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torman
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 59
UK

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Was up there late on Saturday, on the way back from works Xmas party, but did not see anything going on . Was looking in the wrong places :cry:
should ahve gone up there earlier been better than party by the sounds of it!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have walked away from watching on the odd occassion. Usually because the pushy types are trying to takeover, and join in when the couple plainly do not want it. Had it happen the other week , a couple felt too crowded ,stopped and left due to the pressure.
So I decide that discretion is the better part of valour & hopefully find a quieter spot with another couple,if I can find them, who want to be watched or whatever they want to happen.
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HI Vix ,
Just saw your advert. Hope you & Devondouble get together and have some fun tonight.
having spoken to them in the past I realise how hard it is down her for a genuine couple to hook up with like minded people without attracting the baying hoardes of us single men!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know as a singleton I am not likely to be invited, in any case could not make it tonight anyway. So good luck both couples and hope you have fun tonight
Cheers Torman
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Same as you Les . Did not see the post till today. Anyway had made other arrangements for |Saturday. Hope Devondouble had some fun last night anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well I suppose its better having the police turn up than a bunch of yobs vandalising cars while people are out enjoying themselves as I have been told has happened up there before now.
On the other hand typical of the police to take the easy option and pick on the innocent rather than sort the dangerous drunk who could cause death & destruction in his inebriated state.
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Sorry to hear about your troubles last night Devondouble.
As usual it is the minority spoiling it all for the majority. I refer to the couples and the well mannered single guys that respect peoples wishes and move on when asked.
Why did the moron follow you. Did he think he was taking part in a fox hunt, where "the prey" eventually stops through exhaustion and gives him a show to get rid of him. If he did it just show what sort of cretinous imbeciles that Exeter attracts now. I have seen them follow a couple in a convoy like a herd of sheep, what do they think is going to got followed myself one night, eventually stopped to find out it was a transvestite who had followed me. I made sure he knew he was following the wrong car!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I know how it feels to be followed.
I have given up going there as it is just too much trouble and I personnally do not want to be tarred with the same brush.
I hope you do not give up on dogging & you find some nice spots in the area to which you can carry on your activities in peace and quiet.
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Never tried dogging during the daytime, too scared of being caught.
Nightime dogging is a bit weird in the moonlight trying to work out what is going on. However if nothing is going on it can be quite pleasant in the quiet on a moonlight night listening to the call of the wild in the dark as you sit in the car waiting for that all important call from a couple !!!!!
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Whinging on here after only posting a couple of times is a bit much they say patience is a virtue.
As for arrogance you just have to take what people say at face value and just accept that different people have different ideas and attitudes.
I hope you do not cut carolseandevon off just because they say blue is a bit arrogant, it would be a bit silly really.
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Quote by carolseandevon
so why do we genuine people put up with it, wec ould do something ourselves pm us and we can perhaps arrange a private dogging venue and invitte a couple of single guys as watchers? any thoughts

