thanks everyone for your comments seems to be crossed opinions, now maybe we have got it wrong but being new to all this we have to start somewhere.
We thought that dogging was the art(if you can call it that) of voyeurism , ie, watching others have sex in public places , and if your lucky being able to partake in the eventualitys of the evening. So just to reiterate our wants and dont wants, couple seeking couple for friendship , we would like to make friends ,yes of course we would
have a drink on a social basis possibly dine out together and then if we get along ok have some indoor dogging ie watching and being watched. In the summer time we will get out and about in true dogging fashion. Sorry if we have upset anyone :D