We are amazed when we see posts like this one, we moved from the London area to Devon and we find the swinging scene down here bloody great.
We have made lots of friends (sexual) and we find socialising with other couples to be the best bet.
We regularly go to Extremm in exeter, we have had several conquests there.
Also we are holding a Couples clubnight at the same venue as Extremm in April.
So the southwest lifeless?.......Not in our experience!