always gets me when you meet someone at a social who you have been chatting to for a while in chat/ seen on cam etc etc etc n they say.....
ooooo your better looking in real life than you are on cam ....
hmmmm can never make my mind up if thas a compliment or not lol
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whiplash
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 55
0 miles · Saint Helens
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what with me being a northerner n that lol
Logged on this morning to find yet another message requesting a meet, even though profile is more or less blank as I am not in the correct frame of mind to be meeting atm..anyway I chose to ignore the message as I'm pretty sure its just one of random many that he sends out!!!
Anyway..I logged on again a few hrs later only to find the same person had sent me the exact same message again (yawn).....At this point I sent a reply asking why if I had chose to ignore the previous message why did he send it again? Perfectly simple question or so I thought..........
Just thought I would share with you all the reply I received....
Definition of a 'BITCH' -
Bitches are females who: have an immature attitude,don't appreciate the good things that men do for them,always get? pissed for no reason,are too damn picky,addicted to drama,don't know what they want,who always talk shit that all men are the same,etc. Not just stupid heads who are club-party animals, who fuck with all men or who fuck for ,I respect GIRLS and WOMEN who know how to behave BUT I do NOT respect 's the said
Now I'm wondering in sending a definition back do I choose the word T****r, P***k or W****r?
Anyway..I logged on again a few hrs later only to find the same person had sent me the exact same message again (yawn).....At this point I sent a reply asking why if I had chose to ignore the previous message why did he send it again? Perfectly simple question or so I thought..........
Just thought I would share with you all the reply I received....
Definition of a 'BITCH' -
Bitches are females who: have an immature attitude,don't appreciate the good things that men do for them,always get? pissed for no reason,are too damn picky,addicted to drama,don't know what they want,who always talk shit that all men are the same,etc. Not just stupid heads who are club-party animals, who fuck with all men or who fuck for ,I respect GIRLS and WOMEN who know how to behave BUT I do NOT respect 's the said
Now I'm wondering in sending a definition back do I choose the word T****r, P***k or W****r?
I've been on here for near on maybe 6/7 yrs,half of that time has been as a single fem, I have always had both pics and text on my profile (just hang fire before you go and look lol). It has always struck me as strange when other single fems say they get inundated with mail as in all that time I may have been lucky enough to get mail maybe once every 3/4 months and even then it was more than likely to be off someone I knew from chat.
(maybe my sparkling sense of humour preceed's me ..who knows)
However since I took off my photo from public view & placed into a pvt album & removed all text to brb I have been ...well lets put it this way every time i log on I have at least 4 mail from randoms.
The ones that are littered with 'hey really liked your profile & your pics are stunning' do make me giggle tho
So peeps ...is this the secret, remove all information and as much about yourself as you can?
Certainly got me puzzled thas for sure
(maybe my sparkling sense of humour preceed's me ..who knows)
However since I took off my photo from public view & placed into a pvt album & removed all text to brb I have been ...well lets put it this way every time i log on I have at least 4 mail from randoms.
The ones that are littered with 'hey really liked your profile & your pics are stunning' do make me giggle tho
So peeps ...is this the secret, remove all information and as much about yourself as you can?
Certainly got me puzzled thas for sure
Quote by M1ssVery
I think for Shrep to be truly honest feedback that others can refer to it needs to be submitted after getting to know the person(s) quite well.
Leaving Shrep after a message or 2 can be misleading to others who look at it because at that stage you yourselves don't really know them..
So yes, I agree with others, I only submit feedback for people I regularly chat to or have met and i am relatively sure they are "nice friendly and genuine" ;) And if they forget to submit mine, I prompt them ;)
One thing though, do we really need a Site and a Vouch one? Think it's enough to have one for online communication and one for meets.
I hardly ever leave shrep tbh missvery but i do feel as if a shrep needs to be left if only to warn other single females....I very rarely meet single guys, in fact i think its about 4 in all my 6 yrs on here, however i met up with one the other week n he was really nice, polite considerate etc etc to the point i deceided to meet up with him again.
We went to a club as he had never been to one before and we went to 'play' in the main room (as ya do lol) Now apart from my time spent owning a swingers club I have never been to one where there are single guys..have always gone on cpls nights...so i was intimidated to say the least when i found us surrounded by half a dozen single guys but hey ho when in rome lol, I was shocked to discover tho mid play the guy i was with had left the room to watch someone else & i was virtually alone with 6 guys none of whome I had met before...I actually felt quite scared, ok in cold light of day that sounds silly but at the time it certainly wasnt silly
....his excuse ..he didnt understand club etiquette.
Trust me tho he saved the best till last...he left me in club 25 miles from home with no way of getting back!!!
If it wasnt for the fact I knew someone who was in the club who kindly came and picked me up (as they had just left)and let me stay at their house and brought me home this morning THANK YOU MRS CROMPTON xxxxxxxxxxxxx then i dont know what i would have done.
Am disappointed with myself as in all my years on here I have never put myself in a position where i cannot get home or have put my safety at risk!!!!
If ever there was a need for a name & shame ..this is it!!!!!
All rooms can be boring at times, depends on the chat/banter...some nights are hard work to get chat moving and flowing and other nights are a complete blast.
I usually end up in a regional room. as I have met alot of the people i chat too personally but again some nights its dire.
Regarding the pool in all the 6 and a bit years I have been on the site, its only recently that i have started going in there and staying in there an i can honestly say the regs in there have been more than welcoming....stay with it and join in!!!
On a diff note I have never been able to get a foothold in the forum...you get out what you put in i suppose
I usually end up in a regional room. as I have met alot of the people i chat too personally but again some nights its dire.
Regarding the pool in all the 6 and a bit years I have been on the site, its only recently that i have started going in there and staying in there an i can honestly say the regs in there have been more than welcoming....stay with it and join in!!!
On a diff note I have never been able to get a foothold in the forum...you get out what you put in i suppose
