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tylerdurden
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 57
United Kingdom
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i started going when it moved to benton, never visited the other one...marya, you make many valid points and one that touches on my original point, its mainstream, i remember a while back, being a visitor of car parks and them being occupied by couples and one or two single men, mebe 3 or 4, obviously sometimes more, and it was staedy like that for a long long time, everywhere, hardwicke, seaton sluice, big waters, then one day, dogging was on the news, it mustve been no more than a week or two later and there was all kind of men turning up in cars and at one point actually winding their window down and asking myself and a couple i was there with if we were going to do anything, no diplomacy no respect pull up to the cars jump out and stare through the windows, it was ruined and i think a similar thing happened with arranged meets, alot of timewasters, people with no intention other than to drag you for miles for no reason on the promise of a meet, it became an impossible task to find someone genuine, still is, and this goes for the chatroom too, people started to get involved as it was on the news and as you said, expected to get sex whatevr their attitude wherever they tried, just as the chatroom, they dont want to chat, they want to shag or watch a cam, its a totally different attitude now, back in the day you got one or two pushy people but theres a hell of alot more now and it is spoilt to a certain degree, as for the parties, i was making the point of where i live and that im a single man, thats why i hope for invites for other parties!! doesnt happen like although i did attend one in leeds, stockton, seaham, travelled as far as harrogate on another goose chase but there you go.
there should be paragraphs in there but its getting on and im ganning dogging cos theres nowt else to do
there should be paragraphs in there but its getting on and im ganning dogging cos theres nowt else to do
all the people ive enjoyed the pleasure of in the past have moved on in various ways, left the scene ive lost contact with them etc, i used to be a regular at club2000 but even thats finished now and the people i knew from there i just dont know where they are now, and as i live in a little quiet house in a little quiet village miles from anywhere, people dont want to travel there
godalmity im being very negative arent i!! should just get a lady and be done with it
godalmity im being very negative arent i!! should just get a lady and be done with it
i have tried organising parties a few times over the years, yes ive been on here since it started and got free lifetime membership when it got taken over!! and people wont come, and i do understand that a single man, who they dont really know, at his house! in a quiet village in northumberland! with my reputation! that last bit was a joke, im a quiet person, very polite, anyway, yes, party at single mans house, hasnt worked in the past suppose i could try it again, im not going out or anything will just be in by myself, back in the day, i actually went to hardwicke hall on new years eve for a look, nowt of course but that was some place when it was up and running, anyway, again, party at mine new years eve, couples and single ladies only, that would leave enough men, like me sitting by meself again, till i realise no bodies coming and head off to see if theres any couples around, which takes me back to the point of this thread, there isnt anymore!! see how ive gotten it round in a full circle haha god i must be bored, ill put an ad up, bring your own drink, thanks for the sexy ladies replying
glad im not the only one seen the change up here last few years, used to be so much fun around, nowt now, a munch? as a single man living alone, id be happy to organise a party here, couples and women, but tried before and got loadsa people saying ahh youre a bloke we not coming but, its here if anyone wants to come along