Could not agree more least it is all arranged privately there is less chance of the less discrete doggers turning up and spoiling it all.
PM me if you want to arrange something discretely wink .
Cheers Torman
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Hi All,
Unfortunately it seems like a minority have spoilt it all for the majority.
Must admit , for personal reasons have not been able to get to the aforementioned area for a couple of months. But even on my last trip up there earlier in the year it seemed like a waste of time with all the cars aimlessly driving around harassing the genuine people.. I always thought staying in one spot was a better option.
What were those idiots thinking anyway, its the one thing you do not want to do & that is draw attention to yourselves otherwise you get all you deserve. Unfortunately the more considerate doggers are probably the ones that will get the attention of the authorities rather than the mindless idiots.
I was planning on going out this week to get back in the swing of things. Looks like I will have to try and find a new area with genuine people.
Anyone willing to help lol
Cheers Torman
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HI All,
Must admit like Higos I think that being polite is the way to be, but unfortunately you end up disappearing amongst the more vocal members of the dogging crowd. Suppose the only way to go is get known on the board and maybe some kind couples,especially those down here in the Southwest, will allow us quiet types to take part in thier secret assignations off the beaten track.
Nothing wrong in being the gentleman, as Higos puts it, in any walk of life.
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Great Idea this Jomu, at least the singles & couples might just start to get on the same wavelength .Petesue's idea with the interior light I can understand , will try it the next time I am out & about or maybe use a torch instead.
As a relative newby it can be confusing as to what signals mean so you are left in limbo land not knowing if you are coming or going. I Always treat couples with respect and if they say no, apologies for disturbing them, wish them well and move on.
Presume that this is the way to act, although I assume not everybody does this.
One thing though, how do you signal in the day time or is this a daft question?
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Dawn,
Your a cheeky spoilsport!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love to see your pair in person? biggrin
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Melons,
Who says they are not real firemen just because they never put out any fires. They wear uniforms so you have got to love them.
As this thread shows quite a few people do!!!!!!!!!!
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Pot hole land is a great description. Was up there on Saturday and they are getting bigger all the time. Soon will need a tank to traverse them.
Pity I did not see this post earlier or I might have risked it up there again.
Any news on the Devon Dogging Circle
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Could not agree more Andy. It is a bit like trying to get a job.
Must admit that I tend to like my privacy so do not post that much but now realise it is better to post where I have an opinion or advice so that the experienced members of the board come to recognise and, hopefully, trust me.
Misschief I agree with what you say, you do feel like an outsider looking over a fence at a private party hoping for an invite. I presume the more visible you become the more likely an invite might appear.
Silk and Big G have a very valid point , how do you separate the wheat from the chaff amongst the replies from the single guys and newbies?
Hey Dawn please carry on posting on this thread so Andy & I can gaze at your avatar!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cheers Torman
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Hi Dirtydoggers,
Thanks for the clarification, No offence was taken at all. I just wanted to make sure I was not lumped in with mindless car fixated branch of Doggers.
Hope to see the pair of you sometime if you are in Devon.
Cheers Torman.
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Quote by dirtydoggers
aint that just typical,mention motors and the doggers are coming to life! next time we go out,i'm taking a box of assorted car parts,i'll stick the light on and let em wank over that fucker!! oooh,look at that thermostat,i'm gonna shoot me load!!

For your information Dirtydoggers, I happen to be trying to make a humorous comment which obviously fell on deaf ears!!!!!!!!
Personally I prefer to watch or take part with couples if I get the chance down here in the desert that is Devon.
If I ever meet the pair of you leave the box of car parts behind as I am sure we could find something more interesting to do. lol
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Quote by outdoorfun
ah - what a menu to choose from
frankly we much prefer a good old car-bonnet moment
trouble is that with herself lying forward on the bonnet and her pick of strangers doing the necessary, your truly has to sit with the back to the windscreen to get the benefit of a decent bj - sounds fine until you get your arm stuck in the windscreen wipers and run the risk of having to go to the A&E with a busted wrist !!!
note for new doggers - we thoroughly recommend the bonnet height of the nissan prairie range - far better than our old lotus.
have fun and play safe
h&t

Bloody hell you have got a Nissan Prairie, though they had all rusted out and gone to heaven by now!!!!
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Yep, Could not agree more.
I have been watching the site for a couple of months now & decided to try & be more active. This appears to be the only way for couples to begin to know & trust you so they do not think you are some sort of weirdo. Unfortunately the trustworthy & honest single guys have all been tarred with the same brush as the nutters.
Especially us down here in the south of Devon who frequent the locally well known Equestrian dogging areas, if you get my drift. The MBB's have a lot to answer for.
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Evening All,
I downloaded Mailwasher recently as a trial .Recommend it to get rid of spam, had a major problem with this junk, before it clogs your to do a good job so far.
Would love to get my hands on the people who send it just drives you nuts trying to get rid of it all.
Torman
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Evening All,
Could not agree more with you Jim. Just glad I did not go out Exeter way on Saturday as I planned. Get fed up with the idiots who think that the way to dog is to scare the hell out all of all & sundry. When out & about show a bit of respect & decorum to other participants and wait until they invite you to join in with whats going on.
When I go dogging this is how I treat the couples & i hope that they treat me in the sameway. If nothing happens after a while I just bid them good night and move on.
Unfortunately it appears that the majority of single guys are having the scene spoilt by the mindless minority. No wonder couples are setting up private sites and leaving the genuine single guys out of it. As they cannot tell the good guys from the bad.
Torman
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Hi All,
Could not agree more about Exeter. It is getting a bit silly now up there.
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Quote by myslutwifedevon
We stopped going to the venue that lays off the xxxxxxx in exeter (not allowed to name it!)
We prefer a much quieter but much better venue that is on the moors, the one with the large rock at the top of the hill.
The venue that is a bout three miles from Bovey Tracey...
Very awkward to say exactly where as frightened to name it in case we get thrown off.

I went up Exeter last weekend & it was manic,the MBB,s driving around like idiots. Hence no action so gave up & went away. Would love to find a quieter spot for fun & games like myslutwifedevon.