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I stuck with my pocket pleaser for years until i discovered ben!!!
Thanks for the info, some of the reviews were a little old and its helpful to know what your experiences of these places are.
ok, your changing my mind!! whats the crack up at chameleons?
yeah, maybe chamleons in the future, don't really fancy a sauna club for my first time!
Hi again, i told you i'd be asking questions......
For those who frequent the clubs in the Midlands area, Is x-tasia the best one to go for? any other you can recommend? I am part of a couple, and we are looking for a night where single men are invited.
In my beside cabinet usually, disaster this morning as the lease on our flat is up next month and our landlord had a viewing with a new couple. I had just enough time to to hide Big Ben (Ebony!) before they looked at the bedroom! surprised lol
Thanks, don't get me wrong i'm really looking forward to it it, i suppose you just have no idea what to expect until you get there! the unknown element is quite exciting!
Yeah, i'm sure a bit of dutch courage can go too far can't it? will def have to have a few glasses of wine first though. I suppose i'm getting anxious cos my partner is so blase about it all!
redface yeah i suppose i'm just being silly. I know what i'm like i'll end up having a better time than my other half!!
biggrin Hello back!
I'm going to X-tasia, heard some good things about it. I must be honest though, i'm very nervous!
Just as and when i think of questions really. Going to a swinging club on friday night with my partner and we are looking to hook up with a few single guys (for me, not him!) but from what i've seen on the sites, its generally couples and women?
Hi, my name is Jo, F, 26 from Birmingham. Will be asking for advice if thats ok?
Hi there every body,
We are a couple (29&30) that have always wanted to try a 3some involving
another female.
We both think this site is phenominal and would really like to try to get int touch with a
few people we have already seen.
But being new to this we dont know the 'correct procedure', if there are dos and donts
or any pitfalls.
I think we would be confident enough and interested in going to any parties
or clubs in our area as well (Derby).
Things we'd like to know about are:
Sending pics - yes / no
When would you meet.
Do you meet for a drink before actually getting back together to having sex.
Is it worth having your own website.
What do you do if you meet and dont like the other person !!!
As it's something I dont think I could go into my local library and ask for a book on,
we thought it would be a good idea to get some info from the people in the know.
I've read a few posts and everybody sounds really cool.
So.........
..........If anybody could offer any advice to us and point us in the right direction
that would be great.
Thanks to anybody that helps.
James & Nic
PS
Really exited. wink