Hi Dave
Bit of a long shot, but we can accommodate about 15 mins from LHR but outdoor tonight would be good, will pm you
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xsandj4funx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
Bi-curious Male, 74
UK
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Well at 61 I'm about to take a much younger lady friend (thank you again to SH) for our first club visit - are we mad? How will the 30 somethings react 
But I'm so old and so keen to go, it doesn't matter :twisted:
The 'no older than your mum/dad and no younger than your youngest son/daughter' rule seems quite sensible - though I broke the second part recently and it seemed pretty good to me
keep on truckin'
But I'm so old and so keen to go, it doesn't matter :twisted:
The 'no older than your mum/dad and no younger than your youngest son/daughter' rule seems quite sensible - though I broke the second part recently and it seemed pretty good to me
keep on truckin'
This makes me wonder just how many men (and women?) are in the same position?
My wife shagged for England when we met - well just for me, mostly, I think. Certainly I never remember her saying 'no'. We even had a few good experiences with one other couple. Then it stopped. She was 43 and it was suddenly 'never' - always an excuse as to why not. After 5 years of kind chat, encouragement, foreplay and no sex, I made the decision to join other couples for mmf fun. She objected and life was difficult, but I had to do it - for me. So after three years she has realised it's no threat to her and the anti feelings are not so bad. I take care to be as discreet as possible and it has worked for me. (I would much rather have good sex with her though!)
To 39, it must be his decision, only he knows all the factors, but in hindsight I really resent the wasted years of no sex - now I'm getting too old (body, not mind!) and it seems like I just gave away all that fun. And I'm fairly sure that you only get one go at life.
Good luck 39
jonb
My wife shagged for England when we met - well just for me, mostly, I think. Certainly I never remember her saying 'no'. We even had a few good experiences with one other couple. Then it stopped. She was 43 and it was suddenly 'never' - always an excuse as to why not. After 5 years of kind chat, encouragement, foreplay and no sex, I made the decision to join other couples for mmf fun. She objected and life was difficult, but I had to do it - for me. So after three years she has realised it's no threat to her and the anti feelings are not so bad. I take care to be as discreet as possible and it has worked for me. (I would much rather have good sex with her though!)
To 39, it must be his decision, only he knows all the factors, but in hindsight I really resent the wasted years of no sex - now I'm getting too old (body, not mind!) and it seems like I just gave away all that fun. And I'm fairly sure that you only get one go at life.
Good luck 39
jonb
Yes, there are a lot of guys on the site, but if you make your replies individual to the particular ad - not pasted/copied etc, you will get some good responses that work out well :thumbup: