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I am pleased to see my 'anatomy' guess was right. Can I PM you a photo of mine? Or have I already been too forward. Oh dear that is my undoing (whoops!)
LOL. Sure send one through.
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What's with the 'anatomy' interest in your profile, or is it obvious!
Anatomy is the obvious meaning. I don't work for the local Coroners
.... I should stop typing now, I feel like I'm digging a hole for myself here... Oops another analogy.. What have you started here Nigel? 
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It can be quite depressing as I am sure there are lots of good people to share with and I am really not all that bad. But how do I get that across to the right people?
Tough one. How do you get your personality across in an email, chat room or by PMing somebody? Not an easy task. What you can achieve in a couple of hours in a social face-to-face situation can take weeks by web correspondence.
For me it's firstly getting a response to a initial message (hardest part), then you need to build on that connection by remaining friendly, respectful, polite as well as being easy-going and light-hearted. I never ask to meet initially or are pushy in any way. After a number of emails your personality should start to come through.
Of course your potential play partner has be right for you too and this build up of correspondence will help you establish that.
I'm sure there are tons of good guys out there in the same boat, but if I was a part of a couple or a single gal looking for a guy. I would be very cautious and picky about who I chose to contact and correspond with. Far too many nutters out there.
Maybe there should be a review section of the site that is dedicated to play partners that have been tried, tested and verified.
It changes often but at the moment it's Mr Brightside by The Killers.
After I split with my girlfriend and she started seeing someone else I often thought her seeing another guy would excite me, as I'd often fantasised about sharing her with another man, but the reality is it felt is more like a nervous/nauseous excitement mixed with a mild jealousy, that I'm sure some of you feel like sometimes when you watch your partner with someone:
I'm coming out of my cage
And I’ve been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I’m falling asleep
And she’s calling a cab
While he’s having a smoke
And she’s taking a drag
Now they’re going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it’s all in my head
But she’s touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go
I just can’t look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis
But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr Brightside
Great song too... I'd like to ask then what the song is really about.
After I split with my girlfriend and she started seeing someone else I often thought her seeing another guy would excite me, as I'd often fantasised about sharing her with another man, but the reality is it felt is more like a nervous/nauseous excitement mixed with a mild jealousy, that I'm sure some of you feel like sometimes when you watch your partner with someone:
I'm coming out of my cage
And I’ve been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I’m falling asleep
And she’s calling a cab
While he’s having a smoke
And she’s taking a drag
Now they’re going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it’s all in my head
But she’s touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go
I just can’t look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis
But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr Brightside
Great song too... I'd like to ask then what the song is really about.
Thanks for your kind welcome. I'm sure I'll have loads to ask and chat about over the coming weeks.
I've just felt my way along so far and I've been to a couple of parties already (wow what an eye-opener). It was major sensory overload, an incredible experience visually as well and I was lucky enough to have some fun with a couple and a single gal. Was physically and mentally exhausted at the end of the evening. The nerves and the experience left me totally spent.
Anyway I'm hooked and ready for more. :smitten:
I've just felt my way along so far and I've been to a couple of parties already (wow what an eye-opener). It was major sensory overload, an incredible experience visually as well and I was lucky enough to have some fun with a couple and a single gal. Was physically and mentally exhausted at the end of the evening. The nerves and the experience left me totally spent.
Anyway I'm hooked and ready for more. :smitten:
Been reading the board for a little while and I thought I would join and introduce myself.
After a mega-long relationship ended a few months back I have found myself single and very much like a lost puppy in the strange big world of post millennium coupling, relationships and dating. Suddenly the freedom of being single is quite overwhelming and with my hormones all going mad like a teenager again (I'm 33) I've decided to try and seek out an alternative lifestyle for myself.
When I was in a relationship I got the impression single guys were a rare breed, I always used to hear my partners girlfriend's complain about not being able to find a man and everyone is attached or married etc... and now I'm single, all of a sudden I'm swimming in a dense sea full to the brim with single guys all trying to get noticed. LOL
Anyway I'd love to make some new friends here, chat and generally seek some guidance about how to get on within this scary new world of swinging and sexual liberation.
After a mega-long relationship ended a few months back I have found myself single and very much like a lost puppy in the strange big world of post millennium coupling, relationships and dating. Suddenly the freedom of being single is quite overwhelming and with my hormones all going mad like a teenager again (I'm 33) I've decided to try and seek out an alternative lifestyle for myself.
When I was in a relationship I got the impression single guys were a rare breed, I always used to hear my partners girlfriend's complain about not being able to find a man and everyone is attached or married etc... and now I'm single, all of a sudden I'm swimming in a dense sea full to the brim with single guys all trying to get noticed. LOL
Anyway I'd love to make some new friends here, chat and generally seek some guidance about how to get on within this scary new world of swinging and sexual liberation.
