Quote by Sgt Bilko
Unlike some that just sound pissed!!! :shock: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Quote by JudyTV
The thing that really pisses me off is when people come on here and tell us all how they are a moderator or senior moderator on another site and just how successful and great that site is. If its that great on the other site then I say fluck off back there and leave us alone. This site has seen quite a lot of this "Its better if you do it this way", Bollox, well it isn't necessarily better because with 16000 plus registered users the site is already extremely successful so why spoil success, or is all this just too obvious for these "Lets change the world" Pratt's. If you really have thought it all through and its such a really great idea then take to admin because we really don't want to know on the forum.
Some people come on and start wanting to change the site after being here literally a few weeks. Most of the suggestions don't really hold water and are made without really thinking the thing through and as has already been said when they are shown the error of their ways out comes the proverbial dummy and away they go, back to the so called wonderful successful site they came from, all I can say is ........... bye bye. I would prefer to say "fluck off" but that would be rude and belay the feminine image I try to portray. The best suggestion so far is a sticky saying:-
"If you would like to change this web site from the successful social swinging site that it already is then de-register here, The door is over there."
To be really rude I would say to all these so called web site magnates who want to meddle in something that already works extremely well, fuck off and leave our site alone and leave decision making to those who know what they are doing and who have the interests of the whole site at heart and not just the whims of some selfish dick-head who thinks they would make a good replacement for George Bush.
This site is just fine the way it is. It works for the majority so don't try and change the site, try and change YOU.
Judy... on her box again

Quote by VenusnMars
Toz must be on a comedown. I almost understood that ;)
Venusxxx

Quote by lincskate
hhhmmm.... so the obvious thing is a demand for an off topic area?
When you look back its so OBVIOUSLY the main area of grief and ill feeling ( growing) on the forum.
I personally moderate two other forums so know exactly the thankless task that mods have to do...... so rather than continue to create the 'us and them' or 'clique' that many have referred to why not just dreate an off topic area for chatting - it works well on other forums and reduces work for mods and saves ill feeling.
To the senior Mods I'd personally be a little concerned that several people have been leaving the forum over this issue and there is generally quite a bit of ill feeling for what is supposed to be a fun and liberated place?
I have received PM's from people basically agreeing with previous comments, but not willing to post publicly....... that can't be a good vibe can it?
Finally - if the current policy of thread locking is to continue why not change the wording of the description of the cafe - and also the posting rules to confirm to newer (and established) users that off topic threads are not allowed?
I'm just trying to get something positive here - I've no desire to be attacked again by arrogant and rude people..... please! :cry: :cry:

Quote by master55
me thinks ant is "aint" :!: : :?
must be a strange northern word :!:

Quote by honeyriderx
wonder how long it lasts before getting locked :

Quote by VenusnMars
Oh dear........
Venusxxx

Quote by bluexxx
it's a topic

Quote by honeyriderx
:shock: :shock:
you what :

Quote by toz
it's a topic
is this a woman's world :
answer on a post card please

Quote by DeniseBabe
It seems you have appeared at the start line.................... just depends on if you want to run when the pistol is fired :P

Quote by MikeyMann
Erotic is when you use a feather.....
Kinky is when you use the whole chicken...
(Well it made me laugh..!)