As people have commented, voyeurism comes in various forms. Dogging is partly about voyeurism but not what floats most voyeurs (or many exhibitionists) boat I suspect. Then theres porn, some kinds of photography, etc. so any web searches are likely to be overwhelmed.
Will wish you luck jdmag. IMO a reasonable question to ask and sure you'll find what you are looking for in time however frustrating SH can be if you are out of the mainstream.
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Don't forget to let us know what happens when you collect them.
In our small local branch of Boots last month overheard the girl at the prescription counter shout to the pharmacist - "Is the viagra ready for collection?". Shades of Woody Allen and one highly embarassed customer as we all turned to look.
In our small local branch of Boots last month overheard the girl at the prescription counter shout to the pharmacist - "Is the viagra ready for collection?". Shades of Woody Allen and one highly embarassed customer as we all turned to look.
We are not actively looking for swinging meets but past experience suggests your novice intuition is good. Asking for a phone number directly sets off warning bell - we think ads were used to collect suckers phone numbers for spam texting last year. Some genuine people ask for pictures first of all but more likely picture collectors, game players or time wasters. If you can't trust someone to give their real weight or height in a personal description, why assume a photo is not a fake.
Avoid those ads like the plague.
Different question once a promising dialogue is established.
Avoid those ads like the plague.
Different question once a promising dialogue is established.
We talked some more about this after reading replies. Agree with a lot but can't see exploring fantasies for fun as black and white as some of you imply.
Money. Gold diggers. Accept a drink or dinner or use of a room up to Redford and Moore in Indecent Proposal. All the grey areas in between. Is a porn actress a prostitute because she is paid and work involves sex? Girls who make XXXX films would find this insulting and judgemental. How about a wife who feels pressured into the swinging scene from fear of money troubles if marriage goes pear-shaped? Anyone who *profits* from swinger events. A lot of ethical ambiguity.
One thought. If we were all loaded, the idea would probably not generate any moral outrage. Sex and money have always been the two biggest hangups.
"Swinging is totally different, its about friendship, fun and being able to have a laugh with the people you swing with" (dazandlou). YES. Although you'd hardly guess from the quality of the photo ads here
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Money. Gold diggers. Accept a drink or dinner or use of a room up to Redford and Moore in Indecent Proposal. All the grey areas in between. Is a porn actress a prostitute because she is paid and work involves sex? Girls who make XXXX films would find this insulting and judgemental. How about a wife who feels pressured into the swinging scene from fear of money troubles if marriage goes pear-shaped? Anyone who *profits* from swinger events. A lot of ethical ambiguity.
One thought. If we were all loaded, the idea would probably not generate any moral outrage. Sex and money have always been the two biggest hangups.
"Swinging is totally different, its about friendship, fun and being able to have a laugh with the people you swing with" (dazandlou). YES. Although you'd hardly guess from the quality of the photo ads here
. Interesting thread on a (far less popular) forum on another swinging site about 'Paying for the Company of a Couple'. Does seem to be something of a fantasy scenario for some guys and couples, people who have no desire to associate with those who 'escort' for a living but find the notion of money changing hands a turn on. Feels like treading into territory here . Before anyone shouts, just to say we are only tempted by the thought of performing and fantasies, voyeuristic kind of thing but wondering if this is stepping outside the ethical bounds if we consider the 'generous'.
. Before anyone shouts, just to say we are only tempted by the thought of performing and fantasies, voyeuristic kind of thing but wondering if this is stepping outside the ethical bounds if we consider the 'generous'. A one-time friend of mine, a writer well into double figures on her Amazon listing wrote the most terse email, albeit with the occasional literary flourish. There are exceptions to all rules.
But yes AK, with you 100% on your sentiments and conclusion. Experience, not cynicism talking here.
But yes AK, with you 100% on your sentiments and conclusion. Experience, not cynicism talking here.
Excellent.
Love the "proffesional, inteligent" ads. What are the literite and wryters here meant to think?
Personally reckon its a worldwide conspiracy by those who discovered dyslexia is an anagram for 'daily sex'.
Also like the 'prepared to try anything' = I'm so ugly I'll have anal sex with your gay husband if I get to see a naked woman in real life.
Love the "proffesional, inteligent" ads. What are the literite and wryters here meant to think?
Personally reckon its a worldwide conspiracy by those who discovered dyslexia is an anagram for 'daily sex'.
Also like the 'prepared to try anything' = I'm so ugly I'll have anal sex with your gay husband if I get to see a naked woman in real life.
Not so strange blue.
At a time when I was looking for meets with single girls (dating, often hot but not swinging lol) found it fun not to send photographs, made meeting extra exciting. One girl I met turned out an absolute stunner. Expecting to see her in jeans, she decided at the last minute to to dress to kill, short skirt, the works. Someone up there liked me that day
. Others better looking than most of the photo ads here so not about looks. What we had in common was genuinly caring about personality and conversation, although we weren't looking for more than a quick fling and some excitement.
ready2swing - yes you can meet an pretty and horny woman from a swing site without sending pics. Been there. Wake up! this is the 21st Century, jeez can't get a pic sounds like you've something to hide bigtime - that silver tongue needs serious polishing.
Hope that helps.
At a time when I was looking for meets with single girls (dating, often hot but not swinging lol) found it fun not to send photographs, made meeting extra exciting. One girl I met turned out an absolute stunner. Expecting to see her in jeans, she decided at the last minute to to dress to kill, short skirt, the works. Someone up there liked me that day
. Others better looking than most of the photo ads here so not about looks. What we had in common was genuinly caring about personality and conversation, although we weren't looking for more than a quick fling and some excitement.ready2swing - yes you can meet an pretty and horny woman from a swing site without sending pics. Been there. Wake up! this is the 21st Century, jeez can't get a pic sounds like you've something to hide bigtime - that silver tongue needs serious polishing.
Hope that helps.
