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ukvoyeur
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 72
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Warming the Bed
Another one in Blackpool is Euphoria Weekends (link in the Clubs and Parties section) Alan and Lucy are a lovely couple and will make sure you have a great weekend. Check which weekend you want to go, though, as some of the weekends are fetish orientated, whilst others are more for swingers.
Warming the Bed
If you don't want to strip down to a towel or undies as soon as you arrive, Xtasia is a disco type club and is couples only on a Saturday night. Disco and licensed bar on one floor, playrooms on other floors so you can join in or not as you please. Also has sauna and hot-tub in basement if you want that as well.
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Would recommend Xtasia on a Saturday night - couples only. Disco and bar on one floor with ladies in club wear, pvc, dress to impress etc. Playrooms on separate floors so you can use them or not. Jacuzzi is in the basement so you don't have to go anywhere near if you don't want to.
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Cos if you click on an ad to read it, when you go back into the section all the ads seem to have re-timed randomly and gone into a totally different order and I haven't got a clue which ones I have seen and which I haven't, Ok, before anyone else says it, I am easily confused anyway
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When choosing a venue for a first visit, consider whether you will feel more comfortable in a sauna club or disco based club.
A sauna club will be a more "full-on" experience, but dress code is usually towels for the gentlemen and towels or lingerie for the ladies as soon as you walk through the door.
At a disco type club you will be able to wear clothes you would normally wear to a disco or you could "dress to impress" with something a little more risque. You will be able to see the type of actoin that is going on without any pressure to join in if you don't want to. On the other hand you may ..........
Either way, good luck and have a fun evening.
A sauna club will be a more "full-on" experience, but dress code is usually towels for the gentlemen and towels or lingerie for the ladies as soon as you walk through the door.
At a disco type club you will be able to wear clothes you would normally wear to a disco or you could "dress to impress" with something a little more risque. You will be able to see the type of actoin that is going on without any pressure to join in if you don't want to. On the other hand you may ..........
Either way, good luck and have a fun evening.
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It always amuses me how couples think they should get everything for free in this country. As a single guy I am used to being charged extortionate membership and entrance fees to subsidise the couples. On the continent couples are charged realistic membership and entrance fees and do so without objection because the clubs offer fantastic facilities. Remember, nothing in life is for free - you get what you pay for :-)
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I am being realistic. Having been on the swinging scene for over 20 years, I am fully aware that couples and the elusive single females get inundated with replies from single guys. I am not, therefore, surprised when I answer an advert and hear nothing, even though I am most selective in choosing the ads I reply to (I don't want to waste my own and other people's time by replying to ads for which I know I am completely unsuitable).
My point was, why keep asking people who they are obviously not interested in to keep re-contacting them, promising to reply, when they obviously have no intention of doing so.
My point was, why keep asking people who they are obviously not interested in to keep re-contacting them, promising to reply, when they obviously have no intention of doing so.
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There is one couple looking for single guys on this site repeatedly saying that they have lost previous replies. They ask anyone who has replied before to contact them again, promising to answer all. I have written to them three times - full individual replies with photo - not just "copy & paste" or "look at my profile" . All messages have been read but I have not yet received a single reply - not even a "**** off" Posting this sort of ad is just wasting genuine people's time.
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Its harder work than you think. I used to hold parties at my home and it was very hard work. Changing beds before everyone arrives, clean towels (loads) in bathrooms, buffet (nibble type buffet goes down best - no-one is expecting a banquet :-) Bring your own booze.
The clean up afterwards - cleaning bathrooms and changing beds before you retire. Cleaning the entire place the next morning.
Usually between 1/2 and 3/4 of those that accept actually arrive, but expect the worst - I always over-invited and once evreyone arrived and the place was absolutely packed but what a fantastic night everyone had
If you need a hand with the catering, let me know, I used to have my own outside catering business
The clean up afterwards - cleaning bathrooms and changing beds before you retire. Cleaning the entire place the next morning.
Usually between 1/2 and 3/4 of those that accept actually arrive, but expect the worst - I always over-invited and once evreyone arrived and the place was absolutely packed but what a fantastic night everyone had
If you need a hand with the catering, let me know, I used to have my own outside catering business
Warming the Bed
If you want to travel well out of your area, you could try Xtasia in West Bromwich on a Saturday night (couples only) The ages range right across the board and the main room is a disco, so you don't have to strip down to a towel as soon as you walk through the door. There are two main play areas off the disco where you can join in if you want, but there is no pressure to do anything if you don't want to. There is also a sauna/jacuzzi area with more playrooms if you prefer that atmosphere. I used to work there, so I know that the staff are very good at putting first-timers at their ease. The Days Inn Hotel (used to be called the Howard Johnson) next door offers a discount if you mention the club when booking. Check out the club's website and see what you think. Good luck.
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Midlands male available anytime at short notice. Can accomodate or travel. Fully experienced at videoing couples. Happy to use your camera or mine - you to keep the master tape of course. Discretion assured. If interested, please e-mail to and I will respond with mobile number or landline if preferred. Hope to hear from you soon.
