5"5, 34 dd, slim-ish, long brown hair and eyes and is bi curious. S is male, 29 years old, in average shape, 6"2, brown hair and brown eyes and straight. Neither of us have ever steped foot in a gym, but are in reasonable shape and attractive looking (well so our mums say anyway. lol). We have been together for 6 yrs and are very happy but would love to add some spice to the bedroom, and what better way than to introduce a third person!
We would like to meet a female of a similar age and within the same area, though we are able to travel or accomdate should someone be further afield.
It is important that we have a friendship with whoever we may be fortunate enough to meet, as going out and having a laugh is just as important as the sexual side. So although pics are important as we all need to be attracted to eachother, early phone contact would also be required to see whether we actually get on or not!
As K is bi curious the female would also need to be (though experience is not a must) as this is something I am very keen to explore further. S would also have full involvement so if anyone is just looking for a female to play with we wouldnt be the couple for you. K's biggest fantasy is to watch S with another woman, so as i said it would be important that you are comfortable to have full play with both of us.
We are not into any form of toilet play, but other than that are open to try and explore new things.
so if theres any LADYS out there who would like to get in touch and get to know us both a little better, we would be glad to hear from you!
We are not looking for men at the moment (though im sure that would be much easier to find), though maybe that'll be the next thing we try. but for now sorry guys but we would just like to meet up with girls.
hope to hear from some of you soon!
K & S xxx
We are a M&F couple from Kent, hoping to meet a lady for friendship and fun! K is female, 22 years old, 5"5, 34 dd, slim-ish, long brown hair and eyes and is bi curious. S is male, 29 years old, in average shape, 6"2, brown hair and brown eyes and straight. Neither of us have ever steped foot in a gym, but are in reasonable shape and attractive looking (well so our mums say anyway. lol). We have been together for 6 yrs and are very happy but would love to add some spice to the bedroom, and what better way than to introduce a third person!
We would like to meet a female of a similar age and within the same area, though we are able to travel or accomdate should someone be further afield.
It is important that we have a friendship with whoever we may be fortunate enough to meet, as going out and having a laugh is just as important as the sexual side. So although pics are important as we all need to be attracted to eachother, early phone contact would also be required to see whether we actually get on or not!
As K is bi curious the female would also need to be (though experience is not a must) as this is something I am very keen to explore further. S would also have full involvement so if anyone is just looking for a female to play with we wouldnt be the couple for you. K's biggest fantasy is to watch S with another woman, so as i said it would be important that you are comfortable to have full play with both of us.
We are not into any form of toilet play, but other than that are open to try and explore new things.
so if theres any LADYS out there who would like to get in touch and get to know us both a little better, we would be glad to hear from you!
We are not looking for men at the moment (though im sure that would be much easier to find), though maybe that'll be the next thing we try. but for now sorry guys but we would just like to meet up with girls.
hope to hear from some of you soon!
K & S xxx
xxdevil69, i am also pregnant and have the same problem as you, i have been to so many sites looking for home work ive now lost count. i still havent found anything myself and have opted for a childminding course, though with pregnancy making me feel like pooh i dont think i'll have the energy to being looking after other peoples children aswell as my own 4 year old! envelope packing sounded like a great option for me, but i havent found any genuine companys who dont ask for money up front. i did at one point send money to a company (stupid i know, but was desperate) and surprise surprise didnt get any work!!
good luck in finding something, and if anyone knows of anything i could do also i would be very grateful to recieve a pm.
kerry xxx
good luck in finding something, and if anyone knows of anything i could do also i would be very grateful to recieve a pm.
kerry xxx
i have breast implants myself and i do think they feel much different to the real thing. my partner is pretty happy with them either way, though it took a good 6 months after the op before i'd let him near them cos i was afraid he might pop them! lol. i am fortunate that my surgeon was pretty good so mine turned out rather well, but having worked as an exotic dancer for a while i saw and felt some pretty bad ones too. i dont regret having them done as i wasnt blessed with naturally big boobs and after having a baby i had even less, but i still think natural is by far the best!!
kerry xxx
kerry xxx
i have lived in the dartford area for manys years now and all this time never knew there was such a site around here (doh). i am aware of others around kent but never knew i had one right on my doorstep! lol. though saying that, even though it has been disclosed in this post i still havent got a clue where is it, so with any luck the less genuine people who may access this site will be less familar with it aswell.
happy dogging peeps
k xxx
happy dogging peeps
k xxx
have to say that i completely agree with flapjackboy! although my partner and i are very new to this ourselves, we are still very aware what swinging is about, and its certainly not based on lies and cheating! its about being open and honest and of course to have fun, but not at someone elses expense (ie: the unknowing girlfriend). And although i fully consent to my partner having sexual relations with another female while i am present, i would not allow him to do it in secret behind my back! that is cheating as far as i'm concerened, and not what swinging is about!
