I am not so sure it is entering with the wrong frame of mind to ask such a question.
I, by my very nature am a thinker, and a philosopher.....kinda
I think it is healthy to ask questions no matter how silly they are or seem to the person asking.
I agree that sex is not a competition, but it also just gets better and better,theres always something to learn.
On a related note then, for those of you who have an adult theme in said systems.
Where have you moved your details to if not MSN or .
Is there infact an adult based messanger service?
The best thing I could suggest is that you use a group of free sites.
I don't know any free sites which would allow adult videos.
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It is based in europe, and lots of other people place adult info there.
The good thing is that you must be a member just to search, and you can choose to have pics open only directly from url and not show up on their search.
It has a fairly decent upload limit and if you have compression software all the better.
It's not going to show up on web searches like google, and therefore won't end up being linked to by numerous porn sites. To be honest it is the only pic host I have ever found which is free but worth sending in contributions. And no I do not work for them, it is run by some guy from UNI in germany I think.
As for videos, all I could think of is find a good vid host but zip and password protect the files that way even the moderators can't know what you have. And would have no reason to delete your account.
Also limiting files to password only, means you can sort of control traffic for the sites with limits...
I would like to see a few of those vids and stuff too. But surely using WMV format would be much more compact.
I love making vids of us and would like to see how other swingers approach it.
Do you try and put story to your vids or go straight to the juicy bits etc...
Hope that helps