i do however feel that if tintin wants to look for fun elsewhere that is his choice, but i do think he may be looking is the wrong place! i could be wrong, there may well be women on this site willing to help him cheat, but speaking as a woman myslef, i personally would never cheat with another womans man, and would like to think that others out there feel the same!!
kerry x
i do however feel that if tintin wants to look for fun elsewhere that is his choice, but i do think he may be looking is the wrong place! i could be wrong, there may well be women on this site willing to help him cheat, but speaking as a woman myslef, i personally would never cheat with another womans man, and would like to think that others out there feel the same!!
kerry x
Thanks darkstranger, XxSallyBabexX, beebeep, TAFFY & da69ve, you have all made us feel very welcome, and we are very much looking forward to getting know everyone better! We have taken on board all your advice and tips and are feeling very positive about the whole thing! I have been reading about these munches that are organised and they sound great, I think we'll be getting ourselves on a list very soon!
Anyway thanks again everyone, its great to get such positive vibes!!
xxx
Anyway thanks again everyone, its great to get such positive vibes!!
xxx
Hi there everyone!
We are very new to this site and we've been reading many of the postings about people not having much luck finding people to fulfill their fantasys. Many of you have replied to these saying that they need to be more active with their postings so others can get more familiar with them as this seems to be a pretty close community, and they aint gonna get laid after just one posting! So well here we are, with our 2nd posting (lol), just to say hi to all at swinging heaven, and to introduce ourselves! First of all this site seems by far the best we've come across on the net, so thanks to those who take the time to run it!
Well I'm Kerry 22f and my partner is stuart 29m, we've been together 6 yrs, and we are both from Kent. As I said before we are both very new to this and as of yet have not had any swinging experience, but are very keen to get active in this way of life! Our main fantasy right now is to try a 3some with another girl, as this is something we have both been wanting to do for some time now, but as we all know its not so easy to put into practice! For us friendship is just as important as the naughty side because it has to be someone we can go out and have a laugh with over a few drinks, and generally feel comfortable with as we would any other friend!
I would say we have a very good sex life, but do feel that theres new and exciting things we would like to explore with another girl as I am very bi curious and would love the opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality further. We are not in any way in to any type of toilet activity, but other than that are willing to try new things. We are able to travel and accomodate at weekends only.
anyway thats a little about us and what we're looking for so if theres anyone out there interested in getting to know us better be sure to reply!
hope everyones having fun!!
kerry & stu xxx
We are very new to this site and we've been reading many of the postings about people not having much luck finding people to fulfill their fantasys. Many of you have replied to these saying that they need to be more active with their postings so others can get more familiar with them as this seems to be a pretty close community, and they aint gonna get laid after just one posting! So well here we are, with our 2nd posting (lol), just to say hi to all at swinging heaven, and to introduce ourselves! First of all this site seems by far the best we've come across on the net, so thanks to those who take the time to run it!
Well I'm Kerry 22f and my partner is stuart 29m, we've been together 6 yrs, and we are both from Kent. As I said before we are both very new to this and as of yet have not had any swinging experience, but are very keen to get active in this way of life! Our main fantasy right now is to try a 3some with another girl, as this is something we have both been wanting to do for some time now, but as we all know its not so easy to put into practice! For us friendship is just as important as the naughty side because it has to be someone we can go out and have a laugh with over a few drinks, and generally feel comfortable with as we would any other friend!
I would say we have a very good sex life, but do feel that theres new and exciting things we would like to explore with another girl as I am very bi curious and would love the opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality further. We are not in any way in to any type of toilet activity, but other than that are willing to try new things. We are able to travel and accomodate at weekends only.
anyway thats a little about us and what we're looking for so if theres anyone out there interested in getting to know us better be sure to reply!
hope everyones having fun!!
kerry & stu xxx
pretty late notice i know, seen as its already saturday afternoon and we are looking to meet with someone tonight! But we've only just found out about this great site so we figured we'd give it a try anyway!
We are looking to meet with a very sexy horny lady tonight, we are near kent and london so ideally would like to meet up with someone within those areas! though we are able to travel as long as its not too far! we are a m&f couple aged 22 and 29, both sexy and very very horny! so if theres anyone out there interested in some 3sum fun tonight be sure to reply!!
We are looking to meet with a very sexy horny lady tonight, we are near kent and london so ideally would like to meet up with someone within those areas! though we are able to travel as long as its not too far! we are a m&f couple aged 22 and 29, both sexy and very very horny! so if theres anyone out there interested in some 3sum fun tonight be sure to reply!!
